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  • HollieDoodles
    HollieDoodles Posts: 678 Member
    IMHO.... You have a problem. Normally I never would say this in public, but you are saying this in public and your "friend" can plainly see it and most likely knows it's about them. So I am going to say, you aren't being a good friend. You did something rude and you did it for hundreds to see. That's not the kind of friend that anyone wants. Do your "friend" a favor.... Delete YOURSELF from THEIR list of "friends".

    I am not going to tell you how to be a friend, because I do not believe you'd "get it" anyway.

    Think twice ,or 10 times if you need to, before you post something that is hurtful to others..... I just thought it through and decided... You needed a wake up call.

    Think what you want about me, you have that right, but I am tired of hurtful posts from so called adults.
  • HappyLuna
    HappyLuna Posts: 112
    IMHO.... You have a problem. Normally I never would say this in public, but you are saying this in public and your "friend" can plainly see it and most likely knows it's about them. So I am going to say, you aren't being a good friend. You did something rude and you did it for hundreds to see. That's not the kind of friend that anyone wants. Do your "friend" a favor.... Delete YOURSELF from THEIR list of "friends".

    I am not going to tell you how to be a friend, because I do not believe you'd "get it" anyway.

    Think twice ,or 10 times if you need to, before you post something that is hurtful to others..... I just thought it through and decided... You needed a wake up call.

    Think what you want about me, you have that right, but I am tired of hurtful posts from so called adults.

    ^^^ Harsh post with a good meaning. You are using this as an opportunity to publically b1tch about someone. Focus on your own success. Don't 'make up' that people have ED's ect by what you see.

    Two things you need to think about:

    "There is no use trying to change another person who annoys you. But you can change your reaction to them, in which case it doesn’t matter how they behave.
    Your reaction is what affects you, not the other person’s behavior. When you react to a situation in a non judgmental way, you will diffuse the situation."

    "When interacting with other people, it would be much wiser to observe and learn rather than to judge and condemn."
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    IMHO.... You have a problem. Normally I never would say this in public, but you are saying this in public and your "friend" can plainly see it and most likely knows it's about them. So I am going to say, you aren't being a good friend. You did something rude and you did it for hundreds to see. That's not the kind of friend that anyone wants. Do your "friend" a favor.... Delete YOURSELF from THEIR list of "friends".

    I am not going to tell you how to be a friend, because I do not believe you'd "get it" anyway.

    Think twice ,or 10 times if you need to, before you post something that is hurtful to others..... I just thought it through and decided... You needed a wake up call.

    Think what you want about me, you have that right, but I am tired of hurtful posts from so called adults.

    this is my homegirl, and I love her.
  • silkysly
    silkysly Posts: 701 Member
    I feel your frustrations. I really try to eat healthy & keep an open diary. I see some friends eating hot pockets & total crud if you ask me. They aren’t asking for help, but they aren’t helping their selves with the stuff they eat either. I want to cut them from the team so to speak because I see their post is more of a social network. I don’t know, you got me on this one…
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