My target daily Cal is 1850, but I often end up not eating up my daily Cal Goal Is this bad?

Hi everyone, I am new to MFP, started 1 week and I have lost nearly 3kg since, averaging about 0.4kg or about 0.8 pounds a day. I guess it might just be water retention or fluid loss, but I drink a lot of liquid. I did ramp up my step count now to nearly 12K steps a day and I hit a high of adding 700 Cal of exercise daily.

Should I increase my cal consumption?
I take a Myotein meal replacement for dinner.

breakfast is normally 2 boiled eggs, a multigrain low-GI loaf (2 slices) black coffee no sugar, 1 slice of lean ham dipped in hot water to remove sodium, 1 medium apple.

Lunch is normally brown rice 100g, 1 protein + veggies cooked together with some EV olive oil, soy, garlic and cilantro

Dinner is a Myotein Shake with no sugar soy milk, banana and a raw cucumber

I like that there are very good results daily.

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  • heybales
    heybales Posts: 18,842 Member
    edited October 2021
    How much weight do you have to lose to a healthy weight?

    Good job on wanting to do something. But doing anything isn't always a good idea compared to doing something reasonable.
    If 1850 is your base goal, and likely without exercise being added back in per the MFP method - I'm estimating you may have a fair amount to lose.

    Extreme diet and weight loss is huge reason for the 80% failure rate for dieters to reach or maintain a goal weight for over 6 months though.
    Many of those repeat the effort yearly - getting harder and harder each time.

    0.8 lbs a day is rather high even if it does include initial water weight - is extreme except in extreme cases of obesity.

    That will include a fair bit of muscle mass in there if it continues - that will suck sooner and later. Muscle is not easy to build, sadly easy to lose.

    Your body will also adapt in some extreme ways if this is stressful to it after some more weeks.

    While it might be nice to see results daily - that's also unrealistic and setting yourself up for some stressed out days of disappointment at some point down the road, when it can't be daily changes.

    Have fast did you gain the weight?

    How are you judging what's a desired rate of loss?

    Sorry about sounding all negative - but this is all too familiar, and where it leads is all too familiar.
    If someone can be saved from yo-yo dieting it's worth it.
    Many women reaching 50-60 yo-yo dieting their lives away having a terrible relationship with their bodies and food - you should see their posts on here once they find a better way, wishing they hadn't started it.
  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 9,598 Member
    I would second (and third and fourth) other users advice to go much slower.

    Many of us experienced rapid loss the first few weeks. It’s exciting. A rush. A buzz. You want it to continue. You cut calories more and exercise more. Faster! Faster!!!!!

    This creates a nutrition gap which can slingshot you right into a binge.

    Slow it down. Lose more slowly. Learn habits. Learn about your body. Learn about your needs.

    I posed the question on my feed, for users who had just come back from months or even years absence, something to the effect of “do you regret stopping? do you wish you’d lost slower but still been here? Would you have reached goal by now at the slower pace?”

    Not a single person said they were happy losing fast, and most said they’d regained and were back to try to get it off again.
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    I am not deliberately starving myself. I am eating…I eat normal meals. I have so far avoided fried food and watch my sugar intake. My other meals outside my meal replacement is only about 450 cal, to hit 1850 I have to eat 616 cal per meal. But cos I also hit about 700 - 800 cal exercise daily. I did no more than 15mins of cardio, walk my dog for 30mins and the rest is just my normal daily activity. To be honest it isn’t a lot of exercise.

    My breakfast: 2 hard boiled eggs, 2 slices multigrain bread - plain or with cheese toasted, black coffee 1 slice of ham and 1 apple

    Lunch: Rice (sometimes white others brown)
    Veg & proteins cooked
    Apple & a green tea
    Fave veg - broccoli, carrot, mushroom, spinach, cauliflower, sweet peas (in pod), bell peppers


    Afternoon tea: 1/2 cucumber & a Greek yogurt (full cream) based honey mustard dip
    - my own recipe
    - 2 pieces of crackers
    - A cup of tea no sugar no milk

    Dinner myotein protein shake with 1 banana, unsweetened soy milk, 1 teaspoon honey,
    5 pitted prunes


    I avoided all the high sugar fruits I used to consume which included strawberries - one of my weakness. I used to distribute fruits so I have access to top grade fruits, it’s also part of my QC - I eat some of each batch
    I now avoid pineapples, strawberries, berries of most kind cos I kinda can’t stop. I will have a cheat day a week where I can eat 1 punnet of blueberries with overnight oats.



