getting played

You will get to where you know what to do, you can only be continually played if you let it continue. You have choices, so do I the very best of luck to you.

currently in the same situation....LOL! so nope no sound advice from me!

DROP HIM!!! like trilikeagirl said we teach people how to treat us and couldnt agree more.

not only that but it also has alot to do with RESPECT if you think he's being shady he probably is and even if he's not he should have enough respect to be real about his intentions, and you should love and respect yourself enough to know that your worth someones time love n attention n all that other good stuff and to not put up with BS little boy games...i say your better off...ON TO THE NEXT. lol :happy:

I give people 3 goes (guys and friends). If I initiate contact 3 times and they don't reciprocate I ditch them.

Also, Rollins band song "Liar" comes to mind, great song! :-D

Obviously, you know you need to end this with him so I won't state the obvious again.

I will say this: Don't let him come back in. It's difficult, but remember that people generally don't change because of *your* actions towards them. So just because he seems "better" later on when he starts trying to get at you again, keep that in mind. He's the same person he was using a tactic to get you back that has worked in the past. You're not a victim. Just close the door and walk away.

Most of the people you'll date don't know much about themselves, nor do they know why they "need" the things they think they need. They act impulsively to satisfy the first feeling they have. This is kind of the answer to where you said:

i hate when guys tell you...wow you are soooo beautiful i just wanna be with you so much....and booom they play you like a record

To an immature guy, your beauty causes him to mostly want to have sex with you, though he's not opposed to the idea that your personality might be good too. You end up with a guy who will say and do whatever it takes to make this happen. Mature men will still want to mostly have sex with you, but they've learned that you're also a human being and that they're willing to defer the gratification of having sex with you until they get a general sense of who you are.

But YOU need to know who you are first. Take a look at your past boyfriends and your experiences with men and figure out why you make the choices you make with them. It's usually not the other gender that is the problem. The common denominator is always you. So take some time to figure yourself out. Good luck!

what Ice T say?

all guys are like dogs, they want to smell it, hit it, and walk away....

now there varies the degree of honestly in that statement...we all love attention, sex, and the feeling of being attractive to the opposite sex. its those who act on their feelings that i find are weak and not in control...pretty much a dumpster fire of self love.

yyyyeah..pretty much..drop him. people only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. he's probably so used to using his words and antics to get what he wants from who he wants that it would be a rude awakening to him if you don't even entertain him anymore. not to sound cruel but he might be doing this to see just HOW whipped he has you. *let me not call her for 10 days instead of 3..and let's see how quickly i can get her to forgive me*..people suck in general. you have to have a good judge of character and once you've given them the benefit of the doubt and they're still being a douche..let it go.

currently in the same situation....LOL! so nope no sound advice from me!

same here