lifting for women and calories:D

Hii:) so this may be a stupid question but I really don´t know a lot about this subject, thats why im askingxD So I eat 1200 calories everyday, and I heard weightlifting is a goodway to lose fat percantage. I was considering maybe starting lifting 2 times a week maybe, but i´m really scared of gaining weight, so I was wondering, if I eat 1200 calories and weightlift only twice or maybe thrice a week, will i gain weight from that? Thank you very muchh:)

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  • bellacelina2
    bellacelina2 Posts: 92 Member
    edited November 2019
    @Iorrpb i´m 157 cm, 54 kg, and not very active, so ive been eating 1200 calories for soon 2 years now. Was thinking of starting lifting, but I still want to lose more weight and was scared of maybe gaining weight, my body fat percantage is a little high for my weight, so thought lifting would be a good option maybe. Thank you very much for your response:) so if I lift say 30 min, 3 times a week, I wont gain weight you think:)? thank youuu:D
  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
    You should do measurements in addition to the scale. That way when the scale changes you can still be aware of the composition (muscle vs fat vs water) of that weight change.

    Weightlifting will make you gain weight - particularly in the beginning you will retain water in the muscle fibers as part of the repair process...this weight is not fat, and should be ignored.

    Weightlifting doesn't burn a huge amount of calories, but you do need to eat more to compensate on lifting days. Likely 150-200 calories depending on the routine, and I like to add the extra as protein since your need for amino acids will also increase as part of muscle repair.
  • bellacelina2
    bellacelina2 Posts: 92 Member
    edited November 2019
    So my BMR (Basal Metabolic Rate) is 1,265 Calories, so 1200 area is kinda maintaining on i think? that´s what i always eat atleast, hahaxD Actually I was thinking of going lower but I heard that isnt good from these forums before, so thats why i was thinking of making changes with workouts. Weightlifting is good for losing bodyfat percantage, but i dont know why, but im so scared out of my mind just gaining a single kilogram, so thats why im kinda scared of doing this. I heard cardio isnt as good as weghtlifting, for getting a better metabolism for example and losing bodyfat. Do you have any suggestions to what I could do to lose more bodyfat at this rate? I really appreciate your help, thank you so much dear:))<33 @ElizabethKalmbach
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    TDEE for a 5'2 female at 112 lbs and sedentary lifestyle is around 1665 calories. BMR is about 1387. Lightly active human should be eating around 1908. So, it looks like, unless you're trying to *lose* weight (which honestly, you shouldn't be at that height/weight) you need to be eating more. Again, you might need to work up to 1600 gradually over a couple weeks, adding 100 more calories per week. Don't try to add in workouts at 1200 calories or you will be MISERABLE and unhealthy. Get your calories up first, then add your weight lifting in. If/when you decide to add weight lifting you'll need to be mentally prepared to eat 1900 calories per day or thereabouts to fuel yourself in a healthy way. You *can* eat more and you *should* be eating more before you start working out.
  • bellacelina2
    bellacelina2 Posts: 92 Member
    Thank you so veryvery muchh Elizabeth, I fully understand what you mean, and I really appreciate that you took the time to explain all of this to me, really grateful for that, youre so kind!! I feel I understand more now after having read what you and the others in the forum said, I find eating much is hard, but I will try to increase calories atleast a little, perhaps try to get up to 1300 or maybe even 1400 calories after a while:) I still have a longjourney, because my goal weight is 45 kg, but I will try to do this in a healthier manner like you explained, and take things veryvery slowly, not be unpatient^^ You really helped me out a lot, thank you very muuch!<33 I hope you have a great day further on, and btw youre sooo stunning and beautiful gurl!!:)) Goodluck with all in your life too:D<33 bighugs @ElizabethKalmbach
  • claireychn074
    claireychn074 Posts: 1,646 Member
    Thank you so veryvery muchh Elizabeth, I fully understand what you mean, and I really appreciate that you took the time to explain all of this to me, really grateful for that, youre so kind!! I feel I understand more now after having read what you and the others in the forum said, I find eating much is hard, but I will try to increase calories atleast a little, perhaps try to get up to 1300 or maybe even 1400 calories after a while:) I still have a longjourney, because my goal weight is 45 kg, but I will try to do this in a healthier manner like you explained, and take things veryvery slowly, not be unpatient^^ You really helped me out a lot, thank you very muuch!<33 I hope you have a great day further on, and btw youre sooo stunning and beautiful gurl!!:)) Goodluck with all in your life too:D<33 bighugs @ElizabethKalmbach

