Knee replacement at 36. Tell me how it went for you, please!

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I had severe knee pain for years, and doctor after doctor told me to lose weight and the knee pain would go away. The pain actually started years after I lost the majority of my weight, but I could still stand to lose another 25-30 pounds, so I understand the advice. I knew my knee pain wasn't solely weight related though, not considering it hurt for years. About three years later and 4 doctors later, I finally got a doctor who took me seriously, and ordered an MRI. He thought I had a meniscus tear, but the MRI showed three areas on bone-on-bone. One of the areas was particularly bad, so I was scheduled for a relatively new cartilage regeneration surgery. During the surgery, the doctor discovered 4 areas of bone on bone and a torn meniscus. He cleaned up what he could and did not move forward with the other surgery. He told me that he has approved me for a knee replacement, as soon as I am ready.

Fast forward almost a year, and my knee constantly hurts. It is getting much worse, much faster, and my goal was to hold off as long as I could. Now I am beginning to wonder if holding off is the best option for me. The risk of having a knee replacement at 36 is that the knee will only last 15-20 years, but what is the difference of replacing the knee now, or a year from now, at this rate. So, I was wondering if anyone has any experience in getting a knee replacement at a "younger" age, or at all. How was the recovery? My recovery for the first surgery was brutal, much worse than I ever thought, but the doctor said that was normal considering all of the areas they worked on. Even though it was horribly painful, I worked through it and recovered much quicker than they anticipated. I wonder how the pain is after a knee replacement? We are also going to Rome over Thanksgiving, so that would be 5-6 months later. Is that a reasonable amount of time to be able to walk around Rome comfortably?

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  • columbus2015
    columbus2015 Posts: 51 Member
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    Well, I will break my oath of silence in the forums....

    I went through years of knee pain, etc, finally got through to the medical system that it wasn't going to go away with physio, rest, etc. Fast forward to MRIs, a couple of surgeries to attempt to repair the meniscus and finally a partial knee replacement.

    The PKR was to help buy more time; ortho surgeons seem to think that they can only do two full replacements on a knee; figure 15 years or so per replacement gives you 30 years of knee. A partial bought me an extra 10 years or so. If all your bone on bone is on one side, you may be able to do the same.

    Recovery was pretty good. I was out of hospital 36 hours after surgery (and able to do stairs on crutches, etc). I was probably at 80% recovery in 8 weeks. Getting past that just takes time. I figure I'm at 95% and I doubt it will get much better; it is WAY better than pre-surgery. Some limited flexibility and I don't kneel directly down on it ever. The odd time I feel some pain.

    I had to give up running, skiing and anything with impact. I bike now...

    If you have to sit idle due to pain, I'd rather do that when I'm too old to be as active anyhow; that was what pushed me down the replacement path.
  • whmscll
    whmscll Posts: 2,254 Member
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    Do it. Below is a patient story I wrote for one of my clients. This woman waited 17 years to have a knee replacement because her doc told her to wait as long as possible. By the time she finally had it done, she was in constant pain -- even in bed at night. She had to literally crawl up the stairs in her house. She could not stand for more than 5 minutes. She could not stand up to cheer her son at his graduation. She couldn't go shopping because she couldn't stand long enough to try on clothes, or walk through the mall. She couldn't take walks with her husband. Travel was out of the question. She kicks herself for wasting precious moments of her life sitting on the sidelines.

    “I Feel Like a Bionic Woman”
    In 1998, Lynn Edwards of Bakersfield fell and tore the cartilage that cushioned and stabilized both knees. Surgery to repair the damage left her with bone rubbing on bone. Her surgeon told Lynn she’d eventually need both knees replaced, but encouraged her to wait; she was only 44, and at the time most knee replacements lasted just 10-15 years.

    Soon, the pain of bone rubbing on bone robbed Lynn of a normal life. She quit work. She could barely walk, and crawled up the stairs in her house. Sunday School classmates in their eighties grabbed chairs for her because she couldn’t stand. Her husband and son helped with everything.

    “I never dreamt life could get so hard,” Lynn said. “I’ve gone through cancer, but this was worse.”

    Lynn endured the pain for 17 and a half years. Finally, in December 2015, she had her right knee replaced by Thomas Ferro, MD at San Joaquin Community Hospital.

    Fifteen minutes after being wheeled back into her room after surgery Lynn was walking, with the help of a walker and a physical therapist. Less than 24 hours later she was climbing stairs. Three days after surgery she walked five blocks – all without pain.

