Goal Weight Support - Is This a Thing?

I saw this yesterday but didn't comment because I'm not losing weight and I'm quite a bit younger than you. I wasn't sure if I could even be helpful. But after coming across your post today and thinking about it some more, I have something to say now.
I tend to get leered at, approached, "cat-called" (I hate that term- it's not cute and fun- it's harassment) in my day to day life as well. I'm not tall but like you said, it's the "assets" I'm always getting weird comments on. So I do relate, unfortunately.
As an older teen, this type of attention became way more frequent compared to when I was still a child, and it freaked me out. I didn't feel prepared (as if one ever does) but I got used to it eventually. Then I became an adult and actually started to look like one and that's when the unwanted attention spiked seemingly overnight. It was a tough adjustment and throughout my late teens & early 20's I tried experimenting with ways to avoid drawing attention to myself.
I tried only dressing down when I went out, baggy sweatpants, PJs, beanies, long sleeves. I wore sunglasses indoors so that nobody could make eye contact with me. I didn't make friendly conversation and was very short with people. I made myself as unapproachable as I knew how because I was so exhausted from being approached and interrupted multiple times a day when I was trying to go about my business and even being put in threatening situations (such as being physically blocked in at gas stations, followed in parking lots, etc).
Here's what I learned: it doesn't work. Not for me at least. All those extra measures I took to be less visible and less approachable did NOTHING. In fact I'm pretty sure a lot of men have a pajama fet*** at this point because I got the worst comments when I was in frumpy sleepwear.
So I guess what I actually learned during those years is that people who approach women and make uncomfortable comments about our appearance are simply the types of people that cannot be avoided with sweats and sunglasses. It's the culture we live in that enables scary and dangerous behavior, and disregards women's personal space, time, and feelings. It's not me. It was never me.
I cannot avoid being harassed. That is not up to me. As horrible as it may feel to admit, it's the truth.
Therefore I do what I want, dress how I want, talk to who I want, and try not to focus on who may be looking at me or thinking about approaching me. I think that I was always so focused on it, and it made my body language come off as nervous and timid, and that's why people with predatory vibes were easily picking me out of a crowd. Once I accepted that this is how things are and started walking with my head held high and actually giving these creeps a thousand yard stare from across a room or parking lot, they stopped approaching as often as before.
Turns out, it was my confidence and belief in my own strength that really changed things for me. Of course I still get approached and commented on to pretty much the same degree as before. Confidence only goes so far, but I am more relaxed now and I'm able to focus more on my own life and my own actions.
Apologies for the giant word wall, and I get that this basically boils down to "do nothing" but unfortunately this is a matter of the societal norms we live by and not what any individual woman is doing to handle the attention. I wish there was more I could say or do, but I really hope you don't let the thought of weird men stand in your way of your goals or your confidence. You deserve to feel happy and be healthy and take care of your body even if it ends up being more desirable-looking to men. I'm so sorry that we as women even have to factor that sort of thing in but just know you have my support and encouragement.