Curly or straight?

send_me_god
send_me_god Posts: 46 Member
I’m curious. A lot of women straighten their naturally curly hair because they think that’s what is attractive. I used to hate my curls and did this all the time. What do y’all prefer?

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I’m curious. A lot of women straighten their naturally curly hair because they think that’s what is attractive. I used to hate my curls and did this all the time. What do y’all prefer?

    for you?

    curly 10 outta 10 times !

    you wear it well (actually, better than 'just well'.)

    B)
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  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    Everyone has different taste and different styles look better on certain people. I tend to find loose/wavy/curly hair a little more sexier than pin straight but that's not to say I dislike it in anyway.

    My sister has curly hair and she HATEs it because of how frizzy and the up keep, also it makes her face look fat 🤷🏻‍♂️.

    does she think it makes her face look fat or do you? sorry not clear on the latter part
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  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    I love yours curly pretty poster!!😍💗💗
    I have that in between hair that some days I looove my curls and some days I look like broomhilda 🙄🤷

    I tend to go wavey never liked straight on me at all... Always a big hair chick even when I'm not trying to be and ive had it pin straight an
    non mi piace!!😵🙈....on me that is....i am also super short so that could be it lol those extra centemeters help😉👍💕
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    Everyone has different taste and different styles look better on certain people. I tend to find loose/wavy/curly hair a little more sexier than pin straight but that's not to say I dislike it in anyway.

    My sister has curly hair and she HATEs it because of how frizzy and the up keep, also it makes her face look fat 🤷🏻‍♂️.

    does she think it makes her face look fat or do you? sorry not clear on the latter part

    My sister doesn't give 2 sh*ts what I think 😋. She's always hated her curls especially in the summer humid months.

    i hope she finds the right product but i feel her pain! and thanks for clarifying. :)
  • mi_nina_lola
    mi_nina_lola Posts: 767 Member
    I’m curious. A lot of women straighten their naturally curly hair because they think that’s what is attractive. I used to hate my curls and did this all the time. What do y’all prefer?

    your curls are consistent and what i wish MINE would be - keep it curly,girl - yours are bomb
  • send_me_god
    send_me_god Posts: 46 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    Everyone has different taste and different styles look better on certain people. I tend to find loose/wavy/curly hair a little more sexier than pin straight but that's not to say I dislike it in anyway.

    My sister has curly hair and she HATEs it because of how frizzy and the up keep, also it makes her face look fat 🤷🏻‍♂️.

    Tell her to try the curly girl method. It has worked wonders for my curls! I used to hate mine but I’m fully embracing it now! 😁
  • send_me_god
    send_me_god Posts: 46 Member
    I love yours curly pretty poster!!😍💗💗
    I have that in between hair that some days I looove my curls and some days I look like broomhilda 🙄🤷

    I tend to go wavey never liked straight on me at all... Always a big hair chick even when I'm not trying to be and ive had it pin straight an
    non mi piace!!😵🙈....on me that is....i am also super short so that could be it lol those extra centemeters help😉👍💕

    Thank you. You’re gorgeous! Wavy is so pretty 🤗
  • send_me_god
    send_me_god Posts: 46 Member
    I’m curious. A lot of women straighten their naturally curly hair because they think that’s what is attractive. I used to hate my curls and did this all the time. What do y’all prefer?

    your curls are consistent and what i wish MINE would be - keep it curly,girl - yours are bomb

    I do the curly girl method and it’s amazing! It’s helped me a whole lot 💕
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    Joeyd727 wrote: »
    Everyone has different taste and different styles look better on certain people. I tend to find loose/wavy/curly hair a little more sexier than pin straight but that's not to say I dislike it in anyway.

    My sister has curly hair and she HATEs it because of how frizzy and the up keep, also it makes her face look fat 🤷🏻‍♂️.

    does she think it makes her face look fat or do you? sorry not clear on the latter part

    My sister doesn't give 2 sh*ts what I think 😋. She's always hated her curls especially in the humid summer months.

    Summer months are put your hair up and give it up weather for most curly wavy chicks....or well me😣....I'm sure she is gorgeous....🤗
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    I love yours curly pretty poster!!😍💗💗
    I have that in between hair that some days I looove my curls and some days I look like broomhilda 🙄🤷

    I tend to go wavey never liked straight on me at all... Always a big hair chick even when I'm not trying to be and ive had it pin straight an
    non mi piace!!😵🙈....on me that is....i am also super short so that could be it lol those extra centemeters help😉👍💕

    Thank you. You’re gorgeous! Wavy is so pretty 🤗

    You're my dear are the gorgeous one but thank you!🤗❤
  • TarryTaffy
    TarryTaffy Posts: 883 Member
    Firstly, the OP would be gorgeous bald.

