6 weeks in - no weight shifted - please help!

Hi guys
So it's been 6 weeks since I started calorie counting. I've only just started trying to lose weight and I've got 1 stone to lose. I figured calorie counting was the best way.

I weigh 140 pounds/10 stone and want to get to around 126 pounds/9 stone. I'm 5'3.

I currently do 45 minutes on the exercise bike 5 times a week. Lift some light dumbbells twice a week. I do around 3000-4000 steps a day according to my tracker. I know I need to up this too.

I eat around 1300-1600 calories every day, I check packages and also weigh things to calculate the calories properly.

I do eat a lot of carbs and I have one small (fun size bar) chocolate every day (major sweet tooth). Could this be the reason why I haven't lost any weight yet? I seem to be maintaining every week.

I also drink 2L of water a day.

Any tips or advice would be really appreciated as I'm really starting to lose motivation.

Does anyone know whether apple cider vinegar helps with weigh loss?
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  • innaa1789
    innaa1789 Posts: 19 Member
    I’m by no means a pro. In fact, I just started my journey two months ago..
    But could you still be consuming too much some days? Maybe 1600 is a bit much. Also I’ve read in multiple places now that simple carbs retain water.. sugar also isn’t good. Im not sure what kind of carbs you’re eating, but what if you try cutting out, or at least greatly limiting simple carbs? White flour products, white rice, etc. also try avoiding any food intake 3 hrs before bedtime, especially carbs. Same with sugar. And watch salt content. You’re not terribly overweight, so I’m sure that also makes it harder to drop the lbs..
    Again, like I said I’m not a pro and don’t know too much.. but I started out at 190, down to 176, “plateau’ed” at 180, and the above is what seemed to make a difference for me. Oh and I’m 5’6”. My daily calorie max is 1230.. I try to do elliptical for 40-50 min 6 days a week, but only started that maybe 2-3 wks ago.


    Additionally I would suggest taking measurements of your body.. arms, waist, thighs, etc. I wish I did that from the beginning, because although my weight loss isn’t much since I started on March 1st, I totally notice a difference in how I look, and also how some clothing fits.
  • Steelkid
    Steelkid Posts: 74 Member
    lizw1xx wrote: »
    Hi guys
    So it's been 6 weeks since I started calorie counting. I've only just started trying to lose weight and I've got 1 stone to lose. I figured calorie counting was the best way.

    I weigh 140 pounds/10 stone and want to get to around 126 pounds/9 stone. I'm 5'3.

    I currently do 45 minutes on the exercise bike 5 times a week. Lift some light dumbbells twice a week. I do around 3000-4000 steps a day according to my tracker. I know I need to up this too.

    I eat around 1300-1600 calories every day, I check packages and also weigh things to calculate the calories properly.

    I do eat a lot of carbs and I have one small (fun size bar) chocolate every day (major sweet tooth). Could this be the reason why I haven't lost any weight yet? I seem to be maintaining every week.

    I also drink 2L of water a day.

    Any tips or advice would be really appreciated as I'm really starting to lose motivation.

    Does anyone know whether apple cider vinegar helps with weigh loss?

    That's your problem right there. Try to lower your total carb intake to 20-50 grams a day. Water weight loves carbs.
  • okbuddha
    okbuddha Posts: 22 Member
    I was just going through my past week's calorie intake this morning with the same issue...I noticed that, regardless of whether I stayed around the same amount of calories each day, I gained weight on the days I ate mostly carbs and sweets (the sweets I choose also being carbs.)
  • CharlieS96
    CharlieS96 Posts: 58 Member
    It seems like you are active enough, maybe try and double your daily steps as that will burn a few extra few calories.

    If you are not losing any weight it is to do with calories in vs calories burnt, you are not losing because your calories in match the amount your body is using in a day.

    I can't be sure how meticulous you are with your tracking but you probably need to have a day of weighing everything out and add that up, it may make you realize that it is just the portion sizes you are misjudging.