  • yirara
    yirara Posts: 10,556 Member
    If you're exercise calories are correct then you are starving yourself. Good thing is that they likely are wrong. How do you get to 700-800 calories per day? Do you use a fitness tracker, and if so what kind of? At what activity level did you set mfp? If you walk over 10k steps per day then you are certainly active to very active, and you should eat for that.

    Just to give you an idea. Say you eat 1500 calories per day. Then you exercise for 700 (yea, it's tough but maybe doable). Then you've only eaten 1500-700 = 800 calories on that day. Now 800 calories is in no way healthy! This is starving.
  • EyeOTS
    EyeOTS Posts: 362 Member
    edited October 2021
    Welcome. It's awesome you are having success! The meals sound like they have a decent amount of variety and balance, but might be too light for you.

    0.8 pounds lost a day sounds a bit much. Calling berries and oates a 'cheat meal' is honestly a red flag that you are over-restricting.
    Like everyone else said: don't rush, make sure it is sustainable long term.
  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,840 Member
    edited October 2021
    The recommended weekly maximum rate of loss is 1% of body weight. If you weigh 560 lbs, your current rate of loss is appropriate. If not, you need to hit the brakes. Losing quickly sounds fun until 4 months from now when all your hair starts falling out because you shocked it into dormancy. Also, losing too rapidly means you lose a higher percentage of muscle to fat. Spoiler: your heart is also a muscle.

    Your diet isn’t nutritionally complete. Start adding some real foods in there until you reach your suggested goal.
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    I am saying I am very full eating my meals of about 450cal per meal. I am recommended to do 1850 cal per day.

    But add 1850cal + 700 cal due to exercise. I am recommended to eat 2550 cal per day.

    Which means my portions are too small, but I am already very full at each meal. So does that mean I should eat more meals? Or are the cal only estimates.

    I only started 1 week into this. The good portions are the same to before I was doing any special dieting. Just that I don’t eat fried foods and no sugar.

    I just changed my snacks to healthier choices like apples and cucumbers. I still eat cheese and my dairy is full cream full fat dairy which I don’t compromise the taste
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    The recommended weekly maximum rate of loss is 1% of body weight. If you weigh 560 lbs, your current rate of loss is appropriate. If not, you need to hit the brakes. Losing quickly sounds fun until 4 months from now when all your hair starts falling out because you shocked it into dormancy. Also, losing too rapidly means you lose a higher percentage of muscle to fat. Spoiler: your heart is also a muscle.

    Your diet isn’t nutritionally complete. Start adding some real foods in there until you reach your suggested goal.
    The recommended weekly maximum rate of loss is 1% of body weight. If you weigh 560 lbs, your current rate of loss is appropriate. If not, you need to hit the brakes. Losing quickly sounds fun until 4 months from now when all your hair starts falling out because you shocked it into dormancy. Also, losing too rapidly means you lose a higher percentage of muscle to fat. Spoiler: your heart is also a muscle.

    Your diet isn’t nutritionally complete. Start adding some real foods in there until you reach your suggested goal.

    What do you mean by nutritionally complete?
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    Things I use as protein are:
    Lean pork
    Chicken - breast, thighs and legs
    Salmon, Tuna, sardines, white bait, prawn, cod, several other types of white fish, scallops (fresh & dried Japanese ones)

    Eggs
    Veg: broccoli, spinach, various dark leafy veg, cauliflower, carrot, garlic, onions

    I use dried jap seaweed in soups
  • marius_paps
    marius_paps Posts: 52 Member
    700 calories due to exercising on top of your 1800 budget is a lot. Congratulations! Good work.

    I'd recommend you try at least eating those 1800 calories and at least half of the exercise calories.
    The the next day you'll be in better shape for exercising which will then be more efficient.

    It maybe kind of hard to eat more but try for calorie dense foodstuffs such as dark chocolate, almonds, nuts, peanut butter a.s.o. These will put a nice and satisfying dent in those calories.
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    700 calories due to exercising on top of your 1800 budget is a lot. Congratulations! Good work.

    I'd recommend you try at least eating those 1800 calories and at least half of the exercise calories.
    The the next day you'll be in better shape for exercising which will then be more efficient.

    It maybe kind of hard to eat more but try for calorie dense foodstuffs such as dark chocolate, almonds, nuts, peanut butter a.s.o. These will put a nice and satisfying dent in those calories.

