How to break Sugar addiction
adchak
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Pl help!!!
I am 5 ft 7 inches, 184 lbs and have lost 20 lbs last year. However my sugar addiction keeps gettg in the way as I make progress. My goal wt is 150 lbs and Im tryg to lose this slowly.
I go abt 7-10 days without sugar and them when I have it , it triggers me to have sugar again and again. Before you know Ive had a big choc cake for dessert 3-4 days in a row. I do 5:2 intermittent fasting to balance things out. I really need help to keep my addiction under control.
Should I eat a piece of dark choc everyday? What has helped ppl to break the addictiom? Would love to get some tips
I am 5 ft 7 inches, 184 lbs and have lost 20 lbs last year. However my sugar addiction keeps gettg in the way as I make progress. My goal wt is 150 lbs and Im tryg to lose this slowly.
I go abt 7-10 days without sugar and them when I have it , it triggers me to have sugar again and again. Before you know Ive had a big choc cake for dessert 3-4 days in a row. I do 5:2 intermittent fasting to balance things out. I really need help to keep my addiction under control.
Should I eat a piece of dark choc everyday? What has helped ppl to break the addictiom? Would love to get some tips
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Figure out how to fit it into your calories. I eat some sort of chocolate every day because I enjoy it!9
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Pl help!!!
I am 5 ft 7 inches, 184 lbs and have lost 20 lbs last year. However my sugar addiction keeps gettg in the way as I make progress. My goal wt is 150 lbs and Im tryg to lose this slowly.
I go abt 7-10 days without sugar and them when I have it , it triggers me to have sugar again and again. Before you know Ive had a big choc cake for dessert 3-4 days in a row. I do 5:2 intermittent fasting to balance things out. I really need help to keep my addiction under control.
Should I eat a piece of dark choc everyday? What has helped ppl to break the addictiom? Would love to get some tips
Maybe 5:2 isn't the right plan for you if it's leading to restriction/ binge cycles. Lower carbs and sugar and eating at a reasonable calorie restriction daily may work better and if IF helps you, do 16:8?14 -
It's not an addiction, sounds more like too much restriction causing you to cave. Do you plan on giving these things up forever? If not, find a way to fit. Find lower cal sweets. Bank calories.18
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Sometimes it's not the sugar--it's the fat that goes with it. I've found eating nuts (careful they're calorie dense) will sometimes beat the craving. Low fat Greek yogurt with fruit or chocolate toppings or nuts, plus a little honey or marmalade can also work. Try different things to see what works for you, but as the other posters have said, you're probably restricting too much. That brings on binges. Don't worry, it's all trial and error to find what works best. Remember you want to keep the weight off and need to find a long term solution. Good luck.2
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Sounds like too much restricting. Actual chocolate is healthy and nutritious. I don’t know why it’s demonised so much. Save about 150 calories for a few squares of milk/dark chocolate. Yes even milk chocolate can be part of your plan! My favourite is Lindt chocolate. It’s soooo creamy and mouthwatering...7
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OP, if chocolate cake doesn't fit into your plan or you have trouble controlling yourself around it, then why are you still bringing it into your house/putting yourself into situations where you feel out of control?
Most people can still fit in some treats into their calorie plan, in moderation, but if you're not at this point then it's best to just avoid foods that cause you to stumble. The further along you get into the process you may discover that you can re-introduce them.
eta: I'm not a sweets person but I love savory/salty. I know I struggle with things like chips, crackers etc so I no longer include them in my day to day plan. Once in a while I will have a single serve package of something, where it's pre-portioned out and there's no option to eat more. I know my local grocery store sells single slices of cake in the bakery department, maybe see if that's an option for you?
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Pl help!!!
I am 5 ft 7 inches, 184 lbs and have lost 20 lbs last year. However my sugar addiction keeps gettg in the way as I make progress. My goal wt is 150 lbs and Im tryg to lose this slowly.
I go abt 7-10 days without sugar and them when I have it , it triggers me to have sugar again and again. Before you know Ive had a big choc cake for dessert 3-4 days in a row. I do 5:2 intermittent fasting to balance things out. I really need help to keep my addiction under control.