    It may not be by much but if it's 100 calories more a meal that's 300 calories a day your out by. Which makes a difference over the course of a week, or in your case 6 weeks.
  • innaa1789
    innaa1789 Posts: 19 Member
    edited April 2020

    There is no reason she has to not eat 3 hours before bed, and avoid sugars and carbs, this is a myth, you can eat all your calories at anytime of the day and still lose, carbs do not make you fat, too many calories do

    She asked for advice and I gave her advice on what worked on me. Clearly I said I’m not a pro, but these things worked, regardless of if it’s a “myth”. Didn’t say carbs make you fat. I said I read that carbs can cause water retention = water weight. This is also why I mentioned that measurements are a more accurate assessment of progress than actual weight.....
  • spiriteagle99
    spiriteagle99 Posts: 3,745 Member
    As a small female, the line between losing and maintaining your weight isn't that far apart. As an older female, mostly sedentary, I was given 1200 calories to lose weight, but my maintenance is supposedly 1400. That gives no margin for error. Fortunately for me, I get enough exercise as a runner that I have a lot more leeway in my diet and my metabolism is a bit higher than average. For you, you will need to weigh everything and be careful about what data entries you use. Some are more accurate than others. When in doubt, pick the higher calorie option rather than the lower.
  • innaa1789
    innaa1789 Posts: 19 Member

    And I am clearing up that she does not have to do that because the issue is calories not carbs. If you wanna not eat sugars and carbs and not do so 3 hours before bed, fill your boots, but that doesnt mean I cant come back and tell her that it's not necessary, because it isnt.

    Hm, okay. 👏🏼
  • innaa1789
    innaa1789 Posts: 19 Member
    Sorry guys, if you completely misunderstood my post.. it wasn’t my intent to go in that direction.
    OP I just wanted to clarify that by no means anything I said was a hard and fast rule. First time posting on here, and I didn’t realize how absolutely awful my advice was...
    I will not delete my original comment. But I wanted to add that I am not strict in limiting anything, and firmly believe that calories are what matters. But when my scale stopped moving after the first 10 lbs two weeks ago, the above things helped to make it move.. I don’t think it was actual true fat loss, more water weight (as stated repeatedly!🤦🏻‍♀️ and obviously I lost weight before that just on the basis of calorie counting.) But it also made me feel better physically.
    Also I was quite sarcastic in saying “not terribly overweight”. Clearly anyone can tell with her numbers that she is in a healthy BMI range....

    And as a side point, whereas carbs don’t make you gain weight, simple carbs (yes the “white flour” containing products, not “white foods”) are not great, neither is an abundance of sugar. Better to increase complex carbs in your diet overall, and minimize the other stuff. And that’s true for anyone...
  • innaa1789
    innaa1789 Posts: 19 Member
    Dont refrain from commenting tho, because we all learn as we go, even I get corrected from time to time, and that's great because I desire to know more so I can in turn help others, the goal here is to help others, it's great that you want to help people too, it's what makes this community a good resource for good information, because we all get a chance to learn.

    Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
  • Avidkeo
    Avidkeo Posts: 3,209 Member
    edited April 2020
    innaa1789 wrote: »

    There is no reason she has to not eat 3 hours before bed, and avoid sugars and carbs, this is a myth, you can eat all your calories at anytime of the day and still lose, carbs do not make you fat, too many calories do

    She asked for advice and I gave her advice on what worked on me. Clearly I said I’m not a pro, but these things worked, regardless of if it’s a “myth”. Didn’t say carbs make you fat. I said I read that carbs can cause water retention = water weight. This is also why I mentioned that measurements are a more accurate assessment of progress than actual weight.....

    Well as far as your n=1...

    ETA ok i see you have listened to others, sorry for jumping in. But I'm going to leave my comment anyway because CARBS ARE NOT THE ENEMY. Nothing is. No single food makes you gain or lose weight. It's simply Ci vs Co.

    I usually aim for more protein than carbs. So probably get around 140/150g carbs per day most days. But towards the end of last week I carb loaded - so closer to 300g of carbs per day. All simple carbs. Bread, rice, sugar. I was still in deficit though.