    Personally, with pin straight hair, I spent decades curling it with hot rollers or irons... that grass is greener syndrome. Now, I just embrace straight... I occasionally curl it into soft waves. I have no preference. I've known women with all sorts of wave patterns or none & they all look beautiful.

    Hair's an accessory. Straighten or curl it at your will. Said as a former hairdresser... healthy hair is beautiful, regardless of curl pattern. Do both... whatever you feel. They're all pretty.
  • TarryTaffy
    TarryTaffy Posts: 883 Member
    edited December 2019
    Summer months are put your hair up and give it up weather for most curly wavy chicks....or well me😣....I'm sure she is gorgeous....🤗

    @Tinydancer106 You've always got lovely compliments for others. How nice to read your comments. Well done...
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    TarryTaffy wrote: »
    Summer months are put your hair up and give it up weather for most curly wavy chicks....or well me😣....I'm sure she is gorgeous....🤗

    @Tinydancer106 You've always got lovely compliments for others. How nice to read your comments. Well done...

    And you lovely are the bestest homegirl ever!!🤗💕💕💕
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    I think both are great. I have only a little bit of natural wave in my hair and have started playing it up as much as I can, about half the time. I coil a couple top pieces in spirals in clips after my shower and it gives the illusion of a lot more wave. The rest of the time I straighten my hair which is easy since it's fairly straight. I would love to have big springy curls like yours, OP!
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    I think life would be boring if we all looked the same. A lot of the young women at work wear exactly the same hairstyle and they look like they all popped out of a factory.

    The OP's hair is gorgeous, very striking! I say rock those curls!

    My hair is baby fine with a bit of wave that unfortunately gets frizzy because of its fine texture. I lose about 50% of its volume if I straighten it, which leaves me looking like I don't have much hair at all. Any frizz-control products just weigh it down. I've learned to let it air dry and not to waste time fighting it because whatever look I achieve will be gone by noon.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    OP your hair is gorgeous!

    I used to have thickish wavy hair, now its thinner but curly. I feel all of you about the frizz factor, and the unpredictability of how your curls will "behave".

    I try to "tame" mine into a smooth wave by spiraling it into ringlet pigtails to dry lately. It gives a really nice soft wave, and its smooth feeling - highly recommend you curly, wavy ladies try - no heat needed, and a smooth, "controlled" result.

    I like my natural curls - when they look good, but it means hours of undisturbed drying time and I don't have that time on work days. Also jackets, hoodies, wind = "bad hair day" for my curls if air drying.

    I sometimes straighten my hair because I'll have a "predictable" result. And I often get complimented when I do - makes me feel like I look like hell all the rest of the time!
  • mrsjar5311
    mrsjar5311 Posts: 514 Member
    My children have super curly hair which is the main reason why I've grown their hair out! I hope they never straighten it but yeah you're right, most people I know with curly hair straighten it!

    I have a proper afro - I stopped using chemicals to straighten it 5 years ago so it's a full on 4c hair now. It's a pain but the curls are here to stay!
  • corinasue1143
    corinasue1143 Posts: 7,460 Member
    Love the hair in your profile! Keep it! Embrace it! It’s beautiful!
  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
    I think your curly hair looks fantastic. 😊
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  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    I think life would be boring if we all looked the same. A lot of the young women at work wear exactly the same hairstyle and they look like they all popped out of a factory.

    Definitely. In the early 2000s I wore a pixie cut and 90% of my friends and coworkers had angled bobs with side bangs. Most had highlights too. Nothing wrong with that but man they all had identical hair!
  • MichelleWithMoxie
    MichelleWithMoxie Posts: 1,817 Member
    I love curls!! I always wanted more curls to my hair, and unfortunately can’t figure out how to properly work a curling iron to save my life lol
  • thereshegoesagain
    thereshegoesagain Posts: 1,056 Member
    I have very curly hair and just recently have embraced my hair as it is naturally. A few times a month, I'll have it styled just so.i don't have to mess with it for several days.
    At 61 years old, I've started dating again, the guys all show a strong preference to the curls.