Should I eat a piece of dark choc everyday? What has helped ppl to break the addictiom? Would love to get some tips
Sounds to me like you're being overly restrictive in your approach and that this is leading to failure.
Sugar is neither addictive nor does it cause weight gain in a calorie deficit.
My recommendation is to stop trying to eliminate sweets entirely, establish a realistic calorie goal and fit treats into your diet to avoid over-indulging when cravings occur.16 -
Agree with above posters - sugar in and of itself isn't addictive; and by restricting something you crave too heavily, you may be setting yourself up to give in and overindulge. That said, some people do have difficulty moderating their intake of certain foods. If there is a particular food that you have trouble eating in reasonable amounts that fit within your calorie deficit without crowding out other nutritional components - you may want to look for alternatives to that. Chocolate cake is calorie dense not just because of the sugar but because of the fat as well. If it's chocolate specifically that you're craving, then yes, small pieces of chocolate worked into your daily plan may be a good option for you.
Did you eat sweets/chocolate while you were losing the first 20 lbs? Was there a particular approach that worked well for you? Or did you white knuckle through the cravings and are finding that more difficult now?7 -
Pl help!!!
I am 5 ft 7 inches, 184 lbs and have lost 20 lbs last year. However my sugar addiction keeps gettg in the way as I make progress. My goal wt is 150 lbs and Im tryg to lose this slowly.
I go abt 7-10 days without sugar and them when I have it , it triggers me to have sugar again and again. Before you know Ive had a big choc cake for dessert 3-4 days in a row. I do 5:2 intermittent fasting to balance things out. I really need help to keep my addiction under control.
Should I eat a piece of dark choc everyday? What has helped ppl to break the addictiom? Would love to get some tips
Well are you continuing to lose weight on a monthly basis? If so, then carry on as you are.
I presume you mean your 'sugar addiction' is about sweet things, my issue is with standard carbs which then trigger me to eat the world and its wife. Even though I dont have a sweet tooth, I would gladly sit and devour a big cake too which would then set off the above.
So my simple trick is just to remove potatoes, rice, pasta and bread and most things made of them from the daily intake (which would include cake and biscuits for those with a sweet tooth). I still eat fruit and veg whereas someone on a 'low carb' diet wouldnt as much, I also have crispbread every morning with something fatty and protieny on it and this lasts me through the day more or less.
Its amazing how quickly the cravings disappear and I use a very dark chocolate, one square if I fancy something sweet, takes the edge off.
However, I do still desperately want a massive pizza, or big chunk of bread with butter, or massive bowl of pasta with butter or a cheese sauce, god.
I find the longer I go on, the easier it gets but if I fall off the wagon it is very hard to get back on. I have done it before and lost about 4 stone.
Now having said that, I am just about to receive a big mug of hot chocolate as Im really tired, I have nearly 600 calories left and am just about to go to bed as I am so tired so at times yes, I do have something sweet.6 -
snowflake954 wrote: »Sometimes it's not the sugar--it's the fat that goes with it. I've found eating nuts (careful they're calorie dense) will sometimes beat the craving. Low fat Greek yogurt with fruit or chocolate toppings or nuts, plus a little honey or marmalade can also work. Try different things to see what works for you, but as the other posters have said, you're probably restricting too much. That brings on binges. Don't worry, it's all trial and error to find what works best. Remember you want to keep the weight off and need to find a long term solution. Good luck.
Do you know whats good, a sliced apple with a bit of peanut butter spread on each slice (so about 4 slices). If you need something fatty and sugary.3 -
This is what has and will always work for me: save room for dessert! Sometimes fruit or a piece of chocolate wouldn't cut it and I ended up overeating on sweets anyway. So, I just make room for them every day in my calories. If you find that you are unable to control yourself around certain things, maybe avoid those for a little bit. But, don't avoid all things sugar entirely.6
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I log my desserts first then plan my day around it18
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I find that eating a variety of different fruit helps me not to overeat sweets.3
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rheddmobile wrote: »I find that eating a variety of different fruit helps me not to overeat sweets.
