Tips of Encouragement.

robertrje123
robertrje123 Posts: 6 Member
edited December 2020 in Health and Weight Loss
I would like to have some new friends (nothing against the old ones), who will encourage me and give tips that they have used in diet, especially in the belly area.

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  • Ddsb11
    Ddsb11 Posts: 607 Member
    Best tip I received- read the stickies! They’re full of insight.

    As far as belly fat, unfortunately we can’t spot reduce, your body will lose where it wants. But keep at it and eventually you’ll arrive at a good place in those pesky areas.
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
  • elisa123gal
    elisa123gal Posts: 4,333 Member
    edited December 2020
    The tip I have is you just have to lose the weight to lose the belly.. It will go.. but maybe not as fast as you'd like.

    I find the last place I gained, is the last place I lose.. and yes..it is my midsection. Being tall..when my waist gets big.. that's the point I realize my clothes don't fit and I need to start losing again.

    As I lose.. it is every other place and my belly is just there reminding me to keep on going. The fat off my stomach is actually almost gone right now.. boy did that take a a few months to get done!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    cgrout78 wrote: »

    YASSS! This ^
  • B_Plus_Effort
    B_Plus_Effort Posts: 311 Member
    there is no focused fat loss, anyone who tells you so is lying, we are all different and we all loose weight differently, the belly area for males is the last part to come off, I am not making this up but repeating what the world's leading body builder has said, you can't get rid of fat where you want it doesn't work that way

    we know that males carry their fat in different areas than ladies, but what I recently learned is that some men, (the lucky ones really) carry their fat like ladies do, meaning they carry their fat in their thighs and butts, that is a good thing because it makes them appear lean up top, nice firm chests and defined abs, I have seen men with 16 to 18% body fat with abs, they kept getting tested and re tested cause they couldn't believe they had such high body fat content

    but for most of us men love handles and lower belly is where we like to store the last of our fat

    as far as diet, simple protein and green veggies no carbs unless it's from veggies, but you're not going to do that for ever just while you're cutting ie getting shredded, week, two weeks, think in terms of weeks then go back to eating carbs, but not too many

    for each gram of carbs that you eat your body stores something like 4 grams of water, so when you eat 10 grams of bread you are storing 10 grams of carbs plus another 40 grams of water, that's why you gain weight on the scale after pizza night, hence the name carboHYDRATES
  • stevehenderson776
    stevehenderson776 Posts: 324 Member
    For me, I noticed that I was feeling better long before I noticed I was looking better. I had a lot to lose though. I don't know what your situation is. I'll just say that even though it can take a long time before your satisfied with how you look, you only need to lose a surprisingly little amount of weight before you start feeling better.
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  • callsitlikeiseeit
    callsitlikeiseeit Posts: 8,626 Member
    you cant spot reduce.

    and because life is unfair, where we WANT the weight to come off, is usually the LAST place it comes off.
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 8,657 Member
    ....carry their fat like ladies do, meaning they carry their fat in their thighs and butts, that is a good thing because it makes them appear lean up top, nice firm chests and defined abs....


    PSA: there is no tarring and feathering on MFP.

    My thighs, butt and belly would beg to differ.
  • DiscusTank5
    DiscusTank5 Posts: 499 Member
    PSA: there is no tarring and feathering on MFP.

    Springlering62, you made me laugh. :)

    No spot reduction, as nearly everyone else has said.

    Someone posted elsewhere in the forums that you may not be happy with the way your body looks as you are losing weight (face may look gaunt for awhile, stubborn love handles may stick around to the bitter end, etc). Adjusting to that mindset has really helped me on this weight loss journey.