Now im up to 300lb

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  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    Just keep trying. .and learn a little something each time.. This is a journey where you just do your best along the way and keep moving ahead. We all have setbacks.. bad days.. just join the rest of us.. and don't give up.

    Thank you i wont give up because the only way to go is forward from here.
  • ashleyncline1
    ashleyncline1 Posts: 6 Member
    Feel free to add me. More friends more support!!
  • Good morning group!

    Well, you have no idea how happy I was to find this group.

    I have struggled with weight, like so many, after I had children and it's never been the same. I have "played around" with 150-200 pounds for years. Lose it, gain it back, lose it, gain it back. Now that I'm 60 I'm finding the lose it part is extremely hard. At one point I was 376.5 pounds and my lowest was 145! So you can see I am/was all over the place. My current starting weight is 340.2 (was 190 only 5 years ago) sigh!

    Cowboy Sar is right - little by little, so first step for me was to get back on here and actually USE the support systems - and people. Hiding and being scared isn't going to fix anything.

    sra455, thanks for being so honest, 2018 was a very trying year on all fronts for me as well.

    sanriohippe - you hit the nail on the head! It didn't happen overnight, it never does, so have to get back on track slowly.

    Puffbrat, I appreciate what you wrote very much. "This is hard not because the actual process is difficult but because it means changing long developed habits, and often having to learn to deal with emotions in other ways."
    My ugly habits have "cycles of hybernation" that need to be changed and therein lies the hard work.

    So folks - I took the first step yesterday, restarted my membership on here and logged my food for the day. That is HUGE for me. Becoming a part of this group is my 2nd step.

    I look forward to your support!
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    Feel free to add me. More friends more support!!

    Thanks i will
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    Good morning group!

    Well, you have no idea how happy I was to find this group.

    I have struggled with weight, like so many, after I had children and it's never been the same. I have "played around" with 150-200 pounds for years. Lose it, gain it back, lose it, gain it back. Now that I'm 60 I'm finding the lose it part is extremely hard. At one point I was 376.5 pounds and my lowest was 145! So you can see I am/was all over the place. My current starting weight is 340.2 (was 190 only 5 years ago) sigh!

    Cowboy Sar is right - little by little, so first step for me was to get back on here and actually USE the support systems - and people. Hiding and being scared isn't going to fix anything.

    sra455, thanks for being so honest, 2018 was a very trying year on all fronts for me as well.

    sanriohippe - you hit the nail on the head! It didn't happen overnight, it never does, so have to get back on track slowly.

    Puffbrat, I appreciate what you wrote very much. "This is hard not because the actual process is difficult but because it means changing long developed habits, and often having to learn to deal with emotions in other ways."
    My ugly habits have "cycles of hybernation" that need to be changed and therein lies the hard work.

    So folks - I took the first step yesterday, restarted my membership on here and logged my food for the day. That is HUGE for me. Becoming a part of this group is my 2nd step.

    I look forward to your support!

