Sexy Love :P

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  • skinnywithin
    skinnywithin Posts: 1,392 Member
    Lust at first site = future divorce.

    You need to fall in love with the person not the looks.

    ^^^^^ OMG I THINK I JUST DID !!!!!!!!!!
  • maillemaker
    maillemaker Posts: 1,253 Member
    Well, like everyone said, love at first sight is just physical attraction, not love.

    You can't love someone without knowing them, and you can't know them from sight alone.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I believe in love at first sight, but I also believe it is more about "chemistry at first sight" instead of "lust." -- sometimes you can just feel the vibes of a person, is what I mean.

    Instead of feeling like, "I want to sleep with him/her" you think, "There is just something amazing about him/her."

    I think that is better than growing to love someone...if you gradually grow to love someone, there probably isn't that much chemistry ^^

    I speak from experience.
  • No such thing as love at first sight, its more like lust at first sight. Then after red hot monkey love, if you care about him/her then it may be love.


    I was about to say the same thing.
    I always hear my kids, siblings, ect say "I am in love, I just met them." I am like it's not, love, it's lust idiot
  • sgirl29
    sgirl29 Posts: 326 Member
    I think falling in love gradually is a beautiful thing. :heart:
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    Call it what you want as long as you get off its winning.
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    Call it what you want as long as you get off its winning.

    Nicely said. lol

    I think it's a mix. Attraction gets your eyes many times, but the person may be a total dud on the inside. On the other hand, it could be someone that makes you laugh and you never looked at in that way and end up having feelings for them.

    :)
  • agreed, it's lust at first sight.... so gradually is better, and more rewarding in the long run
  • danacho
    danacho Posts: 115 Member
    you gotta love that feeling of realisation that you've fallen :love:
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