boyfriends ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

tonilizzy88
tonilizzy88 Posts: 920 Member
edited October 2 in Chit-Chat
sorry about this but i need to rant somewere........

my boyfriend is chef and has just done a breakfast shift meaning he starts at 5am and finishes at 3 im a support woeker and today i started my shift at 10am and i finish at 9am tommorow.... now he normaly phones me after his shifty but today didnt so i rang him at 4pm and no reply ok so i left it and 4.30 he rings back with

'WHAT DO YOU WANT im tryinh to chill out and your ringing me'

wow now why the attitude i dont get it and now my happy work mode has dissapeared and im in a right huff puff.... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Is he always like that or is he just having a bad day?
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    I get ya. I hate it when his b1tchy mood puts me in a b1tchy mood.
  • tonilizzy88
    tonilizzy88 Posts: 920 Member
    Is he always like that or is he just having a bad day?

    just having a bad day but why take it out on me... the person who is STILL in work and will be until tommorow. i understand he was up early but no need for the attitude
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
    Sounds like he was just tryin' to chill out.
  • hdroddy
    hdroddy Posts: 122
    Funny, isn't it? Men make a big deal about a woman's moods, but they aren't any better.
  • livnlite
    livnlite Posts: 520
    Looks like you maybe just be dating "Mr Cranky Pants" .. Pfftt! You had the audacity to disturb him .. and he vented
    ... (overdramatically I might add) ..


    We all can become b!tchy at one time or another .. If this is a one time occurance or a very rare occasion, I wouldn't think too much of it .. If that were me .. I would have appologized for disturbing him, because I would be sorry for disturbing him .. then I would b!tch slap him for snapping at me. But that's me .. If you push me .. I push back.

    If it festors into something more serious and If he is a "new" boyfriend .. sounds like you're in for a bumpy ride.
  • tonilizzy88
    tonilizzy88 Posts: 920 Member
    Looks like you maybe just be dating "Mr Cranky Pants" .. Pfftt! You had the audacity to disturb him .. and he vented
    ... (overdramatically I might add) ..


    We all can become b!tchy at one time or another .. If this is a one time occurance or a very rare occasion, I wouldn't think too much of it .. If that were me .. I would have appologized for disturbing him, because I would be sorry for disturbing him .. then I would b!tch slap him for snapping at me. But that's me .. If you push me .. I push back.

    If it festors into something more serious and If he is a "new" boyfriend .. sounds like you're in for a bumpy ride.

    no we live together and have been together for nearly 2 years. he is a lovely boyfriend and i love him lots but it just got to me that he snapped so harshly at me for his mood wich he gained at work..... i didnt think it was fair because i now feel like s**t
  • ClareB1974
    ClareB1974 Posts: 224 Member
    Funny, isn't it? Men make a big deal about a woman's moods, but they aren't any better.

    This made me laugh, because it's so true!!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Is he always like that or is he just having a bad day?

    just having a bad day but why take it out on me... the person who is STILL in work and will be until tommorow. i understand he was up early but no need for the attitude

    'Cause you're closest and easiest. You know what they say about always hurting the one you love. :-)

    Sorry he's being snippy. Hopefully, he'll apologize.
  • JamesonsMommy
    JamesonsMommy Posts: 771 Member
    Looks like you maybe just be dating "Mr Cranky Pants" .. Pfftt! You had the audacity to disturb him .. and he vented
    ... (overdramatically I might add) ..


    We all can become b!tchy at one time or another .. If this is a one time occurance or a very rare occasion, I wouldn't think too much of it .. If that were me .. I would have appologized for disturbing him, because I would be sorry for disturbing him .. then I would b!tch slap him for snapping at me. But that's me .. If you push me .. I push back.

    If it festors into something more serious and If he is a "new" boyfriend .. sounds like you're in for a bumpy ride.

    no we live together and have been together for nearly 2 years. he is a lovely boyfriend and i love him lots but it just got to me that he snapped so harshly at me for his mood wich he gained at work..... i didnt think it was fair because i now feel like s**t


    I'm sorry.. there is no excuse to act like that... Bad day or not. I understand everyone has a bad day every so often but if i had a bad day and my bf called me i would be happy to talk to them and probably vent.. not take it out on them.. The only way i would understand is if he was napping.. lol My fiance knows better to snap at me for a bad day...lol Hope your day gets better :)
  • livnlite
    livnlite Posts: 520
    Looks like you maybe just be dating "Mr Cranky Pants" .. Pfftt! You had the audacity to disturb him .. and he vented
    ... (overdramatically I might add) ..


    We all can become b!tchy at one time or another .. If this is a one time occurance or a very rare occasion, I wouldn't think too much of it .. If that were me .. I would have appologized for disturbing him, because I would be sorry for disturbing him .. then I would b!tch slap him for snapping at me. But that's me .. If you push me .. I push back.

    If it festors into something more serious and If he is a "new" boyfriend .. sounds like you're in for a bumpy ride.

    no we live together and have been together for nearly 2 years. he is a lovely boyfriend and i love him lots but it just got to me that he snapped so harshly at me for his mood wich he gained at work..... i didnt think it was fair because i now feel like s**t

    FAIR? Of course it wasn't fair. No question about it .. He behaved badly, when he so rudely snapped at you.

    But, I wouldn't let it bother you so much. Unless it's something that borders on being abusive, then maybe you might have a problem. We all .. and I mean ALL ... crack under pressure, have bad days, or snap on occasion ... Although hurtful, I really doubt if he meant anything by it .. there's no reason to believe there was anything sinister going on ... is there?

    Of course, he should appologize .. and you should both move on. If you are going to be in a relationship where every cross word, snide remark or mumble under one's breath is going to cause highened friction between you two you are going to have a very bumpy ride.

    There are too many things in any longterm relationship that will cause drama and friction as it is ..... Pick your battles. As years go on .. believe it or not .. you do get a thicker skin.
  • routerguy666
    routerguy666 Posts: 188
    Funny, isn't it? Men make a big deal about a woman's moods, but they aren't any better.

    The difference being he got over it about 5 minutes after hanging up...
  • sarahazelnut99
    sarahazelnut99 Posts: 307 Member
    you should dump him.
  • sarahazelnut99
    sarahazelnut99 Posts: 307 Member
    or make him take you to endless shrimp at red lobster...it depends on what type of girl you are. im the type that wont let anyone get away with anything
  • tonilizzy88
    tonilizzy88 Posts: 920 Member
    you should dump him.

    lol im not duping him over a remark..... that be silly id never have a boyfriend. its all over now a new fresh day :)
  • alantin
    alantin Posts: 621 Member
    I don't know the person or the situation, so pretty hard to say..

    Have you offended him somehow lately?
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