Struggling...again.

Everyone struggles so it's good to be part of this community so that you are aware that you are not alone. It's so worth it though. Best of luck.

I started again recently too. Sent request

Sunshine6909 wrote: »

middlehaitch wrote: »

To get 1200 cals you have entered a high rate of loss per week.

Set yourself to 1lbs a week. It may take longer to lose the weight, but it will make life easier. .

Ok... I've changed it but it only added 10 calories.

That is so sad. Did you put yourself as ‘sedentary’/‘not very active’?

That is generally suitable for folk who barely move,~3500 steps or less a day.

If you truly aren’t that inactive, up your activity level to a reasonable one. Don’t forget to eat your exercise cals back too.

Sorry it’s still so low.

Cheers, h.

You are doing exactly what you need to! Congrats. Take your time. I'm old and fairly sedentary so I only get 1350 - 1400 for maintenance! What I do is try to move more to get extra calories. If I walk a couple hours I get another couple hundred or so. My biggest regret is that I didn't lift weights while I was losing to maintain muscle mass so you might think about slowly adding some weight bearing exercise so you don't end up like me. Be sure you get enough protein as well to preserve the muscle you have.

Maybe look around and see if there are any places you can get a body scan to determine your BMR? That helped me a lot, brought my calorie allotment a littler higher since it takes into account your muscle mass too. I still felt like my calories low, since I like to eat, BUT.....if I eat clean, whole foods, if I'm being honest with myself, I can eat so much more!!! That being said I try to eat mostly well, but allow myself to go out to dinner, etc. occasionally, and try to make better choices when I do. I have been averaging about 1 pound per week, which is slow, but I am not starving or deprvied! Good luck, it's such a journey, mostly mental, my motivation waivers too!

Sunshine6909 wrote: »

Ok... I have tracked my first day and am not hungry. The goal for tomorrow... track for a second day! 😉

You're off to a great start. Keep up the good work! 👍

Sunshine6909 wrote: »

Thanks Lynda... I think I'm on day 4 of tracking. Going ok but it's Saturday in my part of the world., weekends are usually where I muck up. Tonight we are eating dinner with my inlaws so just doing my best for tracking.

Eating out is tricky, esp for me with family, cos that's usually setting off some emotional eating shizz too!
I have been PLANNING for eating out recently. Thinking of strategies to portion control, especially on the carb-heavy elements. Having a plan that you try to stick to might help when faced with any decision making part of the dinner, if it arrives on the table in bowls. At least you are in control of the serving spoon!

If everything arrives plated you can either try telling the "chef" not to give you any "xyz" Once you've said it, it's said. If they ARGUE with you - that's one place where the emotional shizz kicks in. You need to be quitely assertive. It won't break their heart if you don't eat they potato dish or creamy desert! You dont need to justify yourself, just say "Thanks but I really dont want to eat xyz". People try to force you to make exceptions. It's a slippery slope cos if you let other ppl dictate your "exceptions" you'll find there are some every week and you can really undermine your progress that way. Put your own health before any sense of "politeness" to eat what others have made. You'll be eating, you can be complimentray, but also in control.

Good Luck