    Thanks for the suggestion. Will give it a try. Maybe eat the apple with peanut butter?
  • marius_paps
    marius_paps Posts: 52 Member
    Maybe eat the apple with peanut butter?

    God no :smile: !!!

    LOL. Of course you eat what you like and how you like it. I'd never dream of eating PB with an apple or, god forbid, with jam.

    I've discovered organic spelt crackers (lots of healthy ingredients) with a (coffee)spoonful of PB. Yummy!

    The problem with PB, is that's not super duper healthy, but I suppose with measure, it isn't too unhealthy either.
    The 2nd problem with PB is that it tastes sooooo good :smile:

  • wunderkindking
    wunderkindking Posts: 1,615 Member
    Maybe eat the apple with peanut butter?

    God no :smile: !!!

    LOL. Of course you eat what you like and how you like it. I'd never dream of eating PB with an apple or, god forbid, with jam.

    I've discovered organic spelt crackers (lots of healthy ingredients) with a (coffee)spoonful of PB. Yummy!

    The problem with PB, is that's not super duper healthy, but I suppose with measure, it isn't too unhealthy either.
    The 2nd problem with PB is that it tastes sooooo good :smile:

    PB is high fat.

    High fat is not inherently unhealthy. Just calorically dense.

    I have the 'freaking delicious' problem with it though!
  • EyeOTS
    EyeOTS Posts: 362 Member
    edited October 2021
    Fat is an important macro and keeps you satiated. In the short run, cutting out calorically dense fats like avacodo, oils, nuts etc could result in short term loses. But long term your body needs fat and don't you want to be in this for the long run?
  • wunderkindking
    wunderkindking Posts: 1,615 Member
    Fat is also necessary for some vitamin absorption. It's not optional.
  • Redordeadhead
    Redordeadhead Posts: 1,187 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician

    Could you drop the meal replacement shake and instead eat actual food for dinner?
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 36,619 Member
    700 calories due to exercising on top of your 1800 budget is a lot. Congratulations! Good work.

    I'd recommend you try at least eating those 1800 calories and at least half of the exercise calories.
    The the next day you'll be in better shape for exercising which will then be more efficient.

    It maybe kind of hard to eat more but try for calorie dense foodstuffs such as dark chocolate, almonds, nuts, peanut butter a.s.o. These will put a nice and satisfying dent in those calories.

    Thanks for the suggestion. Will give it a try. Maybe eat the apple with peanut butter?

    That's a good idea. (I really love apple with peanut butter, personally. Peanut butter can be a good contributor to a healthy way of eating**, as long as one avoids those with added hydrogenated fats.)

    Another thing you could consider would be somewhat fattier meats or fish. (Consider which fish are high in Omega-3s, since it's fairly common for people to have their Omega-6 to Omega-3 balance a bit overweighted to O-6). As others have said, you need a certain minimum of fats. The nuts, nut butters, avocado kind of thing will have monounsaturated/polyunsaturated fats, which are also useful. Too low fats are bad for cellular health, hormone balance, digestive throughput, and more.

    ** Individual foods are not healthy or unhealthy considered alone, IMO, unless they're poisons or allergens. What matters most is the overall nutritional quality of one's total way of eating. Context and portion size matter. Even pure sugar is a "healthy food" for an endurance athlete consuming it during a long event (marathon, say) in order to avoid depleting their glycogen stores and "hitting the wall".

    Eating too few calories isn't healthy. Consider, for example:

    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10761904/under-1200-for-weight-loss/p1

    That's an extreme and fortunately rare case, but bad things can happen. I under-ate by accident at first (MFP underestimates my calorie needs by quite a bit, which is rare, but possible), lost too fast. I felt great, not hungry . . . until suddenly I didn't, got weak and fatigued. Even though I corrected as soon as I realized, it took multiple weeks to recover normal strength and energy. No one needs that. I was lucky nothing worse happened (well, maybe a little hair thinning a few weeks later, but no gallbladder problems or other possible serious baddies like that).
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,055 Member
    heybales wrote: »
    How much weight do you have to lose to a healthy weight?

    Good job on wanting to do something. But doing anything isn't always a good idea compared to doing something reasonable.
    If 1850 is your base goal, and likely without exercise being added back in per the MFP method - I'm estimating you may have a fair amount to lose.

