Just saying.

HollyTsiaussis
HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
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If all of my friends are going to keep deleting me for having an ED, I might as well delete my account. Right?
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  • foremant86
    foremant86 Posts: 1,115 Member
    orrrrrrrr you could seek professional help

    Just saying.
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    orrrrrrrr you could seek professional help

    Just saying.

    I don't have the opportunity to at the moment. Trust me, I would have a long time ago.
  • Sunshine_Girlie
    Sunshine_Girlie Posts: 618 Member
    Nope. Some people just can't deal with it. I'm sorry you're having a hard time finding people who are willing to stick with you in your time of need. It has to be hard, but don't let people on the internet effect what YOU are dealing with. It's better to have a few select people than a bunch who do nothing but complain, mock, or not support you.
  • voluptas63
    voluptas63 Posts: 602 Member
    orrrrrrrr you could seek professional help

    Just saying.

    I don't have the opportunity to at the moment. Trust me, I would have a long time ago.

    I don't think having an ED is your issue.
  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
    I have you as a friend.

    But honestly, this place is for promoting healthy ways of weight loss.
    Or for people who have suffered ED's who want to get healthy.
    And so far as it's going, you don't want to get better, so I understand everyone un-friending you. They don't want negativity on their feed.
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    orrrrrrrr you could seek professional help

    Just saying.

    I don't have the opportunity to at the moment. Trust me, I would have a long time ago.

    I don't think having an ED is your issue.

    Then, what is?
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    I have you as a friend.

    But honestly, this place is for promoting healthy ways of weight loss.
    Or for people who have suffered ED's who want to get healthy.
    And so far as it's going, you don't want to get better, so I understand everyone un-friending you. They don't want negativity on their feed.

    I'm indecisive, and have many mental issues, not my fault.
  • XxXstars9967XxX
    XxXstars9967XxX Posts: 646
    orrrrrrrr you could seek professional help

    Just saying.

    I don't have the opportunity to at the moment. Trust me, I would have a long time ago.

    I don't think having an ED is your issue.
    Are you saying she has issues? I find that quite ignorant of you.
  • RobertaG
    RobertaG Posts: 205 Member
    I have you as a friend.

    But honestly, this place is for promoting healthy ways of weight loss.
    Or for people who have suffered ED's who want to get healthy.
    And so far as it's going, you don't want to get better, so I understand everyone un-friending you. They don't want negativity on their feed.

    Ouch. Holly, the people who care about you will be your friends. Stay. If you cant get help, at least you can have others to talk to on here.
  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
    I have you as a friend.

    But honestly, this place is for promoting healthy ways of weight loss.
    Or for people who have suffered ED's who want to get healthy.
    And so far as it's going, you don't want to get better, so I understand everyone un-friending you. They don't want negativity on their feed.

    I'm indecisive, and have many mental issues, not my fault.
    Go to a doctor then. I'm sure if you really want to do it, you can get doctors to sponser you for recovery.
    Even if it's just to TALK to a doctor, you should still see one.
  • foremant86
    foremant86 Posts: 1,115 Member
    you have 300+ friends and you're offended if a few de-friend you?
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    I have you as a friend.

    But honestly, this place is for promoting healthy ways of weight loss.
    Or for people who have suffered ED's who want to get healthy.
    And so far as it's going, you don't want to get better, so I understand everyone un-friending you. They don't want negativity on their feed.

    I'm indecisive, and have many mental issues, not my fault.
    Go to a doctor then. I'm sure if you really want to do it, you can get doctors to sponser you for recovery.
    Even if it's just to TALK to a doctor, you should still see one.

    I'm not sure what you mean by sponsor. In order to talk to a doctor, you have to make an appointment which costs money that my parents do not have.
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    you have 300+ friends and you're offended if a few de-friend you?

    Yes, I am.
  • AnaNotBanana
    AnaNotBanana Posts: 963 Member
    You should be here for you. If people are deleting you then they probably weren't supportive friends anyways so you're better off. Don't let the behavior of others determine what YOU do. :smile:
  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
    Oh and I'm not trying to be mean or anything. Seriously, I'd LOVE to see you stop purging and to lose weight healthily and feel better about yourself.
    But you need to make that first step. You understand that it's not going to be good to your body or health, you must understand that recovery is nessecary also.
  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
    I have you as a friend.

