things that instantly turn you off

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  • cartern1
    cartern1 Posts: 270 Member
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    ha i could pull up a huge list but I won't

    I once never called a girl for a second date 'cos she didn't hold her knife & fork right - it really disturbed me for some reason.
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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    hairy chest and back . instant turn off

    I agree, I hate this on a woman...
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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    facial hair in general yucks me out

    Yeah, not fond of this on the opposite sex either...
  • Sweetcheeks278
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    Men who refuse to discipline their wives.

    LMAO! Someone has to keep us in line right?
  • meggers123
    meggers123 Posts: 711 Member
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    everything that anyone who has ever been on MTV does.
  • TankGirl71
    TankGirl71 Posts: 241 Member
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    Guys who rev their A. Trucks B. Motorcycles C. Sports Cars at every traffic light. It's like a three year old banging pots together to get mommy's attention.
  • VELVET2688
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    arrogance

    sarcasm

    lazy

    non pet lovers
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
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    burping, ball scratching, *kitten* scratching, booger digging, and farting!

    God, you are just hard to please. ;)
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
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    Guys who rev their A. Trucks B. Motorcycles C. Sports Cars at every traffic light. It's like a three year old banging pots together to get mommy's attention.

    I rev my car, but only when I am feeling feisty with someone next to me that wants to race :D
  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
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    Smoking
    Bad breath
    Meek personality
    Unintelligent conversation/slow speech
    Facial hair
    Long hair
    Back hair

    oh good Lord, I need to stop before I'm here all night...
  • heather7marie
    heather7marie Posts: 506 Member
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    I don't mind a little bit of facial hair, but too much is a bad thing. Smoking turns me off, but I have dated smokers in the past. I also cannot stand arrogance. Confidence is sexy, but there's a huge different between being confident and being arrogant.

    Oh yes. And back/ chest hair. Hair in general grosses me out. hahaha I can deal if it's "well groomed," but icky.
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
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    Ok, I am gonna post a serious list.

    My turnoffs, in no particular order:

    Poor Hygiene
    Lack of intelligence
    No motivation/Lazy
    Women that stick to ONLY certain roles (Guys mow the lawn, women do dishes/ect)
    Rudeness/Stuck up
    Arrogance
    No goals in life
    Uneducated
    Spending problems (more than they can afford)
    Gold Diggers
    Girls that don't communicate
    Girls that are jealous
    Girls that expect their man to be jealous of them
    Girls that lack personal responsibility
    Girls that don't believe they have a hand in their own destiny
    Girls that tease TOO much
    Girls that live at home
    Girls that are unadventurous/boring in bed
    Girls that are mean to kids
    Girls that have no idea on how to nurture. Ever.
    Girls with no confidence
    Smokers
    Bad Breath/Dirty mouth
    Overly religious people
    Girls that have multiple kids with multiple guys, none of them a long term relationship (5+ years) Seriously, are you too ****ing stupid to go on ***** control (Yes, I know that's misspelled)
    Women that abuse the system
    Women that think the government should be their nanny and take care of them and their 11 illegitimate children
    Women that are clingy.
    Women that refuse to accept blame/apologize

    Ok, I am tired of ranting.

    Basically, Have some self respect, live like you are the mother****er in charge of your own destiny, and we will get along fine.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
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    Ok, I am gonna post a serious list.

    My turnoffs, in no particular order:

    Poor Hygiene
    Lack of intelligence
    No motivation/Lazy
    Women that stick to ONLY certain roles (Guys mow the lawn, women do dishes/ect)
    Rudeness/Stuck up
    Arrogance
    No goals in life
    Uneducated
    Spending problems (more than they can afford)
    Gold Diggers
    Girls that don't communicate
    Girls that are jealous
    Girls that expect their man to be jealous of them
    Girls that lack personal responsibility
    Girls that don't believe they have a hand in their own destiny
    Girls that tease TOO much
    Girls that live at home
    Girls that are unadventurous/boring in bed
    Girls that are mean to kids
    Girls that have no idea on how to nurture. Ever.
    Girls with no confidence
    Smokers
    Bad Breath/Dirty mouth
    Overly religious people
    Girls that have multiple kids with multiple guys, none of them a long term relationship (5+ years) Seriously, are you too ****ing stupid to go on ***** control (Yes, I know that's misspelled)
    Women that abuse the system
    Women that think the government should be their nanny and take care of them and their 11 illegitimate children
    Women that are clingy.
    Women that refuse to accept blame/apologize

    Ok, I am tired of ranting.

    Basically, Have some self respect, live like you are the mother****er in charge of your own destiny, and we will get along fine.

    Dirty mouth? Clean it up with Orbitz.
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
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    Ok, I am gonna post a serious list.

