What is something that everyone can relate to?
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laprimaJenny
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Have you ever felt like you are the only one?! Most likely that isn’t true. What are some of the things that everyone relates to?
Maybe it’s the awkward moment when walking past someone and wondering if you should make eye contact or not. Or perhaps it’s the feeling of finally picking that massive booger that’s been bothering you in the middle of a meeting. Just when you think no one was looking, you notice your coworker giving you the stink eye.
Maybe it’s the awkward moment when walking past someone and wondering if you should make eye contact or not. Or perhaps it’s the feeling of finally picking that massive booger that’s been bothering you in the middle of a meeting. Just when you think no one was looking, you notice your coworker giving you the stink eye.
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I still unconsciously think of the '90s as the previous decade.4
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Regardless of how many times I’ve written the word I still spell out Wednesday like Wed-nes-day in my head when writing it.4
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Sleeping in an awkward position and waking up in pain.0
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laprimaJenny wrote: »I still unconsciously think of the '90s as the previous decade.
My daughter: time is flying, I’m forgetting entire weeks.
Me: weeks?? ... I’m forgetting entire decades.2 -
I premeditate conversations in my head so I can be ready if I am ever faced with conflict or an awkward situation.4
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I sometimes wonder if I should hold a door for some people, or offer to carry stuff for them, but at the same time I don't want to offend them, like I'm implying they can't do whatever task by themselves.1
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I can't help but to look into peoples windows when I'm out for a walk at night...from the sidewalk, I'm not that creepy!
When in a highrise in the city it's the worst, so many windows to look into3 -
I sometimes wonder if I should hold a door for some people, or offer to carry stuff for them, but at the same time I don't want to offend them, like I'm implying they can't do whatever task by themselves.
I’ve never really thought about it this way. I just always figured it was common decency to do so, but that’s a valid point. Except when someone is clearly having trouble opening a door. I dislike when I see people walk inside a building or room ahead of someone who is obviously struggling to open the door, without even looking back. I see that happen a lot with the handicapped and elderly unfortunately.1 -
Pain. Sadness. Everyone has some of that.
When I was a kid and some *kitten* (because kids often are *kitten*) was being mean, I sometimes reminded myself that even s/he cried about something. It helped me sometimes to think of that - sometimes in a mean way and sometimes compassionately.5 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Pain. Sadness. Everyone has some of that.
When I was a kid and some *kitten* (because kids often are *kitten*) was being mean, I sometimes reminded myself that even s/he cried about something. It helped me sometimes to think of that - sometimes in a mean way and sometimes compassionately.
Excellent point!
This reminds me of some of the best advice I've ever had. It came from a 14 year old girl when a client was being an *kitten* to me, she said "it's not about you". I think this every time someone is a jerk to me now, who knows what's going on in their lives, and if I did nothing wrong, it's not a "me" problem, it's a "them" problem2 -
your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Pain. Sadness. Everyone has some of that.
When I was a kid and some *kitten* (because kids often are *kitten*) was being mean, I sometimes reminded myself that even s/he cried about something. It helped me sometimes to think of that - sometimes in a mean way and sometimes compassionately.
Excellent point!
This reminds me of some of the best advice I've ever had. It came from a 14 year old girl when a client was being an *kitten* to me, she said "it's not about you". I think this every time someone is a jerk to me now, who knows what's going on in their lives, and if I did nothing wrong, it's not a "me" problem, it's a "them" problem
You tried to explain this to me before and I didn’t understand. I think I get it now.1 -
When I'm the only one wearing two different shoes, parachute pants and a members only jacket to a friends wedding.2
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your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Pain. Sadness. Everyone has some of that.
When I was a kid and some *kitten* (because kids often are *kitten*) was being mean, I sometimes reminded myself that even s/he cried about something. It helped me sometimes to think of that - sometimes in a mean way and sometimes compassionately.
Excellent point!
This reminds me of some of the best advice I've ever had. It came from a 14 year old girl when a client was being an *kitten* to me, she said "it's not about you". I think this every time someone is a jerk to me now, who knows what's going on in their lives, and if I did nothing wrong, it's not a "me" problem, it's a "them" problem
You tried to explain this to me before and I didn’t understand. I think I get it now.
And I guess I should add, it's not like I don't get offended, or hurt (I do, quite easily), but I try to remember, its not always about me.
Which reminds me, I had someone tell me once that it's my fault if I get hurt feelings about something, because I "chose" to, or it was my interpretation, and it wasn't their intention.
This idea is still a mind *kitten* to me.4 -
I can't help but to look into peoples windows when I'm out for a walk at night...from the sidewalk, I'm not that creepy!
When in a highrise in the city it's the worst, so many windows to look into
You HAVE to do this. What if someone's naked and you missed it because you didn't look
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »Pain. Sadness. Everyone has some of that.
When I was a kid and some *kitten* (because kids often are *kitten*) was being mean, I sometimes reminded myself that even s/he cried about something. It helped me sometimes to think of that - sometimes in a mean way and sometimes compassionately.
Excellent point!
This reminds me of some of the best advice I've ever had. It came from a 14 year old girl when a client was being an *kitten* to me, she said "it's not about you". I think this every time someone is a jerk to me now, who knows what's going on in their lives, and if I did nothing wrong, it's not a "me" problem, it's a "them" problem
You tried to explain this to me before and I didn’t understand. I think I get it now.
Which reminds me, I had someone tell me once that it's my fault if I get hurt feelings about something, because I "chose" to, or it was my interpretation, and it wasn't their intention.
This idea is still a mind *kitten* to me.
that sounds like something a sociopath would say tbh like saying *kitten* things to you then telling u it’s your fault if you feel bad about it, jmo
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when you're sad, so you listen to sad music to feel sadder2
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Being in a social situation and feeling like everyone has their life together except you1
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tinkerhellraiser wrote: »sammidelvecchio wrote: »when you're sad, so you listen to sad music to feel sadder
or when you’re feeling just fine and like “i know, let’s listen to Jeff Buckley” and accidentally take yourself out
I do the same thing with Chet Baker.
Blame it on my Youth0 -
Navigating a cart through target and turning down an aisle to avoid someone blocking your way only to encounter an even bigger glom of people and carts that way so you study the shelf you’re standing next to like you actually intended to turn down that aisle but then you see it’s urinary incontinence products so you execute a five point turn to get back where you came from only to see that someone else is studying the end cap and sheesh target is the friggin worst at making wide enough aisles5
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Apologizing to doors or furniture when I accidentally kick or bump into them.
ETA: maybe that’s a Canadian thing3
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