    “What a beautiful gift to be able to walk beside my husband again,” she said. “I’ll be able to dance at my son’s wedding. I feel like a bionic woman.”

    Lynn plans to have her left knee replaced soon. “I can’t thank the staff at San Joaquin Hospital and Dr. Ferro enough. They’ve given me a new life.”
  • MelissaPhippsFeagins
    MelissaPhippsFeagins Posts: 8,063 Member
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    Rome may be painful. Physical therapy after knee replacement is at least a 3 month process if everything goes well. You're young so it should. Good luck and God bless.
  • earlnabby
    earlnabby Posts: 8,171 Member
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    I have not had one (yet, but it is in my future) but my mother had both knees replaced with great results. They key is to do your rehab exercises faithfully. Mom did and she was back to normal motion and no pain in half the time most people take.
  • Fit4LifeAR
    Fit4LifeAR Posts: 233 Member
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    Hmmm, thank you all for great advice! One of the other things we are considering is we want to have another baby, so if my knee pain continues to get worse, having two under the age of three might be a nightmare. We could hold off one more year, so I could get my knee fixed, and I think things would be much better afterwards. Otherwise, I am looking at another three to four years at least.
  • kyleliermann
    kyleliermann Posts: 156 Member
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    Fit4LifeAR wrote: »
    I had severe knee pain for years, and doctor after doctor told me to lose weight and the knee pain would go away. The pain actually started years after I lost the majority of my weight, but I could still stand to lose another 25-30 pounds, so I understand the advice. I knew my knee pain wasn't solely weight related though, not considering it hurt for years. About three years later and 4 doctors later, I finally got a doctor who took me seriously, and ordered an MRI. He thought I had a meniscus tear, but the MRI showed three areas on bone-on-bone. One of the areas was particularly bad, so I was scheduled for a relatively new cartilage regeneration surgery. During the surgery, the doctor discovered 4 areas of bone on bone and a torn meniscus. He cleaned up what he could and did not move forward with the other surgery. He told me that he has approved me for a knee replacement, as soon as I am ready.

    Fast forward almost a year, and my knee constantly hurts. It is getting much worse, much faster, and my goal was to hold off as long as I could. Now I am beginning to wonder if holding off is the best option for me. The risk of having a knee replacement at 36 is that the knee will only last 15-20 years, but what is the difference of replacing the knee now, or a year from now, at this rate. So, I was wondering if anyone has any experience in getting a knee replacement at a "younger" age, or at all. How was the recovery? My recovery for the first surgery was brutal, much worse than I ever thought, but the doctor said that was normal considering all of the areas they worked on. Even though it was horribly painful, I worked through it and recovered much quicker than they anticipated. I wonder how the pain is after a knee replacement? We are also going to Rome over Thanksgiving, so that would be 5-6 months later. Is that a reasonable amount of time to be able to walk around Rome comfortably?

    I went in for knee pain for years and had a number of different diagnoses. The first was that I had a tumor in my knee that I decided to not get checked out right away. It turned out that it was just scar tissue. I went to pt for years and my hip was hurting like crazy with the knee hurting. so I seen a hip specialist and my hip was all kinds of jacked up. Bad impingement that lead to a hip scope where I lost 100% of my labrum. Still had the knee pain 1 doc said I would need a knee replacement and got a second opinion and it turned out it was not an issue in the join but instead it was a mass the size of a dime of scar tissue. He suggested a F.A.S.T Procedure in December. I got it done and now it feels 80% Better. yet I have worse pain in my hip.

    I am to this day unable to do situps or run and after being on my feet all day i am in excruciating pain.

    Basically I am saying you may wanna get a second opinion.
  • Fit4LifeAR
    Fit4LifeAR Posts: 233 Member
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    This doctor was pretty much my 4th opinion.
  • Alidecker
    Alidecker Posts: 1,262 Member
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    I didn't have knee replacement at a young age, but I had hip replacement at 39. It was bone on bone and it got to the point where I couldn't sleep through the night because of the pain, so I had the replacement surgery. For me, it was a great decision. From what I hear, recovery from knee replacement is harder than hip, but I was back in the gym 6 weeks after surgery. I did follow the physical therapists instructions and did my exercises. It's been 5 years and recently had it checked out and the doctor said it looks great.
  • youngmomtaz
    youngmomtaz Posts: 1,075 Member
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    I would do it. I am a massage therapist who works closely with my clients and thier physios during recovery. The younger clients who have had joint replacements never regret it. They would rather be mobile in their younger years rather than the later years. And even when the joints begin to wear after 15-20years you still have some mobility. They recover amazingly well because their muscle mass is higher and the body tends to heal better when we are younger. Follow the pre and post op exercises you are given, use the machine that circulates cool water around the joint as reccomended and you will heal fine. Many people feel less pain a few days out of surgery than they were feeling before surgery.
  • Alidecker
    Alidecker Posts: 1,262 Member
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    Many people feel less pain a few days out of surgery than they were feeling before surgery.