This helped me, too.0 -
I have a massive sugar addiction and I binge eat. I’m starting again the 16:8 fasting after a bad birthday weekend. I find I can’t have just 1 piece of chocolate it riggers a craving. I managed to lose 20+ lbs by a lean clean diet and excercise. I have some sort of low sugar low cal snack at night.9
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I am such an addict the only thing that has helped me is going low carb. And when I want something sweet I eat the Atkins nut roll or ignoring it buy eating cheese or nuts. I eat a good bit of veggies and mixed berries. I also mix heavy whipping cream with frozen mixed berries and splend. Let it sit for a while and it’s almost like a natural ice cream. Good luck!!!9
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I am also a huge emotional eater so if I feel down or low I automatically reach for sugar. How do ppl control that? I had a strawberry shortbread cookie today and then 2 tiny pieces of cheesecake that were lying ard. Feeling so guilty!1
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I decide that if I'm going to have something, I need to pre-log first. When I see the calories, it's like a last minute verification: do I feel it's worth it to indulge? And sometimes? The answer is, "Yes, I really do want a scoop of one of Baskin-Robbins' premium flavors" or that Mars bar or that cake pop. And sometimes, it's, "Maybe, I can get a junior scoop instead of a regular. Maybe if I put a couple of spoons of chocolate chips in my yogurt, instead. On second thought, I can have a Fiber One bar and then I can have a couple of squares of chocolate later, like I wanted to." And sometimes, it really is, "Nah, not worth it."
But for me, the key is realizing that there is no food I "can't" have. There are foods that aren't worth the calorie hit. There are foods I choose to pass up so I can have other foods. But knowing that a treat is not a cheat; it's a choice frees me from the guilt that always used to trigger an emotional-eating down spiral. (I eat something I shouldn't; I feel guilty; I eat more to numb the guilt; I feel guiltier; I eat more; etc etc until I'm thoroughly disgusted with myself). Nowadays, it's more like, "I eat something I planned for; I logged it; I enjoyed it... and that's it."8 -
I am also a huge emotional eater so if I feel down or low I automatically reach for sugar. How do ppl control that? I had a strawberry shortbread cookie today and then 2 tiny pieces of cheesecake that were lying ard. Feeling so guilty!
I use to self-medicate with food but now I manage regular stress with regular exercise and unusual stress with extra exercise. Preferably outdoors. Love gardening season!1 -
everyone is different. I have insulin resistance and am trying to take it one day at a time. I eat a lot of berries, carrots, beets, apples because they are sweet but also have fiber and are nutritious. Also on most days I am eating 5 dark chocolate-covered almonds very slowly, pausing in between each one. I'm not logging or thinking about weight loss right now. Main thing for me is to cut out the sugar and see what happens.5
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I had to go cold Turkey, it was a brutal week or so but after that I was ok. I have that habit of trying to ween off of sweets but it never actually working and I go right back to where I was so I just had to cut it off2
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You need to challenge yourself big time. I mean, go really big. F these 1-week challenges or even 1-month challenges. Try a 6-month or 1-year challenge. Here's how I do it:
1) Write out the challenge. Be specific (never, once a week, once a month, what exact foods, etc.). It's also good to define things that are acceptable. (Strawberries with whipped cream, or something.)
2) Write your reasons for doing the challenge. Are there negative consequences of this behavior? Again, look for specific reasons you want to change your behavior.
3) Discuss it with people you live or interact with. Enlist a friend, if you can.
4) Pick a start date. Leave some time so you can visualize.
5) Print, sign, and date the contract. Post somewhere you will see it daily. (But maybe out of the public eye.)
6) When the date comes, do it and don't wimp out. If you can do the above steps with a good conscience, this should be no problem.1 -
I was told to try a daily magnesium supplement and it works wonders!!! I no longer have a sweet tooth or those cravings.1
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I too love chocolate cake. I don't have it but rarely (some foods are all-the-time, some are sometimes, and some are...rarely). Just for special events. True special events, not because I went to the grocery store, or the break room table has some in hand's reach.