    Can I ask why your goal weight is so low? Depending on your body type it might not be achievable. Everyone is different, but for comparison I am 5’3, weigh 120lbs and am a UK size 8. I lift 4x a week and have quite low body fat, and I eat c2100-2300 cals per day. I could lose weight but I wouldn’t be as healthy or able to lift as much. We all have different goals, but think about being strong and beautiful, and consider whether such a low weight is achievable for you.
  • DancingMoosie
    DancingMoosie Posts: 8,619 Member
    99lbs is a really low goal. I am also 5'3" and got down to 109 at my lowest. It scared my husband. My nurse practitioner likes my weight at 117 or above. I feel like I look healthy at 115 or above. Having your calories so low will affect how much you are able to lift, your energy, and pretty much everything your body has to do. You might notice your hair falling, or your nails becoming brittle or splitting, or your cycles changing. You need to eat to fuel your body and your activities. You can't build your muscles in a deficit. Eating below your bmr is not healthy.
  • bellacelina2
    bellacelina2 Posts: 92 Member
    edited November 2019
    its because i dont know how to look like I want without becoming that weight or lower than 45, ive always wanted to have this kind of skinny look, specially legs like these on this picture. I´m scared of getting muscly but i know weightlifting is what you have to do to lose fat at this point on my weight ( i think? ), but im confused what to do since I want this skinny look. But you said it might not be possible for me to become this weight @claireychn074, is that even if i cut down on my calories?:o or for instance if i bike 1-2 hours everyday and eat 1200 calories? cuz i was thinking of doing that too. I dont know if weightlifting is best or biking is best for this kind of look? Thank you for all of your advice guys, its helping a lot and im learning a lot from uuu:)) here´s a photo for what my goals are for refrence, its rose from blackp. Do you guys recommend cardio or weightlifting or just continiue to only diet?? thanks loves:)<33

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  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
    Maybe look into a barre class...ballet is good for creating that long and lean look you are seeking.
  • bellacelina2
    bellacelina2 Posts: 92 Member
    edited November 2019
    Ohhh that´s a great idea:D i´ll look into it!! @tcunbeliever
  • kenyonhaff
    kenyonhaff Posts: 1,377 Member
    I would highly caution you that picking other people's bodies images as inspiration is a bad idea. It's totally great to be inspired to work out by a celebrity, but don't *ever* expect to look like that celebrity. Your body is your body, and the dirty secret for celebrities is that they have the luxury of essentially being paid to exercise, have a nutritionist, personal chef, be able to afford plastic surgery and other treatments, and on top of all that have professionals like wardrobe specialists, photographers, photoshop experts, and so on to further create the illusion of a perfect body. But be warned a lot of these women are anorexic or nearly so because of the obsession on image.

    Exercise and diet and other good health practices will certainly help you be your best you. But it will be you, not some other woman.
  • lorrpb
    lorrpb Posts: 11,463 Member
    @Iorrpb i´m 157 cm, 54 kg, and not very active, so ive been eating 1200 calories for soon 2 years now. Was thinking of starting lifting, but I still want to lose more weight and was scared of maybe gaining weight, my body fat percantage is a little high for my weight, so thought lifting would be a good option maybe. Thank you very much for your response:) so if I lift say 30 min, 3 times a week, I wont gain weight you think:)? thank youuu:D

    No, weightlifting will not make you gain weight. You’re not going to be adding massive amounts of muscle if that’s what you’re worried about.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    its because i dont know how to look like I want without becoming that weight or lower than 45, ive always wanted to have this kind of skinny look, specially legs like these on this picture. I´m scared of getting muscly but i know weightlifting is what you have to do to lose fat at this point on my weight ( i think? ), but im confused what to do since I want this skinny look. But you said it might not be possible for me to become this weight @claireychn074, is that even if i cut down on my calories?:o or for instance if i bike 1-2 hours everyday and eat 1200 calories? cuz i was thinking of doing that too. I dont know if weightlifting is best or biking is best for this kind of look? Thank you for all of your advice guys, its helping a lot and im learning a lot from uuu:)) here´s a photo for what my goals are for refrence, its rose from blackp. Do you guys recommend cardio or weightlifting or just continiue to only diet?? thanks loves:)<33

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    I say this gently. Those images of legs look anorexic to me. It may be beneficial for you to talk to a therapist if this is your goal.

    They look like my legs 30 years ago :D And I have never been anorexic. I just have a very small frame, with limbs that are disproportionately long for my height, and very little muscle if I don't work hard for it.

    OP, weight lifting will probably get you closer to the look that you want. My experience was that lifting stripped off body fat quite effectively while eating at roughly maintenance calories. My weight stayed remarkably stable.
  • claireychn074
    claireychn074 Posts: 1,646 Member
    @bellacelina2 - the reason I said you might not be able to get to that weight is because we all differ. There are petite people who don’t naturally carry much muscle or who are “longer limbed” than others, whereas I’m pretty stout and pear shaped so I would have to lose an unhealthy amount of weight to get lean looking legs (instead I play to my strengths and use my generous thighs to lift!). Women need a certain amount of body fat to be healthy, going below a certain percentage can interfere with your periods. That can then lead to brittle bones and other issues, not to mention your hair falling out and being cold all the time. So please think carefully about your aims: there is nothing wrong at all in wanting to rock a hot body, but it has to be hot for YOU - you can’t force yourself into someone else’s shape.
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    edited November 2019
    I would echo what the previous posters have said about rocking the body you have. There are plenty of people in the world with lovely bodies and small frames. I am not one of them. By measure of my wrists over the bone, I have a large frame for a woman. At 146#, I am technically "over weight" per BMI at 5'4, but my body fat percentage would be 18% which is in the athletic range. I *look* proportionately thin at that weight, but my measurements are 37" bust, 28" waist, 39" hips. My waist will never be smaller than 28 inches, because my frame is broad. Even at 130 pounds, when I didn't like pictures of myself because I looked too skinny, I had a 28" waist. What the eye perceives has very little to do with what the scale says. Be proportionate for your frame and healthy for your genetic makeup, and you will be beautiful. The different densities of what each of us is made of makes scale comparisons largely irrelevant.