what turns you on in the opposite gender?

lucylue21
lucylue21 Posts: 214
edited October 1 in Chit-Chat
so for me i like a guy who respects me.
2. nice eyes
3. strong hands
4. can hold a nice conversation

what else?
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  • pinkgigi
    pinkgigi Posts: 693 Member
    Funny, he has to be funny.

    GG
  • SergeantSunshine_reused
    SergeantSunshine_reused Posts: 5,382 Member
    hairy legs :D
  • LovingMe19
    LovingMe19 Posts: 380 Member
    Shoulders, hands, nice arms, and nice lips :)
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:
  • SoldierDad
    SoldierDad Posts: 1,602
    She has to be a cowgirl and wear a cowboy hat. ;) Seriously I think there is something gorgeous and sexy about every woman God placed on this earth. It can be the way she laughs, smiles, loves her kids, etc. So it's a case by case thing.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    So far I am what you want!!!


    Ladies not dudes
  • ewejewel
    ewejewel Posts: 36 Member
    Thoughtfulness and patience, respect and kindness, big shoulders and big hands...:happy:
  • LovingMe19
    LovingMe19 Posts: 380 Member
    She has to be a cowgirl and wear a cowboy hat. ;) Seriously I think there is something gorgeous and sexy about every woman God placed on this earth. It can be the way she laughs, smiles, loves her kids, etc. So it's a case by case thing.

    Love this :)
  • Beards beards BEARDSSSSSSS! Facial hair enthusiast right here ;)
    Oh and I like nice teeth that are kind of large lol
  • overzoelous
    overzoelous Posts: 161 Member
    A sense of humor that matches mine
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Nice,friendly,intelligent,confident,conversational,enjoys warm and sweet moments,feminine...
    Long list of things. :smile:
  • jppizana
    jppizana Posts: 59 Member
    1. eyes
    2. smile
    3. volunteering/ giving for the sake of giving and not expecting something in return
    4. intelligent/ critical thinking/ doesn't follow the crowd
    5. playful
    6. continuously (mentally) improving himself

    (if you can't tell by now, I have a very specific person in mind ;))
  • JoLeeFA
    JoLeeFA Posts: 211 Member
    turned OFF by "pretty" men - Man-ly men do it for me! You know balding is ok, sweaty, jeans and tees kinda guy.
    Intellegent is pretty important too!
  • liberaltendencies
    liberaltendencies Posts: 150 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:

    excellent, same here! ha!
  • Jessicaruby
    Jessicaruby Posts: 881 Member
    they have to be creative and funny
  • HoopFire5602
    HoopFire5602 Posts: 423 Member
    Strong arms, shoulders, and must be really really dorky. :p
  • mistyb47711
    mistyb47711 Posts: 861 Member
    What's that muscle from the neck to the top of the arm??? Traps? I cant remember but Woohoo!! Totally Hot when you can see them :)
  • ranewell
    ranewell Posts: 621 Member
    Sense of humor and intelligence.
  • fitfud
    fitfud Posts: 9
    gotta get my strange homour...without that he's got nothin! Did i mention chiseled jaw and five o'clock shadow?! :)
  • I'm drawn to computer geek's, and blue eyes... Awwwwww
  • Levedi
    Levedi Posts: 290 Member
    My BF's biceps and his hands - he's not a gym guy at all, but he plays the piano and his arms and hands are so strong. Big turn on. Also his smile and goofy sense of humor. And listening to him play the piano. Cliched, I know, but it's true.
  • Melaniemarie86
    Melaniemarie86 Posts: 57 Member
    hairy legs :D

    Agreed... Haha... I also love that guys are alwaysss warm because I'm alwaysss cold. I love big, warm hands and dark, thick hair. All of the personality stuff is a given though... smart, funny, nice, you know, just be a genuinely good guy. :)
  • leynak
    leynak Posts: 963 Member
    Tall- I love tall guys (I prefer over 6') :wink:

    & of course a good sense of humor
  • BAMA66
    BAMA66 Posts: 240
    I love pretty eyes and smile
    I like humor and intelligence
  • fitfud
    fitfud Posts: 9
    So far I am what you want!!!

    thats what you think.... :)

    Ladies not dudes

    LOL....
  • kaylynn54
    kaylynn54 Posts: 141
    She has to be a cowgirl and wear a cowboy hat. ;) Seriously I think there is something gorgeous and sexy about every woman God placed on this earth. It can be the way she laughs, smiles, loves her kids, etc. So it's a case by case thing.


    I think that this is the best answer :-)
  • GTOgirl1969
    GTOgirl1969 Posts: 2,527 Member
    Respect, honesty, and patience.

    Oh...and a 1968 Dodge Charger, deep blue eyes, a killer smile, and a nice @ss would be great, too. :bigsmile:
  • LisaKyle11
    LisaKyle11 Posts: 662 Member
    this thread is destined for about anything...

    anyway, for me:

    *Sense of Humor
    *Charismatic personality
    *Spirituality (non organized religion)
    *Formed political/worldly views
    *In touch with feminine side
    *Nice voice and sexy eyes are pluses as well!

    **lucky to have found these in my husband!
  • AwesomeSauce4
    AwesomeSauce4 Posts: 1,062 Member
    A man who is loving and not afraid to be their own person,likeable personality, loyalty to his friends and family, and a good work ethic, sense of humor and a sense of adventure is always sexy! I’m also a sucker for tall, athletic guys who are driven and ambitious. Some big ol’ strong arms to hold me never hurt either. :wink:
  • Noonoo757
    Noonoo757 Posts: 280 Member
    he has got to make me laugh because as we start to age with one another and it all starts to sag and fall out i still want to be able to have a funny bunny :)
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