I figured out that, texturally, I love the feeling of sweet & cold on my tongue. Mint chocolate and salted caramel chocolate satisfy this textural craving (and sugar craving, tbh). So I keep bars of those around and break off a square or two a day. Sometimes, though that craving is satisfied with grapes or strawberries or even a hard-boiled egg or cucumber slices (because they're cold).
You'll have to work out what craving you are trying to satisfy. Or maybe it's just a habit to break? Make it harder for yourself to grab cake, and easier to grab a chocolate square.3 -
Surprisingly, if you go without, say for 10 days, you will no longer crave it.7
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We are the same height. I weigh around 142-143 lbs and I have chocolate everyday. I know it's hard to believe, but it is true that you can have your favorite snacks DAILY as long as you make it work. For me, I have a chocolate ice cream sandwich every night before bed. Keeps me satisfied until the weekend where I tend to indulge a little more. There is no need to cut out all sugar. In my experience, it is not sustainable long term and most importantly, its not fun.3
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I am also a huge emotional eater so if I feel down or low I automatically reach for sugar. How do ppl control that? I had a strawberry shortbread cookie today and then 2 tiny pieces of cheesecake that were lying ard. Feeling so guilty!
What else do you enjoy doing? Find another outlet and leave notes taped to the fridge and cabinets to remind yourself of it if need be.
Eating properly for yourself, call it dieting if you like, but I don't - it isn't and shouldn't be a painful thing full of suffering. If you get emotional and feel the need for a snack you aren't ready for, go ahead and have a cry, take a walk, play with the dog/cat, dance around the living room/call a friend or whatever moves you. I'll bet you find the urge for that food only lasts a few minutes tops.
Over time, you learn you didn't need to overeat, and that will become your behavior/habits.
Wishing you the best, hang in there.2 -
Pl help!!!
I am 5 ft 7 inches, 184 lbs and have lost 20 lbs last year. However my sugar addiction keeps gettg in the way as I make progress. My goal wt is 150 lbs and Im tryg to lose this slowly.
I go abt 7-10 days without sugar and them when I have it , it triggers me to have sugar again and again. Before you know Ive had a big choc cake for dessert 3-4 days in a row. I do 5:2 intermittent fasting to balance things out. I really need help to keep my addiction under control.
Should I eat a piece of dark choc everyday? What has helped ppl to break the addictiom? Would love to get some tips
From what I've seen, it's pretty individual what will work. I think the two questions to answer are this:
1. How is your craving for sweets satisfied? With a little or a lot of sweets? How quickly do you crave sweets again AFTER it is satisfied?
2. How bad is your craving? Is it this overwhelming urge that hits you very frequently, a strong urge when you eat, a minor urge a few times a day, what?
The reason this is important is because everyone has heard the term 'sugar craving' but the term is, well, kind of like the term 'pain.' I can say someone who had a nail ripped off is in pain, and that someone who had an arm ripped off is in pain - both are true, but the definition of pain in the two cases is vastly different.
And that is true for sugar cravings, too.
For folks where the craving is mild, is fairly easily satisfied with a little sweet, and/or is infrequent, then sweets in moderation seem like a great idea. A hard candy every once in a while, for example, or a tiny slice of cake every once in a while, works well to satisfy the craving.
For folks where the craving is intense, is not satisfied for long with a little sweet, is not satisfied without a lot of sweet, and/or is very frequent, sweets in moderation may do jack all to help. They will, instead, be more likely to spiral out of control because satisfying the craving takes very frequent doses of and/or very large amounts of sweets.
And with that latter, moderation is not the key, because it just isn't sustainable. It is a bit like an addiction (and animal studies have shown that some bodies treat sugar about like morphine after a certain point, including withdrawal, so it's not out of the realm of possibility), and the only solution when that happens seems to be about like with other addictions: drop it cold turkey, and stay off of it, because having it again just starts the whole cycle over again.
I have the 'bad' craving type. Craving sugar when I first go off of it is something that is there 24/7. It is like a pressure in my throat and my stomach, that makes it so all I think about is something sweet, constantly. I will literally dream about it every night, I will wake up wanting the taste of something sweet, and it just doesn't freaking stop. Even when I GET something sweet, I still want more very quickly - I've eaten so much I want to throw up, and I STILL want something sweet.