    My turnoffs, in no particular order:

    Poor Hygiene
    Lack of intelligence
    No motivation/Lazy
    Women that stick to ONLY certain roles (Guys mow the lawn, women do dishes/ect)
    Rudeness/Stuck up
    Arrogance
    No goals in life
    Uneducated
    Spending problems (more than they can afford)
    Gold Diggers
    Girls that don't communicate
    Girls that are jealous
    Girls that expect their man to be jealous of them
    Girls that lack personal responsibility
    Girls that don't believe they have a hand in their own destiny
    Girls that tease TOO much
    Girls that live at home
    Girls that are unadventurous/boring in bed
    Girls that are mean to kids
    Girls that have no idea on how to nurture. Ever.
    Girls with no confidence
    Smokers
    Bad Breath/Dirty mouth
    Overly religious people
    Girls that have multiple kids with multiple guys, none of them a long term relationship (5+ years) Seriously, are you too ****ing stupid to go on ***** control (Yes, I know that's misspelled)
    Women that abuse the system
    Women that think the government should be their nanny and take care of them and their 11 illegitimate children
    Women that are clingy.
    Women that refuse to accept blame/apologize

    Ok, I am tired of ranting.

    Basically, Have some self respect, live like you are the mother****er in charge of your own destiny, and we will get along fine.

    Dirty mouth? Clean it up with Orbitz.

    ROfl..... Thats the only part of the whole post you saw, isnt it?
  • ladolcevita26
    ladolcevita26 Posts: 9 Member
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    1. BAD SPELLERS- I can not tell you how annoying this is to me. Real life examples, until is not spelled intell and there is a difference between your and you're. Ah, this baffles me.

    2. Overly confident/arrogant...especially without good reason.

    3. Braggers- No kidding, I went on a guy once. He did not pay for dinner (another turn off) and when we were leaving the restaurant he turns to me and says, "you know you're in a beamer right" I'm dead serious.

    4. No license/car/job- You're an adult and these are basic necessities. It goes without saying.

    I should add that I mean chronically bad spellers I'm not trippin if its every once in a while ;)
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
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    So far, I don't have many of these negative character traits. Which I think is a good thing....

    :D

    Maybe a few of them though... sometimes people can think I am arrogant. I am just extremely confident. ;)
  • cheesesandwich
    cheesesandwich Posts: 79 Member
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    things I hate in a partner include:

    men who don't care about style, or think that being well dressed makes them look "gay" (like that's a bad thing? whatever)
    having no ambition
    not caring about news or current events
    owning a vehicle significantly larger than what you actually need to perform your daily routine - like a hummer or gigantic truck in the city. it's kind of vulgar and really obnoxious.
    super picky eaters - once a boyfriend cried over parmesan cheese on breadsticks. you've got to be kidding me?
    thinking that not reading is cool
    being clingy
    sexist, racist, classist or homophobic attitudes, language and jokes. not funny, never ok.
    religious zealots
    being culturally ignorant
    voting republican
  • diplomad
    diplomad Posts: 51
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    Having a penis. Total deal breaker.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
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    Many many things!

    Tattoos - bleurgh
    Vanity
    Bad dental hygiene
    Slouching
    greasy hair
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
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    Ok, I am gonna post a serious list.

    My turnoffs, in no particular order:

    Poor Hygiene
    Lack of intelligence
    No motivation/Lazy
    Women that stick to ONLY certain roles (Guys mow the lawn, women do dishes/ect)
    Rudeness/Stuck up
    Arrogance
    No goals in life
    Uneducated
    Spending problems (more than they can afford)
    Gold Diggers
    Girls that don't communicate
    Girls that are jealous
    Girls that expect their man to be jealous of them
    Girls that lack personal responsibility
    Girls that don't believe they have a hand in their own destiny
    Girls that tease TOO much
    Girls that live at home
    Girls that are unadventurous/boring in bed
    Girls that are mean to kids
    Girls that have no idea on how to nurture. Ever.
    Girls with no confidence
    Smokers
    Bad Breath/Dirty mouth
    Overly religious people
    Girls that have multiple kids with multiple guys, none of them a long term relationship (5+ years) Seriously, are you too ****ing stupid to go on ***** control (Yes, I know that's misspelled)
    Women that abuse the system
    Women that think the government should be their nanny and take care of them and their 11 illegitimate children
    Women that are clingy.
    Women that refuse to accept blame/apologize

    Ok, I am tired of ranting.

    Basically, Have some self respect, live like you are the mother****er in charge of your own destiny, and we will get along fine.

    Actually pretty much all of this the other way round too. Especially jealousy. Nothing is less attractive than a jealous man.