Men...Beauty over brains. Or brains over beauty?

Okay, now, obviously I'm not a man.
But, my personal opinion in this matter (again, personal opinion, I'm not asking you to agree) is that people will look at your appearance before your brain. (Unless you meet in some anonymous way). When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person, seeing as they don't know that the ugly duckling in the corner is a total brainiac. I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not.

Afterall, you don't see IQ scores on the cover of magazines. You see airbrushed legs and fake tans.

True, you choose hot women to LOOK at but we're not talking about who we would look at. We're talking about who we would choose for ourselves. And I am with Carl. Stupid women bug the **** out of me. I don't care how hot they are if they are a complete frickin moron.

When I wasn't married, I would have absolutely tried to find only hot women if all I cared about was a one night stand. But, as I cared about finding a relationship, I was looking for both brains and beauty (which I was lucky enough to find). And I know that I will be with my wife for the rest of our lives and while she won't always look as young and beautiful as she does right now, she will always be gorgeous to me INSIDE AND OUT.

Careful with those generalizations. Not every girl is a ***** and not every guy is an *kitten*.

much of the time for women brains are an asset.... if you keep them hidden. smile & wave, smile & wave, & let them wonder what youre up to!

Okay, now, obviously I'm not a man.
But, my personal opinion in this matter (again, personal opinion, I'm not asking you to agree) is that people will look at your appearance before your brain. (Unless you meet in some anonymous way). When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person, seeing as they don't know that the ugly duckling in the corner is a total brainiac. I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not.

Afterall, you don't see IQ scores on the cover of magazines. You see airbrushed legs and fake tans.

True, you choose hot women to LOOK at but we're not talking about who we would look at. We're talking about who we would choose for ourselves. And I am with Carl. Stupid women bug the **** out of me. I don't care how hot they are if they are a complete frickin moron.

When I wasn't married, I would have absolutely tried to find only hot women if all I cared about was a one night stand. But, as I cared about finding a relationship, I was looking for both brains and beauty (which I was lucky enough to find). And I know that I will be with my wife for the rest of our lives and while she won't always look as young and beautiful as she does right now, she will always be gorgeous to me INSIDE AND OUT.

Careful with those generalizations. Not every girl is a ***** and not every guy is an *kitten*.

I'm pretty sure I made no generalizations. And I did not call women *****es, nor did I call guys *kitten*. I stated CLEARLY that this was my opinion. I don't see any reason why you needed to pick at my post and accuse me of generalizing.

I would appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions, or try to read between the lines. It's just as bad as "generalizing." [:

So all the indian men from india think beauty is better over brains cause they want women to do exactly what they ask them to do. They don't want women to have a brain. True?

Stupidest question ever.

What man is going to say "beauty over brains" and risk getting henpecked by all of the super touchy women on this site?

Okay, now, obviously I'm not a man.
But, my personal opinion in this matter (again, personal opinion, I'm not asking you to agree) is that people will look at your appearance before your brain. (Unless you meet in some anonymous way). When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person, seeing as they don't know that the ugly duckling in the corner is a total brainiac. I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not.

Afterall, you don't see IQ scores on the cover of magazines. You see airbrushed legs and fake tans.

True, you choose hot women to LOOK at but we're not talking about who we would look at. We're talking about who we would choose for ourselves. And I am with Carl. Stupid women bug the **** out of me. I don't care how hot they are if they are a complete frickin moron.

When I wasn't married, I would have absolutely tried to find only hot women if all I cared about was a one night stand. But, as I cared about finding a relationship, I was looking for both brains and beauty (which I was lucky enough to find). And I know that I will be with my wife for the rest of our lives and while she won't always look as young and beautiful as she does right now, she will always be gorgeous to me INSIDE AND OUT.

Careful with those generalizations. Not every girl is a ***** and not every guy is an *kitten*.

I'm pretty sure I made no generalizations. And I did not call women *****es, nor did I call guys *kitten*. I stated CLEARLY that this was my opinion. I don't see any reason why you needed to pick at my post and accuse me of generalizing.

I would appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions, or try to read between the lines. It's just as bad as "generalizing." [:

Generalization #1: "people will look at your appearance before your brain"
Generalization #2: "When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person"
Generalization #3: " I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not"

Stating it's your opinion does not mean it's not a generalization. Actually, the opposite. Stating it's your opinion means that you think that that is what most people will do. And that's a generalization.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with your opinion and you are certainly entitled to have it. But painting everyone with the same brush - even when you state it is your opinion - is unfair.

Okay, now, obviously I'm not a man.
But, my personal opinion in this matter (again, personal opinion, I'm not asking you to agree) is that people will look at your appearance before your brain. (Unless you meet in some anonymous way). When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person, seeing as they don't know that the ugly duckling in the corner is a total brainiac. I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not.

Afterall, you don't see IQ scores on the cover of magazines. You see airbrushed legs and fake tans.