    Extreme diet and weight loss is huge reason for the 80% failure rate for dieters to reach or maintain a goal weight for over 6 months though.
    Many of those repeat the effort yearly - getting harder and harder each time.

    0.8 lbs a day is rather high even if it does include initial water weight - is extreme except in extreme cases of obesity.

    That will include a fair bit of muscle mass in there if it continues - that will suck sooner and later. Muscle is not easy to build, sadly easy to lose.

    Your body will also adapt in some extreme ways if this is stressful to it after some more weeks.

    While it might be nice to see results daily - that's also unrealistic and setting yourself up for some stressed out days of disappointment at some point down the road, when it can't be daily changes.

    Have fast did you gain the weight?

    How are you judging what's a desired rate of loss?

    Sorry about sounding all negative - but this is all too familiar, and where it leads is all too familiar.
    If someone can be saved from yo-yo dieting it's worth it.
    Many women reaching 50-60 yo-yo dieting their lives away having a terrible relationship with their bodies and food - you should see their posts on here once they find a better way, wishing they hadn't started it.

    If her username is current, she wants to lose 60 kg / 132 pounds.
  • iwannalose60kg
    iwannalose60kg Posts: 9 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician

    Could you drop the meal replacement shake and instead eat actual food for dinner?

    Meal replacement is prescribed by physician and dietician who is slowly getting me to replace eventually 3 meals with a protein shake
  • rheddmobile
    rheddmobile Posts: 6,840 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician

    Could you drop the meal replacement shake and instead eat actual food for dinner?

    Meal replacement is prescribed by physician and dietician who is slowly getting me to replace eventually 3 meals with a protein shake
    Okay, with all due respect, do what now? A dietician wants you to stop eating food completely and replace all three meals with a protein shake? Why? Do you have some illness we haven’t talked about? Because this is the exact opposite of current medical advice.
  • Redordeadhead
    Redordeadhead Posts: 1,187 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician

    Could you drop the meal replacement shake and instead eat actual food for dinner?

    Meal replacement is prescribed by physician and dietician who is slowly getting me to replace eventually 3 meals with a protein shake

    I saw that, but why?
    If you are already losing weight too quickly and are considering adding an additional 1-2 small meals to your day, what is the reason for using the shake instead of a nornal meal?
  • paperpudding
    paperpudding Posts: 9,470 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician

    Could you drop the meal replacement shake and instead eat actual food for dinner?

    Meal replacement is prescribed by physician and dietician who is slowly getting me to replace eventually 3 meals with a protein shake
    Okay, with all due respect, do what now? A dietician wants you to stop eating food completely and replace all three meals with a protein shake? Why? Do you have some illness we haven’t talked about? Because this is the exact opposite of current medical advice.

    WHY????

    I get replacing one meal if you want to- and you did say you were having other things at that meal, not just the shake - banana and cucumber as well - if it is a nutritionally sound replacement , makes sure you get all vitamins neccesary and puts some people in 'diet change head space' which some people find motivating.

    But replacing all 3 main meals???

    Why on earth would anyone recomend that??
  • wunderkindking
    wunderkindking Posts: 1,615 Member
    If this is a VLCD and diet/eating change as prep to weightloss surgery this makes sense.

    But that's the ONLY way it makes sense.
  • Cheesy567
    Cheesy567 Posts: 1,186 Member
    I have to hit a 1850 goal
    I eat about 1400 cal per day normally and I am not hungry it’s pretty much my normal portion. I walk quite a bit so hitting 10,000 steps a day is normal plus 30mins of walking the dog and 15 mins of simple low impact cardio in the morning. I use my Apple Watch, Apple Watch exercise. My watch goal is 700 kcal for my activity circle. I normally hit 1200kcal to 1400kcal for activity

    But MFP measures my total activity level around 600-700 cal exercise to add to my cal consumption.

    So should I eat another 2 meals like have 5 meals a day? Cos my meal cal I tracked is about 400-450cal per meal and I am full

    But I am fat, surprisingly the meal replacement is recommended by dietician

    Could you drop the meal replacement shake and instead eat actual food for dinner?

    Meal replacement is prescribed by physician and dietician who is slowly getting me to replace eventually 3 meals with a protein shake

    What did the physician and dietician say when you asked them your original question about eating the full 1800 cal/ day? They are the ones you need to listen to if you are at the point of pursuing full meal replacement, not random strangers on the internet.