    Guess what, I lost weight every day - I track daily and use a trend app)

    So yes carbs like water, but if you are in deficit you will still lose weight, even if you eat almost 100% carbs.
  • lizw1xx
    lizw1xx Posts: 3 Member
    Hi everyone! Thank you so for the tips and advice. I've still not lost any weight, even after upping the exercise more.

    I'm thinking I might have to try having carb free or less carbs after all. What do you guys have for breakfast and lunch that is filling? My dinner usually consists of pasta with mince (all calorie counted) or chicken, potatoes and salad, or chicken and vegetable stir-fry. So it's really the breakfast I normally have one slice of toast, and lunch a bowel of cereal or Jacobs crackers. Not that much option with lockdown at the moment!

    Hope you're well :)
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,265 Member
    lizw1xx wrote: »
    Hi everyone! Thank you so for the tips and advice. I've still not lost any weight, even after upping the exercise more.

    I'm thinking I might have to try having carb free or less carbs after all. What do you guys have for breakfast and lunch that is filling? My dinner usually consists of pasta with mince (all calorie counted) or chicken, potatoes and salad, or chicken and vegetable stir-fry. So it's really the breakfast I normally have one slice of toast, and lunch a bowel of cereal or Jacobs crackers. Not that much option with lockdown at the moment!

    Hope you're well :)

    Breakfast: Oatmeal with plain Greek yogurt, thawed frozen mixed berries, walnuts, hemp seed, flax seed, blackstrap molasses, cinnamon; 2 x coffee with hot skim milk; iced matcha. Same thing I ate during 50+ pounds weight loss most of the time, except I think I added the hemp/flax when I got close to maintenance, and switched from a tablespoon of all-fruit spread to same amount of blackstrap molasses later. That's 80.3g of carbs, though (more importantly for me, 37.9g protein). During loss, without the swaps, about 11g fewer carbs, 6g less protein.

    Lunch in lockdown: Apple with peanut butter, or Ezekiel pita with peanut butter, possible with a big cracker thingie with about an ounce of goat cheese on it. (Weird, right?) Around 27g carbs, 20g protein.

    I think you maybe low-balling protein, for best satiation.

    No opinion about whether you should cut carbs: I never did, except to the extent needed to reduce calories. If you do it, expect a nice rewarding scale drop at first from reduced water weight, which is psychologically rewarding . . . but not fat, which is usually the main thing we want to lose.

    You seem to have been on MFP only for about a week? Have you been calorie-counting (accurately) longer than that?

    Advice: If you keep switching up what you're doing, it's going to be hard to tell what really works. Results lag multiple days behind eating (not show up in the very next day), and get averaged over multiple days, besides. You can end up thinking that X is your magic solution, when it was really the thing that you did right before X that was the more productive route.

    Are you eating back your exercise calories? If so, how many calories do you believe you burn, for what specific lengths/types of exercise? Didn't see where you'd said, if you did.

    Are you including any cheat meals/days (I'm not talking about the candy bar)? If so, how often, and what's their nature?

    And +1 to the suggestion that you temporarily make your diary public, so we can help you find any new-user logging issues you may not be aware of.

    Best wishes!
  • lizw1xx
    lizw1xx Posts: 3 Member
    Hi!
    Thanks for your replies :)
    I've been using other apps for calorie counting, so sharing my diary won't be of much help, I mainly joined because of the forums. I'll definitely try and fill out my diary more on here as well.
    I never eat back my calories, it's hard to tell what I really burn calorie wise. My stationary exercise bike says 400 calories for 40 minutes though I feel like that might be a bit too high.
    I also tend to have a cheat day once a week on a Saturday (after I've had my weigh day), I won't be so strict on calorie counting and have a couple of slices of pizza, or have a nice dessert instead. Is once a week too often? Probably! I'll probably be more around the 1800-2000 calories on those days.
    I'm thinking of having 1 boiled egg and maybe one ryvita for breakfast instead of a toast or cereal. Do you guys reckon that would make a difference? Xx