    But honestly, this place is for promoting healthy ways of weight loss.
    Or for people who have suffered ED's who want to get healthy.
    And so far as it's going, you don't want to get better, so I understand everyone un-friending you. They don't want negativity on their feed.

    I'm indecisive, and have many mental issues, not my fault.
    Go to a doctor then. I'm sure if you really want to do it, you can get doctors to sponser you for recovery.
    Even if it's just to TALK to a doctor, you should still see one.

    I'm not sure what you mean by sponsor. In order to talk to a doctor, you have to make an appointment which costs money that my parents do not have.
    Oh, you must be American. I'm not aware that it costs money for an appointment.
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    If all of my friends are going to keep deleting me for having an ED, I might as well delete my account. Right?
    I though only old dudes had Erectile Dysfunction. Crazy. Either way, it's no reason to un-friend you.
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    Oh and I'm not trying to be mean or anything. Seriously, I'd LOVE to see you stop purging and to lose weight healthily and feel better about yourself.
    But you need to make that first step. You understand that it's not going to be good to your body or health, you must understand that recovery is nessecary also.

    Thanks.
  • Sunshine_Girlie
    Sunshine_Girlie Posts: 618 Member
    If all of my friends are going to keep deleting me for having an ED, I might as well delete my account. Right?
    I though only old dudes had Erectile Dysfunction. Crazy. Either way, it's no reason to un-friend you.

    Haha.
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    If all of my friends are going to keep deleting me for having an ED, I might as well delete my account. Right?
    I though only old dudes had Erectile Dysfunction. Crazy. Either way, it's no reason to un-friend you.

    Hah, funny. I agree though. It's annoying.
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    You haven't been talking on the phone in the potty, have you?
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    You haven't been talking on the phone in the potty, have you?

    LOLOL. I always do that. No big deal.
  • RobertaG
    RobertaG Posts: 205 Member
    If all of my friends are going to keep deleting me for having an ED, I might as well delete my account. Right?
    I though only old dudes had Erectile Dysfunction. Crazy. Either way, it's no reason to un-friend you.
    LMAO. Made my day
  • Jessamin
    Jessamin Posts: 338 Member
    I delete friends with obvious and routine unhealthy lifestyles. I don't need that negativity and bad influence on my feed and I am not going to support eating disorders. I don't see the point in having friends that refuse to accept help and I can't support in their weight loss effort.
  • mommared53
    mommared53 Posts: 9,543 Member
    If all of my friends are going to keep deleting me for having an ED, I might as well delete my account. Right?
    I though only old dudes had Erectile Dysfunction. Crazy. Either way, it's no reason to un-friend you.

    I love reading your posts. You are so witty. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    You haven't been talking on the phone in the potty, have you?
    LOLOL. I always do that. No big deal.
    Well, there's your problem right there. Didn't you learn anything from that other thread? :laugh:

    Anyway... don't worry about what other folks (particularly digital ghosts on a forum) might be thinking. You have no way of knowing what they think, nor can you control what they think. Also -- what they may think or do has no bearing on you. Worry about what you can control, and take life a day at a time. :smile:
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    If you do want to seek help, there are free services available in most areas. You usually don't have to qualify, you just make the phone call and show up. Or if you're in school, either high school or college, there are usually free services available there as well. If you'd like help finding those services in your area, PM me and I'll help you.
  • Sunshine_Girlie
    Sunshine_Girlie Posts: 618 Member
    You haven't been talking on the phone in the potty, have you?

    Are you being funny or does this have to really do with something? lol
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    You haven't been talking on the phone in the potty, have you?
    Are you being funny or does this have to really do with something? lol
    Talking on the john is a HUGE problem, apparently: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/344968-why-do-people
  • HollyTsiaussis
    HollyTsiaussis Posts: 415 Member
    You haven't been talking on the phone in the potty, have you?
    Are you being funny or does this have to really do with something? lol
    Talking on the john is a HUGE problem, apparently: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/344968-why-do-people

    LOLOL.
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