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what turns you on in the opposite gender?

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  • Posts: 50 Member
    someone with fair skin, who takes care to dress welll, thin with a little muscle, shaggy hair, hipbones that stick out

    someone who is funny, witty, artistic/cultured, open-minded/unjudgemental, kind
  • Posts: 306 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids
  • Posts: 2 Member
    Has to get my weird sense of humor. Just be nice and understanding. Good cook, Momma spoiled me sorry ladies~open minded, non judgemental of anyone, except who ever I may judge, lol...
  • Posts: 409 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids

    :love: :heart: :love: :heart:
  • Posts: 1,156
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids
    Damn it! If I weren't already married I'd snatch you up for the massages alone! :heart:
  • Posts: 3,450 Member
    In no particular order:

    a. confidence
    b. fit and healthy, or working towards that
    c. responsible
    d. loves to party
    e. outdoorsy like myself
    f. eyes I can get lost in
    g. infectious smile
    h. loves massages ( I like giving massages)
    i. loves kids

    well hello..... :laugh:
  • Eye contact.
  • Posts: 1,927 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:

    Must also be able to afford enough alcohol to lower my standards
  • Posts: 460 Member
    Pulse and low standards :love:
    I LOL'd
  • Facial hair:)
  • Posts: 1,024 Member
    1. guy who respects me
    2. someone who can make me laugh
    3. good kisser.


    :smooched:
  • Posts: 431 Member
    I like a woman who's smart, easy going, likes to laugh, that enjoys affection, and loves to smile.

    A woman with a few well placed curves and a love for classic sci-fi doesn't hurt either (when I talk about The Day The Earth Stood Still, she doesn't talk about how she loves Keanu Reeves, because, no, not that one!) :).
  • Posts: 559
    A shy guy. That was my hubby when i met him, lol. Also eyes, i love a set of beautiful eyes that i can just stare into.
  • Posts: 1,172 Member
    So far I am what you want!!!


    Ladies not dudes

    Damn, I was gonna send you a PM, big guy...all the good ones are unavailable!
  • Intelligence and balance.
  • Posts: 1,172 Member
    Physically:

    1. Beautiful eyes
    2. Full lips
    3. Curvy
    4. Nice caboose

    Personality

    1. Sense of humor
    2. Cute laugh
    3. Caring, honest, confident
    4. Intelligent
    5. She needs to be her own person
    6. She needs to accept my three daughters like they were her own

    I believe I have met a woman who meets all of those bullets and then some...I am absolutely the luckiest guy in the entire universe...
  • Posts: 2,071 Member
    nice defined arms are my weakness. *droolsssssssssss*
  • Posts: 518 Member
    a good credit score.
  • Posts: 214
    a good credit score.

    lol
  • Posts: 2,071 Member
    a good credit score.

    hahahaha love it!
  • Posts: 142 Member
    Politeness
    Intelligence
    Height..... I'm a sucker for tall men :-)
  • When my husband just gets out of the shower and hasn't toweled off. Yeah. Every single time....
  • Posts: 192
    intelligent, wit, smart, good looking, sporty and little bit ambitious. on top of being kind, loving animals, nature and good at heart. ooops, I just described my husband ))))
  • Posts: 3,965 Member
    My list is super long, but my top five:
    1) Is intelligent (can keep up with me intellectually)
    2) Is outgoing
    3) Has a smile that can brighten my day
    4) Wants to travel with me (I get very itchy feet)
    5) Can cook
  • Posts: 167 Member
    Mmm I love tradie's , there so sexy with the working hands , sexy shoulders and great bodys... Mmmm yummy. Lol wait I just described my partner lol.. Oh and v8 black utes turn me on ... Lmao I love them.
  • Posts: 184
    respectful.
    sense of humor.
    nice smile/eyes.
    strong. - (someone I can feel safe around = hugest. turn on. ever.)
    focused and has goals.
    athletic.
    loves dogs.
    independent!!! /does not live off mama still.

    now only if i can find someone where i live with half these qualities....damn damn damn.
  • Posts: 464 Member
    respect, for all of the important people in their life and themselves
    sense of humor
    goals and ambition
    fun to be around and willing to try new things, especially outdoors
    patience
    sensual
    thoughtful
    able to hold a good conversation .... but silence is good too ... if its not an awkward silence thats a really good thing :P
    among many others.....
  • Posts: 460 Member
    respect, for all of the important people in their life and themselves
    sense of humor
    goals and ambition
    fun to be around and willing to try new things, especially outdoors
    patience
    sensual
    thoughtful
    able to hold a good conversation .... but silence is good too ... if its not an awkward silence thats a really good thing :P
    among many others.....

    ^^this
  • Posts: 806 Member
    Strong handshake (I judge people's handshakes pretty harshly)
    Can make me laugh
    Can hold an intelligent conversation
    Adventurous
    Smooth talker
    Good kisser
    Active
    Not afraid to be playful or a little nerdy (or pretty dirty :wink: )
    Smells good
  • Posts: 464 Member
    Strong handshake (I judge people's handshakes pretty harshly)
    Can make me laugh
    Can hold an intelligent conversation
    Adventurous
    Smooth talker
    Good kisser
    Active
    Not afraid to be playful or a little nerdy (or pretty dirty :wink: )
    Smells good


    I like these too :) and i also think handshakes say a lot. i hate when i meet someone and they go all limp just cuz im a small girl! come on now i can handle it!
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