    With my hip, I woke up from surgery in less pain. The incision hurt, but the joint no longer hurt.
  • Fit4LifeAR
    Fit4LifeAR Posts: 233 Member
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    Alidecker wrote: »
    Many people feel less pain a few days out of surgery than they were feeling before surgery.

    With my hip, I woke up from surgery in less pain. The incision hurt, but the joint no longer hurt.
    This is all really good information!
  • Fit4LifeAR
    Fit4LifeAR Posts: 233 Member
    edited October 2016
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    **Update**

    It is now almost 4 months since my knee replacement and I am back at the gym and doing pretty well. I still have daily pain and I think that is to be expected, but Tylenol usually does the trick. I have a few weeks of Tramadol left, but I am trying to not take them unless I am having a really rough day.

    I have become so restless and impatient though, I really want a hard workout but I am so limited at the gym. I've been riding the bike for a few months and recently starting adding the elliptical, but my body craves a good, hard workout. It's amazing the mental funk you can fall into when you can't workout like you used to.

    How long does it take before you start to feel "normal" again? I will be 4 months out in about two weeks, so I hope I get there soon.
  • karenliebengood
    karenliebengood Posts: 13 Member
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    I had both my knees replaced this spring. I'm older than you but was told they should last 25 years. I ride my bike and walk as much as I want, can even go downstairs without hanging on for dear life!
    I'm glad you are doing well, just keep moving!
  • girlwithcurls2
    girlwithcurls2 Posts: 2,259 Member
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    Fit4LifeAR wrote: »
    **Update**

    It is now almost 4 months since my knee replacement and I am back at the gym and doing pretty well. I still have daily pain and I think that is to be expected, but Tylenol usually does the trick. I have a few weeks of Tramadol left, but I am trying to not take them unless I am having a really rough day.

    I have become so restless and impatient though, I really want a hard workout but I am so limited at the gym. I've been riding the bike for a few months and recently starting adding the elliptical, but my body craves a good, hard workout. It's amazing the mental funk you can fall into when you can't workout like you used to.

    How long does it take before you start to feel "normal" again? I will be 4 months out in about two weeks, so I hope I get there soon.

    Swim. Get in the water and swim or find a water cardio class. You'll have the workout you're looking for. And if everybody in the class doesn't look as young or fit as you, so what? Make it what you want. Best workouts ever.
  • Alidecker
    Alidecker Posts: 1,262 Member
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    Fit4LifeAR wrote: »
    **Update**

    It is now almost 4 months since my knee replacement and I am back at the gym and doing pretty well. I still have daily pain and I think that is to be expected, but Tylenol usually does the trick. I have a few weeks of Tramadol left, but I am trying to not take them unless I am having a really rough day.

    I have become so restless and impatient though, I really want a hard workout but I am so limited at the gym. I've been riding the bike for a few months and recently starting adding the elliptical, but my body craves a good, hard workout. It's amazing the mental funk you can fall into when you can't workout like you used to.

    How long does it take before you start to feel "normal" again? I will be 4 months out in about two weeks, so I hope I get there soon.

    Swim. Get in the water and swim or find a water cardio class. You'll have the workout you're looking for. And if everybody in the class doesn't look as young or fit as you, so what? Make it what you want. Best workouts ever.

    The pool is a great idea.

    Great that you are back in the gym, the harder workouts will come with time. Don't push it so hard that you slow the progress. I totally understand the body craving a good, hard workout. I was relegated to easy cardio for a while after hip replacement, it was frustrating, but I was back to hardcore workouts within 6 months of surgery.
  • MarcyMavin
    MarcyMavin Posts: 142 Member
    edited November 2019
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    @Fit4_LifeAR Friend me please!!!! Would love to speak to another with a knee replacement!!!