True, you choose hot women to LOOK at but we're not talking about who we would look at. We're talking about who we would choose for ourselves. And I am with Carl. Stupid women bug the **** out of me. I don't care how hot they are if they are a complete frickin moron.

When I wasn't married, I would have absolutely tried to find only hot women if all I cared about was a one night stand. But, as I cared about finding a relationship, I was looking for both brains and beauty (which I was lucky enough to find). And I know that I will be with my wife for the rest of our lives and while she won't always look as young and beautiful as she does right now, she will always be gorgeous to me INSIDE AND OUT.

Careful with those generalizations. Not every girl is a ***** and not every guy is an *kitten*.

I'm pretty sure I made no generalizations. And I did not call women *****es, nor did I call guys *kitten*. I stated CLEARLY that this was my opinion. I don't see any reason why you needed to pick at my post and accuse me of generalizing.

I would appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions, or try to read between the lines. It's just as bad as "generalizing." [:

Generalization #1: "people will look at your appearance before your brain"
Generalization #2: "When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person"
Generalization #3: " I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not"

Stating it's your opinion does not mean it's not a generalization. Actually, the opposite. Stating it's your opinion means that you think that that is what most people will do. And that's a generalization.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with your opinion and you are certainly entitled to have it. But painting everyone with the same brush - even when you state it is your opinion - is unfair.

Your Opinion #1: I started it with "my opinion", meaning that is how I see it, not necessarily that it's true.

Your Crtique #2: "likely" meaning that it's probable, but not exclusively true.

Your Judgement #3: "I think". Nowhere in this did I say that it is always true. I stated that it's more common. Which is what I have noticed. Not generalizations, just observations.

If you don't like someone's opinion, or you're going to judge/criticize, there really is no point in reading after they disclose that it is their opinion.

Take it with a grain of salt. You're just making yourself look like an *kitten* you claim that men are not.

I like a combination of the two, but if I had to choose, I would choose Super Hot and any man that say different is lying.

Bull. We're not all as shallow as you apparently are.

Stupidest question ever.

What man is going to say "beauty over brains" and risk getting henpecked by all of the super touchy women on this site?

Okay, now, obviously I'm not a man.
But, my personal opinion in this matter (again, personal opinion, I'm not asking you to agree) is that people will look at your appearance before your brain. (Unless you meet in some anonymous way). When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person, seeing as they don't know that the ugly duckling in the corner is a total brainiac. I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not.

Afterall, you don't see IQ scores on the cover of magazines. You see airbrushed legs and fake tans.

True, you choose hot women to LOOK at but we're not talking about who we would look at. We're talking about who we would choose for ourselves. And I am with Carl. Stupid women bug the **** out of me. I don't care how hot they are if they are a complete frickin moron.

When I wasn't married, I would have absolutely tried to find only hot women if all I cared about was a one night stand. But, as I cared about finding a relationship, I was looking for both brains and beauty (which I was lucky enough to find). And I know that I will be with my wife for the rest of our lives and while she won't always look as young and beautiful as she does right now, she will always be gorgeous to me INSIDE AND OUT.

Careful with those generalizations. Not every girl is a ***** and not every guy is an *kitten*.

I'm pretty sure I made no generalizations. And I did not call women *****es, nor did I call guys *kitten*. I stated CLEARLY that this was my opinion. I don't see any reason why you needed to pick at my post and accuse me of generalizing.

I would appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions, or try to read between the lines. It's just as bad as "generalizing." [:

Generalization #1: "people will look at your appearance before your brain"
Generalization #2: "When an individual is at a bar/club/mall/whatever, they're likely to approach the more attractive person"
Generalization #3: " I think people choose beauty over brains more often than not"

Stating it's your opinion does not mean it's not a generalization. Actually, the opposite. Stating it's your opinion means that you think that that is what most people will do. And that's a generalization.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with your opinion and you are certainly entitled to have it. But painting everyone with the same brush - even when you state it is your opinion - is unfair.

Your Opinion #1: I started it with "my opinion", meaning that is how I see it, not necessarily that it's true.

Your Crtique #2: "likely" meaning that it's probable, but not exclusively true.

Your Judgement #3: "I think". Nowhere in this did I say that it is always true. I stated that it's more common. Which is what I have noticed. Not generalizations, just observations.

If you don't like someone's opinion, or you're going to judge/criticize, there really is no point in reading after they disclose that it is their opinion.

Take it with a grain of salt. You're just making yourself look like an *kitten* you claim that men are not.

Sugarcoat it anyway you want. That's not going to make it any less true. I didn't criticize, judge or dislike your opinion; I merely pointed out that it WAS, in fact, a generalization. The fact that I disagree with your conclusions doesn't mean your opinion is wrong. It just means I disagree.

And, for the record, I could not care less if I am "making myself look like an *kitten*" to you. I am a man and I prefer smart women over hot ones although I was fortunate enough to marry a woman who is both. If it bothers you that I don't fit in your little superficial box that you are attempting to jam us all into, that's your issue, not mine.

Ooooh, now I'm putting people in a box?

My teenage heart is shattered.