Guy friends

TulieRose21 · July 2019

Is it possible for guys to be just friends with women, without ulterior motives?

If so, where are they??

Cahgetsfit · July 2019

I think so yes? I have guy friends. They have not all tried to *kitten* me.

TulieRose21 · July 2019

Lol. I would definitely welcome some gay guy friends, if any read this.

your_future_ex_wife · July 2019

tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

just find a guy who doesn’t find u attractive and there u go

Now I’m conflicted

slimgirljo15 · July 2019

Hey_its_Just_Meeeee wrote: »

Yes! They're all over the place and they normally like other guys........ I kid. yes its possible

:laugh: you bad

showjefb · July 2019

Yes. Probably in the minority, but I’m not looking for hookups or relationship or drama... unless that’s what you want then I’m in. Lol. Joking. Just here for innocent fun, friend, support.

CoffeeAndContour · July 2019

The majority of my friends are male, we’re just friends. I’ve not had anything with any of them.

lx1x · July 2019

👋

_sw33tp3a_11 · July 2019

I've had one male friend but he was gay so...

BasedGawd412 · July 2019

Possible but personally

I have no use for female friends.

dpwellman · July 2019

Yeah. I have two examples.

Versicolour · July 2019

I have friends who are men. They are happily married or we have known each other long enough to have a healthy distaste for each other. Or they live too far away to even contemplate hooking up

Reckoner67 · July 2019

Just befriend cats, you can’t go wrong

your_future_ex_wife · July 2019

I have male friends who have never hit on me and of whom I believe are not friends with me for sexual reasons. They would likely reject me for various reasons if I made a pass at them. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a level of attraction there, but it’s in the background.

Even among the friends who are interested in sex, that isn’t why we’re friends. Sex would be a bonus if it were included, but the friendship is great without it.

As a young woman, these kinds of relationships were harder to find, probably because so many of us were single and unattached. I remember being disappointed more than once when I realized someone I thought was a friend “only wanted one thing.”

bojack5 · July 2019

your_future_ex_wife wrote: »

I have male friends who have never hit on me and whom I believe are not friends with me for sexual reasons. They would likely reject me for various reasons if I made a pass at them. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a level of attraction there, but it’s in the background.

Even among the friends who are interested in sex, that isn’t why we’re friends. Sex would be a bonus if it were included, but the friendship is great without it.

As a young woman, these kinds of relationships were harder to find, probably because so many of us were single and unattached. I remember being disappointed more than once when I realized someone I thought was a friend “only wanted one thing.”

Yes to this.

I believe men can be friends with women for reasons other than wanting sex, but i also believe should the woman want it, most men would probably not decline. Now this should change should either person be in a relationship, but if both are unattached it would be rare for a man to deny the sexual advance of his female friend. I believe lots of men are friends with women that they may have a sexual attraction to....but if thats not an option that still fine if there are other real aspects of the friendship that are valuable.