    Hey its great that you decided that you wanted a healtheir lifestyle and you gotta prove to yourself that its not to late to start.
    When you lose weight and gain continuously people call it the yo-yo effect and it happened to me plenty of times.
    I still give in to cravings but one step at a time and i just started about 2 weeks ago.
    Good luck!
  • I love roller coasters but my weight roller coaster has got to go! :) Thanks for replying
  • zaraizzy
    zaraizzy Posts: 36 Member
    Hello and good morning everyone! Been struggling with my weight for many years. Heaviest weight was 400 lbs and currently I'm at 297 lb been tuck at this weight for about a year due to physical and personal issues. I am determined and motivated to finally get the rest of this weight off. I figured it'd be easier to do this on mfp where I could have friends who have similar situations like me. Trying to do it all by myself is not working anymore so I decided to get on a mfp and make some friends who have similar situations as me were we can support and encourage one another and would like very much to join this group.
  • Hi zaraizzy - Totally can relate with you - feel free to friend me! We can do this, just not alone!
  • NesCastanon
    NesCastanon Posts: 101 Member
    You can do it. Don’t think about how far you have to go. Take it one day, one meal at a time.
  • ultra_violets
    ultra_violets Posts: 202 Member
    I feel like I'm always advocating keto on here. I don't mean to preach. I can only state my own experience. It's been like a miracle for me. At the end of last year, I was out of control. I couldn't stop. I've been a food addict since I was eleven years old (I'm now 49). I was up to 237.5 lb, my highest weight in 5 years. I'm also diabetic and my blood sugar was through the roof. I knew if I didn't do something, I was going to die. I started keto on January 1st. As of today I'm 212.5 lb and my blood sugar is normal for the first time in years. I feel great and I'm even sleeping better. The best thing to me is that it killed my carb cravings. I was addicted to sweets and fast food, and after a few days on keto, I didn't want them at all. I still don't. Those foods (and many others, from cereal bars to "lite" foods to Lean Cuisines) contain tons of sugar and do nothing but make you constantly crave more. Someone your size should be able to drop at least 50 lb in a month. I don't have cravings and I'm rarely hungry, and I really think it's an option you may want to check out. Get your doctor's permission first, and check out some of the videos on youtube (I recommend Dr. Ken D. Berry, M.D.) if you decide to go for it. And most importantly, as some others have said, don't give up. "Fall down seven times, stand up eight."
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    zaraizzy wrote: »
    Hello and good morning everyone! Been struggling with my weight for many years. Heaviest weight was 400 lbs and currently I'm at 297 lb been tuck at this weight for about a year due to physical and personal issues. I am determined and motivated to finally get the rest of this weight off. I figured it'd be easier to do this on mfp where I could have friends who have similar situations like me. Trying to do it all by myself is not working anymore so I decided to get on a mfp and make some friends who have similar situations as me were we can support and encourage one another and would like very much to join this group.

    Yea when you know and communicate with others that are having or had similar struggles and experiences its easier to move forward and know that your not alone.
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    You can do it. Don’t think about how far you have to go. Take it one day, one meal at a time.

    Thanks it worth the effort and i feel better than ever.
    I cant wait to start the gym soon.
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    I feel like I'm always advocating keto on here. I don't mean to preach. I can only state my own experience. It's been like a miracle for me. At the end of last year, I was out of control. I couldn't stop. I've been a food addict since I was eleven years old (I'm now 49). I was up to 237.5 lb, my highest weight in 5 years. I'm also diabetic and my blood sugar was through the roof. I knew if I didn't do something, I was going to die. I started keto on January 1st. As of today I'm 212.5 lb and my blood sugar is normal for the first time in years. I feel great and I'm even sleeping better. The best thing to me is that it killed my carb cravings. I was addicted to sweets and fast food, and after a few days on keto, I didn't want them at all. I still don't. Those foods (and many others, from cereal bars to "lite" foods to Lean Cuisines) contain tons of sugar and do nothing but make you constantly crave more. Someone your size should be able to drop at least 50 lb in a month. I don't have cravings and I'm rarely hungry, and I really think it's an option you may want to check out. Get your doctor's permission first, and check out some of the videos on youtube (I recommend Dr. Ken D. Berry, M.D.) if you decide to go for it. And most importantly, as some others have said, don't give up. "Fall down seven times, stand up eight."

    Thanks i heard alot about the keto diet good and bad and honestly i think any diet is ok for short terms alone because your body need nutrients and then your going to have to take suppliments just to make up for it.
    Plus losing 50lb in a month is not healthy at all. I would love to lose weight fast but if i try it i will do search from all professional sources only because everyone body is different.
    Ill definitely look into this week and get a list together of pros and cons.
  • kimny72
    kimny72 Posts: 16,011 Member
    I feel like I'm always advocating keto on here. I don't mean to preach. I can only state my own experience. It's been like a miracle for me. At the end of last year, I was out of control. I couldn't stop. I've been a food addict since I was eleven years old (I'm now 49). I was up to 237.5 lb, my highest weight in 5 years. I'm also diabetic and my blood sugar was through the roof. I knew if I didn't do something, I was going to die. I started keto on January 1st. As of today I'm 212.5 lb and my blood sugar is normal for the first time in years. I feel great and I'm even sleeping better. The best thing to me is that it killed my carb cravings. I was addicted to sweets and fast food, and after a few days on keto, I didn't want them at all. I still don't. Those foods (and many others, from cereal bars to "lite" foods to Lean Cuisines) contain tons of sugar and do nothing but make you constantly crave more. Someone your size should be able to drop at least 50 lb in a month. I don't have cravings and I'm rarely hungry, and I really think it's an option you may want to check out. Get your doctor's permission first, and check out some of the videos on youtube (I recommend Dr. Ken D. Berry, M.D.) if you decide to go for it. And most importantly, as some others have said, don't give up. "Fall down seven times, stand up eight."

