what turns you on in the opposite gender?

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  • Chubby_bunnyy
    Chubby_bunnyy Posts: 50 Member
    someone with fair skin, who takes care to dress welll, thin with a little muscle, shaggy hair, hipbones that stick out

    someone who is funny, witty, artistic/cultured, open-minded/unjudgemental, kind
  • ebramlett
    ebramlett Posts: 306 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids
  • samrosenblum
    samrosenblum Posts: 2 Member
    Has to get my weird sense of humor. Just be nice and understanding. Good cook, Momma spoiled me sorry ladies~open minded, non judgemental of anyone, except who ever I may judge, lol...
  • CoachMaritova
    CoachMaritova Posts: 409 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids

    :love: :heart: :love: :heart:
  • JsGirl93
    JsGirl93 Posts: 1,156
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids
    Damn it! If I weren't already married I'd snatch you up for the massages alone! :heart:
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids

    well hello..... :laugh:
  • Eye contact.
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:

    Must also be able to afford enough alcohol to lower my standards
  • gdr1976
    gdr1976 Posts: 460 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:
    I LOL'd
  • Facial hair:)
  • ummlovelovesyou
    ummlovelovesyou Posts: 1,024 Member
    1. guy who respects me
    2. someone who can make me laugh
    3. good kisser.


    :smooched:
  • Genem30
    Genem30 Posts: 431 Member
    I like a woman who's smart, easy going, likes to laugh, that enjoys affection, and loves to smile.

    A woman with a few well placed curves and a love for classic sci-fi doesn't hurt either (when I talk about The Day The Earth Stood Still, she doesn't talk about how she loves Keanu Reeves, because, no, not that one!) :).
  • Ireshgurl
    Ireshgurl Posts: 559
    A shy guy. That was my hubby when i met him, lol. Also eyes, i love a set of beautiful eyes that i can just stare into.
  • reepobob
    reepobob Posts: 1,172 Member
    So far I am what you want!!!


    Ladies not dudes

    Damn, I was gonna send you a PM, big guy...all the good ones are unavailable!
  • Intelligence and balance.
  • reepobob
    reepobob Posts: 1,172 Member
    Physically:

    1. Beautiful eyes
    2. Full lips
    3. Curvy
    4. Nice caboose

    Personality

    1. Sense of humor
    2. Cute laugh
    3. Caring, honest, confident
    4. Intelligent
    5. She needs to be her own person
    6. She needs to accept my three daughters like they were her own

    I believe I have met a woman who meets all of those bullets and then some...I am absolutely the luckiest guy in the entire universe...
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    nice defined arms are my weakness. *droolsssssssssss*
  • alex215
    alex215 Posts: 518 Member
    a good credit score.
  • lucylue21
    lucylue21 Posts: 214
    a good credit score.

    lol
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    a good credit score.

    hahahaha love it!
  • sonnyless
    sonnyless Posts: 142 Member
    Politeness
    Intelligence
    Height..... I'm a sucker for tall men :-)
  • When my husband just gets out of the shower and hasn't toweled off. Yeah. Every single time....
  • Valechka
    Valechka Posts: 192
    intelligent, wit, smart, good looking, sporty and little bit ambitious. on top of being kind, loving animals, nature and good at heart. ooops, I just described my husband ))))
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    My list is super long, but my top five:
    1) Is intelligent (can keep up with me intellectually)
    2) Is outgoing
    3) Has a smile that can brighten my day
    4) Wants to travel with me (I get very itchy feet)
    5) Can cook
  • chantell7
    chantell7 Posts: 167 Member
    Mmm I love tradie's , there so sexy with the working hands , sexy shoulders and great bodys... Mmmm yummy. Lol wait I just described my partner lol.. Oh and v8 black utes turn me on ... Lmao I love them.
  • Murphk323
    Murphk323 Posts: 184
    respectful.
    sense of humor.
    nice smile/eyes.
    strong. - (someone I can feel safe around = hugest. turn on. ever.)
    focused and has goals.
    athletic.
    loves dogs.
    independent!!! /does not live off mama still.

    now only if i can find someone where i live with half these qualities....damn damn damn.
  • samb
    samb Posts: 464 Member
    respect, for all of the important people in their life and themselves
    sense of humor
    goals and ambition
    fun to be around and willing to try new things, especially outdoors
    patience
    sensual
    thoughtful
    able to hold a good conversation .... but silence is good too ... if its not an awkward silence thats a really good thing :P
    among many others.....
  • gdr1976
    gdr1976 Posts: 460 Member
    respect, for all of the important people in their life and themselves
    sense of humor
    goals and ambition
    fun to be around and willing to try new things, especially outdoors
    patience
    sensual
    thoughtful
    able to hold a good conversation .... but silence is good too ... if its not an awkward silence thats a really good thing :P
    among many others.....

    ^^this
  • red01angel
    red01angel Posts: 806 Member
    Strong handshake (I judge people's handshakes pretty harshly)
    Can make me laugh
    Can hold an intelligent conversation
    Adventurous
    Smooth talker
    Good kisser
    Active
    Not afraid to be playful or a little nerdy (or pretty dirty :wink: )
    Smells good
  • samb
    samb Posts: 464 Member
    Strong handshake (I judge people's handshakes pretty harshly)
    Can make me laugh
    Can hold an intelligent conversation
    Adventurous
    Smooth talker
    Good kisser
    Active
    Not afraid to be playful or a little nerdy (or pretty dirty :wink: )
    Smells good


    I like these too :) and i also think handshakes say a lot. i hate when i meet someone and they go all limp just cuz im a small girl! come on now i can handle it!
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