Relationship help.

If you put forth the effort to take time out of your schedule to fit in asking her out in person, you will be telling her that she means that much to you.

I say be patient man and do it in person. I know its exciting and you can't wait to do it but its that moment of you asking her face to face that she's gonna remember . Just don't let it go on too long though. If you have to just steal a quick moment from her, you do it.

do not text her.. lol. I know you may be anxious about making it official, but it will mean SOOOOO much more being done in person. Texting someone something like this is just wrong in my opinion. It should be done face to face.

Does she have a track meet this week? You could go to her meet (surprise her even?), cheer her on and then ask her out then?

Although "face to face" is my preferred method, a "HAND WRITTEN letter in INK" also does the trick. It says that you put an honest effort to actually think about what you wanted to say, cause if you made a mistake there's no erasing pen. Plus, not to many people HAND WRITE a letter, so it makes you stand out as being unique.

My schedule is clear it's her's that is conflicting. What would really be cool if I just went to her house pulled her outside and asked her out right then and there. But I'm too chicken for that lol.

OK, here is what you do. First girlfriend/you want to make this work. You know where her house is. Wrap yourself completely in Saran Wrap... Oops! Never mind, wrong advice.

Why don't you buy her flowers and either have them delivered with a note asking for a date, or ring the doorbell and be standing there with said flowers and note?

Is this her home? Would you be ringing the doorbell of her parent's house?

I had a similar situation many years ago at community college. I asked this girl to have lunch with me the following day at the school. It sounded casual - we would just eat at one of the tables in the large cafeteria area or one of the concrete tables outside. No big deal, right?

Well, I went home and cooked an entire meal, bought candles and candle holders and some kind of fancy water or something and a tablecloth. Brought all that crap up to school the next day - with plates, silverware, serving utensils and glasses - in a big cardboard box that I hid near the cafeteria.

At lunchtime, we met and I told her "I brought us lunch" - then took her to an outside table where I had just moved the box and proceeded to set the table, light the candles and serve her a home-cooked meal. I think the school paper ran a picture of it.

It was an awesome first date that I was proud of.

The relationship ended in gut-wrenching pain, but that's beside the point....

Take action. Do something. Leave a note with a single flower in her mailbox/locker/car windshield wiper.

If I were you, I'd go to her meet Saturday and sit in the stands with a giant cardboard sign that asks her out on a date. Just sit there holding it up until she says yes or security escorts you out, whichever comes first.

If you ask her out via text, every single person on MFP (even the ones that don't know anything about this thread) will be disappointed and sad and probably stuff those feelings by overeating. You don't want that, do you?

My schedule is clear it's her's that is conflicting. What would really be cool if I just went to her house pulled her outside and asked her out right then and there. But I'm too chicken for that lol.

OK, here is what you do. First girlfriend/you want to make this work. You know where her house is. Wrap yourself completely in Saran Wrap... Oops! Never mind, wrong advice.

Why don't you buy her flowers and either have them delivered with a note asking for a date, or ring the doorbell and be standing there with said flowers and note?


Is this her home? Would you be ringing the doorbell of her parent's house?

I had a similar situation many years ago at community college. I asked this girl to have lunch with me the following day at the school. It sounded casual - we would just eat at one of the tables in the large cafeteria area or one of the concrete tables outside. No big deal, right?

Well, I went home and cooked an entire meal, bought candles and candle holders and some kind of fancy water or something and a tablecloth. Brought all that crap up to school the next day - with plates, silverware, serving utensils and glasses - in a big cardboard box that I hid near the cafeteria.

At lunchtime, we met and I told her "I brought us lunch" - then took her to an outside table where I had just moved the box and proceeded to set the table, light the candles and serve her a home-cooked meal. I think the school paper ran a picture of it.

It was an awesome first date that I was proud of.

The relationship ended in gut-wrenching pain, but that's beside the point....

Take action. Do something. Leave a note with a single flower in her mailbox/locker/car windshield wiper.

If I were you, I'd go to her meet Saturday and sit in the stands with a giant cardboard sign that asks her out on a date. Just sit there holding it up until she says yes or security escorts you out, whichever comes first.

If you ask her out via text, every single person on MFP (even the ones that don't know anything about this thread) will be disappointed and sad and probably stuff those feelings by overeating. You don't want that, do you?

^^ this guy, second time today i've said it, I always agree with this guy^^

It doesn't have to be a huge ordeal, just a gesture And I'm glad you're seeing that texting isn't the way to go!

Oh no, I don't mean that you're making a huge ordeal out of it...I just meant you don't have to go all out and do something extravagant to ask her out. I think it's sweet, I think that if you don't see her by this weekend, send her the letter...or you could even ask her if you could swing by her house some night this week? Just say it's for a few minutes and then just ask her out then. But yeah, send the letter if you haven't seen her by the end of the weekend! Good luck!