    Thanks i heard alot about the keto diet good and bad and honestly i think any diet is ok for short terms alone because your body need nutrients and then your going to have to take suppliments just to make up for it.
    Plus losing 50lb in a month is not healthy at all. I would love to lose weight fast but if i try it i will do search from all professional sources only because everyone body is different.
    Ill definitely look into this week and get a list together of pros and cons.

    It's so important to find a way of eating that works for you personally! While some people do well on keto because they find fat filling and carbs Rev their appetite, some of us are the exact opposite. I find carbs like pasta, potatoes, rice, and oats really filling and can easily overeat fats like chicken thighs, cheese, cream, and butter.

    Finding a way of eating that keeps you satiated and energetic at the right calorie level is IMHO the key. Once you've got it, eating right just becomes an easy habit and keeping the weight off is no biggie.

    Accurate and consistent logging while noting how you feel throughout the day can really help you see the patterns - what foods fill you up, which are a waste of calories.

    Check out the Most Helpful Posts threads pinned to the top of each forum and Good Luck!
  • SuzOh
    SuzOh Posts: 262 Member
    SuzOh wrote: »
    I keep falling off track and losing my progress. I want to lose weight so bad and its my biggest obstacle that i cant seem to overcome to complete. It would be good to have some friends and a good support system. I know im not gonna give up and im here for anyone else who also needs support. Feel free to add me.

    Hi, I can relate. This last year life has been very difficult in just about every way, especially the last 6 months. I just weighed myself for the first time since September. It was bad, but not as bad as I expected. I've gained about 8 lbs since then (currently 210 lbs), but thought the gain would be more like 15 - 20 lbs because my exercise has decreased so much. I want to lose 50 lbs over the next 10 months.
    I've done it before and maintained for several years, so I know I can do it.

    So today I restart once again. It seems like a never ending battle, but we are worth the effort.

    Yea it's always the same for me every summer i stay in my room because i dont wanna sweat or go outside or i cant do what others do because i overheat quickly. But oh no not this year ima burn up in the sun lol and go on walks and carry a rag. I am breaking this cycle.

    You're words are motivation for me too! Let's do it!
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    kimny72 wrote: »
    I feel like I'm always advocating keto on here. I don't mean to preach. I can only state my own experience. It's been like a miracle for me. At the end of last year, I was out of control. I couldn't stop. I've been a food addict since I was eleven years old (I'm now 49). I was up to 237.5 lb, my highest weight in 5 years. I'm also diabetic and my blood sugar was through the roof. I knew if I didn't do something, I was going to die. I started keto on January 1st. As of today I'm 212.5 lb and my blood sugar is normal for the first time in years. I feel great and I'm even sleeping better. The best thing to me is that it killed my carb cravings. I was addicted to sweets and fast food, and after a few days on keto, I didn't want them at all. I still don't. Those foods (and many others, from cereal bars to "lite" foods to Lean Cuisines) contain tons of sugar and do nothing but make you constantly crave more. Someone your size should be able to drop at least 50 lb in a month. I don't have cravings and I'm rarely hungry, and I really think it's an option you may want to check out. Get your doctor's permission first, and check out some of the videos on youtube (I recommend Dr. Ken D. Berry, M.D.) if you decide to go for it. And most importantly, as some others have said, don't give up. "Fall down seven times, stand up eight."