IF, however, I can manage 2-3 weeks without sugar...the craving goes away (fully without sugar, not even foods with added sugar, like cereal). I mean it completely dies, and I don't want it anymore. Not a problem at all. in fact, sweet tastes are only a mild interest at that point - I will scarf veggies up by the ton but eat almost no fruit, even.
If I screw up and have something sweet though, with sugar (not fruit), then the craving is back, full bore, instantly, and I have to go through it all over again. I have done this a few times in my life, because I keep thinking that 'maybe this time it'll be different,' as it's a pain to avoid sugar in the diet in terms of making your food vs. buying pre-made food. But I always have to go back to full avoidance to deal with sugar.
And I would just add, for context, that my own experience of craving sugar is the absolutely worst craving for foods I've had, bar none. And I say that as someone who, in the course of a few weeks, had a disorder go out of control for over 8 months so my diet dropped down to less than 10 foods. I couldn't even have herbs at that point, and still, the one thing I wanted was sugar, for those first few weeks, until that urge passed, too.
After that, I wanted herbs and spices, I missed bread, I missed veggies, I wanted other foods, but didn't dream about other foods, I didn't crave them constantly, not even in the first few weeks I dropped them. I would just think of them sometimes, like at mealtimes when I was eating.
That type of craving? I can see where a little moderation, a little taste sometime, would work.
But if the craving is much more severe, I just think it may need a more severe solution, as well. At least in my own experience.
One last thing - IF you wanted to drop cold turkey, here's what has helped me when I had to fight through the first few weeks.
1. I came up with some of my favorite foods/recipes, to make for the first month I was going off of sugar, so I had foods I could look forward too.
2. I had a lot of snacks that I made so I could eat something, immediately, when i was feeling the least bit peckish OR sometimes to eat when I wanted to eat sugar instead.
3. I had more carbs, and did NOT try to worry so much about calories. Because we've got a finite level of willpower - I can use it to fight off the sugar cravings, or I can use it to diet, but doing both at the same time tends to lead to failure in one or the other. The sugar cravings are typically gone in 2-4 weeks, in people I know who go cold turkey, and then calorie watching will be SO much easier, you know?
Whatever way you choose to go, wish you good luck, and hope it works out for you. :-)2 -
Jthanmyfitnesspal wrote: »You need to challenge yourself big time. I mean, go really big. F these 1-week challenges or even 1-month challenges. Try a 6-month or 1-year challenge. Here's how I do it:
1) Write out the challenge. Be specific (never, once a week, once a month, what exact foods, etc.). It's also good to define things that are acceptable. (Strawberries with whipped cream, or something.)
2) Write your reasons for doing the challenge. Are there negative consequences of this behavior? Again, look for specific reasons you want to change your behavior.
3) Discuss it with people you live or interact with. Enlist a friend, if you can.
4) Pick a start date. Leave some time so you can visualize.
5) Print, sign, and date the contract. Post somewhere you will see it daily. (But maybe out of the public eye.)
6) When the date comes, do it and don't wimp out. If you can do the above steps with a good conscience, this should be no problem.
Or...and just hear me out on this...
Forget challenges altogether and just make small incremental steps towards reducing calorie intake, increasing activity and eating more nutritious foods, thus achieving a sustainable healthy lifestyle without demonizing any particular food.
Why do so many people think that living healthy has to be such an extreme thing?11 -
I had a huge problem with binging, especially on sugar. I would do it when no one was around to see it or hold me accountable. I have very disordered ways of thinking about food, and in the past I have found that labeling foods as "good" or "bad" put this idea in my head that I had to feel guilty for eating "bad" food, like sugar.
Ultimately, what's worked for me is allowing myself to have things I enjoy if it fits in my day (If It Fits Your Macros). I also log my food for the day before I eat breakfast because having a plan or knowing what I am going to eat and when helps me not to binge, and at the end of the day if I am craving a chocolate or a scoop of ice cream, I know if it will fit my day.
Total restriction is almost never a good idea unless there is a medical reason to do so. It's not good for your mental health.5
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