MILF- offensive or a complament???

RachelH25
RachelH25 Posts: 108
edited October 2 in Chit-Chat
When I get called a milf I feel like I should be offended. I don't however. In fact I feel alittle proud that I still look good after poppin out a baby.

How about the rest of you hot mamas out there? Offensive or not?
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  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    you're hot!

    i personally don't like the MILF word. I think it's cheap. Either you're hot or not to me!
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    I've got no problem with it at all. I don't spend the time I do at the gym to not be!
  • Liquid741
    Liquid741 Posts: 292 Member
    would you be pissed if you were not even considered a MILF?

    honestly...too many sensitive peeps out there..
  • brewingaz
    brewingaz Posts: 1,136 Member
    I'd take it as a compliment if I could be a MILF.
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    I am not offended if the one calling me a MILF is hot :devil:
  • springtrio
    springtrio Posts: 429 Member
    I used to, but I've learned to embrace. I freakin LOVE IT now.
  • raevynn
    raevynn Posts: 666 Member
    I had a photo of me tagged with that on flickr once... I had to really think about it.

    I think it is basically a compliment, but it can feel a little creepy when it comes from someone who is the age of your own kids!
  • TheNewLK
    TheNewLK Posts: 933 Member
    I am not offended if the one calling me a MILF is hot :devil:

    ^^ This

    I totally take it as a compliment.....the fact i have had a child lost 56 lbs and can still catch someones eye Hell Yes its a compliment!
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Being a MILF was a major goal! haha Love it!
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    you're hot!

    i personally don't like the MILF word. I think it's cheap. Either you're hot or not to me!

    I don't have kids yet but I'm not offended by the thought but more so agree that "MILF" sounds cheap. Tell me I'm hot or keep walking. It's that easy! :tongue:
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    As the mom of a teenager, it's rather gross. I don't want to be thought of as someone his friends want to F. But I think it's meant to be a compliment, so I'd take it as such, even though it's not something I aspire to.
  • 1petewest
    1petewest Posts: 281
    bump... gotta get in on this! :)
  • erxkeel
    erxkeel Posts: 553 Member
    if you got it, u got it!
  • Scarletblue
    Scarletblue Posts: 255
    I'd take it as a compliment if I could be a MILF.

    Your a FILF.... (which sounds kinda like a ghetto filth)

    anywho take it as a compliment I would
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Personally, I'm flattered by the prospect that someone wants to fu@k me. The concept of words making me feel cheap or words being 'cheap' doesn't compute. Words don't make me any different than who I am.
  • LaDiablesse
    LaDiablesse Posts: 862 Member
    I take it as a compliment. I've worked hard to get as far as I am right now after having 3 kids. Can't say I'm used to the attention & don't necessarily know how to respond to it, but it's definitely a great feeling!
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    to me, its a compliment. I know we're not really going to get it on. It is just an expression. I can dig it.
  • KMSForLife
    KMSForLife Posts: 577 Member
    As the mom of a teenager, it's rather gross. I don't want to be thought of as someone his friends want to F. But I think it's meant to be a compliment, so I'd take it as such, even though it's not something I aspire to.


    Amen!
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    Personally, I'm flattered by the prospect that someone wants to fu@k me. The concept of words making me feel cheap or words being 'cheap' doesn't compute. Words don't make me any different than who I am.

    ^^Agreed
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    its always meant as a compliment, even if it come's off as a little crude
  • Typhanee83
    Typhanee83 Posts: 309 Member
    Compliment. Definitely.
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    I am not offended if the one calling me a MILF is hot :devil:

    ^^ This

    I totally take it as a compliment.....the fact i have had a child lost 56 lbs and can still catch someones eye Hell Yes its a compliment!

    Oh honey... in a few years I recommend getting A LOT of mileage out of your MILFdom... it served me well... Hot 25 year olds flock to 35 year old women like moths to a flame!

    Not that I took advantage of that or anything :wink:
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Compliment :happy:
  • RachelH25
    RachelH25 Posts: 108
    I agree its weird coming from anyone under the age of 18.
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    I agree its weird coming from anyone under the age of 18.

    That never happens except in porno and coming of age movies. Good grief.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    Yeah, i don't like it either. It makes even less sense when someone calls themselves a "MILF". I like to be a "sexy" or "hot" mother but no thanks on the "MILF".
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I don't find it offensive. Kind of a compliment.

    But I think if I ever heard the word come out of one of my kid's friends' mouth, I would be creeped out.

    I used to always say my goal was to be one, but the idea of it is kind of gross. I'm quite ambiguous on the subject!
  • tmiqueen
    tmiqueen Posts: 254 Member
    It's a crude compliment, if that makes any sense.

    Yes, it makes me feel good, like my body is looking good in spite of the fact that my body's been stretched thin from carrying a baby.

    However, it's equally crude, but I try to take it with the humor with which the term is intended.

    For example, my teenage son's friends have been overheard saying that I was a MILF. It felt gross, but also gratifying that even teenagers think I'm still worthy of being called hot while in my late 30's. Maybe they just wanted to toy with my son about being his potential stepfather....those kids are kinda crazy. LOL
  • ohwhataday
    ohwhataday Posts: 1,398 Member
    aint no thang.
  • dkreman
    dkreman Posts: 17
    Sorry for the ignorance. What does MILF stand for?
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