    Thanks i heard alot about the keto diet good and bad and honestly i think any diet is ok for short terms alone because your body need nutrients and then your going to have to take suppliments just to make up for it.
    Plus losing 50lb in a month is not healthy at all. I would love to lose weight fast but if i try it i will do search from all professional sources only because everyone body is different.
    Ill definitely look into this week and get a list together of pros and cons.

    It's so important to find a way of eating that works for you personally! While some people do well on keto because they find fat filling and carbs Rev their appetite, some of us are the exact opposite. I find carbs like pasta, potatoes, rice, and oats really filling and can easily overeat fats like chicken thighs, cheese, cream, and butter.

    Finding a way of eating that keeps you satiated and energetic at the right calorie level is IMHO the key. Once you've got it, eating right just becomes an easy habit and keeping the weight off is no biggie.

    Accurate and consistent logging while noting how you feel throughout the day can really help you see the patterns - what foods fill you up, which are a waste of calories.

    Check out the Most Helpful Posts threads pinned to the top of each forum and Good Luck!

    Thanks i have noticed that everyone is different in what works for them.
    I want to try keto though for about two weeks and see but im doing my research on it first.
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    SuzOh wrote: »
    SuzOh wrote: »
    I keep falling off track and losing my progress. I want to lose weight so bad and its my biggest obstacle that i cant seem to overcome to complete. It would be good to have some friends and a good support system. I know im not gonna give up and im here for anyone else who also needs support. Feel free to add me.

    Hi, I can relate. This last year life has been very difficult in just about every way, especially the last 6 months. I just weighed myself for the first time since September. It was bad, but not as bad as I expected. I've gained about 8 lbs since then (currently 210 lbs), but thought the gain would be more like 15 - 20 lbs because my exercise has decreased so much. I want to lose 50 lbs over the next 10 months.
    I've done it before and maintained for several years, so I know I can do it.

    So today I restart once again. It seems like a never ending battle, but we are worth the effort.

    Yea it's always the same for me every summer i stay in my room because i dont wanna sweat or go outside or i cant do what others do because i overheat quickly. But oh no not this year ima burn up in the sun lol and go on walks and carry a rag. I am breaking this cycle.

    You're words are motivation for me too! Let's do it!

    yes this is the year to break all bad habits.
  • New_Heavens_Earth
    New_Heavens_Earth Posts: 610 Member
    Hi! I sent you a request because I'm looking for support, and happy to provide encouragement.
    I went from 208 to 137, messed around with other plans, went through some life difficulties, and back at 150. I feel it and don't like it.

    I'd say that not quitting and consistency in your habits are important. Keep logging the good, bad, and ugly. Any activity counts.

    You can do this!

    Anyone can add me. 😊
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    Hi! I sent you a request because I'm looking for support, and happy to provide encouragement.
    I went from 208 to 137, messed around with other plans, went through some life difficulties, and back at 150. I feel it and don't like it.

    I'd say that not quitting and consistency in your habits are important. Keep logging the good, bad, and ugly. Any activity counts.

    You can do this!

    Anyone can add me. 😊

    Thanks I log even when my calories go over. And today i didnt hit my goal but im still going to give it my all.
  • nynjcitygirlelaine
    nynjcitygirlelaine Posts: 27 Member
    The comments on here are wonderful! I'm not the author but you are all inspiring me too! Thanks.
  • fergusonjamillah
    fergusonjamillah Posts: 83 Member
    The comments on here are wonderful! I'm not the author but you are all inspiring me too! Thanks.

    Hows your progress so far
  • nynjcitygirlelaine
    nynjcitygirlelaine Posts: 27 Member
    I have increased my exercise and the weightloss is slower. Was disappointed that only lost 8.2 pounds in a month. BUT, I can feel the difference in my clothing, so I'm holding onto that. In addition, my energy level is gradually increasing. What I am finding is that if I exercise later in the day (after 3) it takes me a long time to fall asleep. I have just ordered Melatonin to see if that will help as sleep is very important for ongoing weightloss.
    Thank you for asking.
    Elaine