Feeling like a cow
ThatCookieGurl
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I finally got down to a weight that I felt good with and then the weekend hit and I’m way back up in weight and I feel like a cow. I know it is probably water retention from the junk I ate over the weekend, but it still makes me feel fat and much like a cow. I feel so off beat with working out and eating right and I’m so afraid to gain all the weight I lost back by the time the holidays are here. I’m depressed. How do you keep on track after such a big weight gain? How do you stay positive and out of your head?
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From one day, or a couple, any weight gain is mostly water. It'll be fine. Just get back on a healthy track, learn from it, and go on. No point in guilt - burns no extra calories. The majority of our days determine the majority of our progress. Drama is optional.
You can make progress. Let the past go, focus on the future.
Signed,
Year 5 of maintenance, 125 pounds at 5'5", after 30+ years of obesity.
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P.S. You might find this entertaining:
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10603949/big-overfeed-ruins-everything-nope/p15 -
ROFL. Don't have a cow. You're so darned funny that I can barely stand it. I've seen you two before, cuter than a couple of bugs. You don't look or sound depressed. Just keep enjoying yourselves, it will all come out in the wash.6
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From one day, or a couple, any weight gain is mostly water. It'll be fine. Just get back on a healthy track, learn from it, and go on. No point in guilt - burns no extra calories. The majority of our days determine the majority of our progress. Drama is optional.
You can make progress. Let the past go, focus on the future.
Signed,
Year 5 of maintenance, 125 pounds at 5'5", after 30+ years of obesity.
One of the best posts I have read on MFP. I am doing just fine. Just love this outlook. Thank you.
@leekatelynne0659. Imho, these are wise words. Good luck5 -
leekatelynne0659 wrote: »I finally got down to a weight that I felt good with and then the weekend hit and I’m way back up in weight and I feel like a cow. I know it is probably water retention from the junk I ate over the weekend, but it still makes me feel fat and much like a cow. I feel so off beat with working out and eating right and I’m so afraid to gain all the weight I lost back by the time the holidays are here. I’m depressed. How do you keep on track after such a big weight gain? How do you stay positive and out of your head?
You will only gain the weight back if you keep eating consistently at above maintenance. My own experience is that this is not difficult to do if I stop paying aactive attention to logging what i am eating and weighing in regularly. (I lost to my goal weight and put it all back on again, plus a bit, but have just reached the top of my maintenance range again, having lost around 25lbs since May.) Rather than beating yourself up, which migt increase your sense of not being able to do anything about this, try baby steps: go for that 10-minute walk, decide not to eat that one cookie, do something non-food related that will help you to feel good about yourself. Taking small actins will start to counteract your depression, and that will help you take the next step. Once you break out of the apathy you will quickly get on track, because you know how to do this: you've just done it. I really sympathise, and am sending good vibes.4 -
Angus or Brahman?lol
I suggest the wise words of Sun Tzu. Know your enemy, and in a hundred battles you will never be surprised. Some would say the "junk" food is the enemy, but I disagree. I think you are your own enemy. You have to learn to know yourself. Take time to figure out what were the situations that you were in when YOU made the choice to do what you did. Boredom, tired, stressed... ect... then do what you can to minimize them. Keep those foods that tempt you away. Do something else instead. Best wishes.10 -
Also, consider reframing how you think of yourself. Calling yourself a “cow,” doesn’t help you move forward from whatever this weekend was (likely just water weight).
Would you call your best friend a cow for doing the same thing? If not, shouldn’t call yourself that, either.12 -
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Considering how many calories must be stored as fat to gain a single pound, a day or two of eating above goal isn't a big deal. Water weight and food in the digestive tract disappear. Trend lines over time count.2
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Diatonic12 wrote: »@leekatelynne0659
How's it going today?
It’s going much better, weekends tend to be tough when it comes to diet, but I’m starting to understand and come to terms with that any weight gain I see if mostly water weight and it’s making me feel less bad about it.4 -
Just to give a bit of mathematical perspective (a very basic one as don't want to delve into the science)..
Let's say you're 4lbs up on a Monday after a weekend of slight indulgence.
4lbs is the equivalent of 14000 calories.
Lets say your maintenance calories are 1500 daily - 7*1500 = You can eat 10500 calories per week without putting on weight. Let's say you've eaten maintenance every day until Sat/Sun it would mean that on the weekend you would have needed to have eaten/drank 17000 calories in order to have gained that 4lb of weight... Not likely is it?
Scale weight can fluctuate for a variety of reasons, less emphasis on the monday morning weigh in will put you in a much better mood.4 -
You’re just bloated from pigging out.
Start fresh tomorrow and drink lots water.
No harm. No foul.
As long as it’s not your daily thing, you’ll be fine.
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