Who goes to church

so this is not a debate over religion lol putting that on the table.

But who all goes to church, more importantly who started going during a rough patch in their life?

I have been maybe less then 10 times before ... In my life... I was looking at just some non denominational. I'm going through such a rough time right now in my life, I feel like I need extra support and to make ome friends in a new place seeing as I how I moved here a month ago.
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  • Jade_Butterfly
    Jade_Butterfly Posts: 2,963 Member
    Well yes. . per the rules of MFP I will not get into a detailed discussion, but I do attend a non-denominational church. . if you ever need anyone to talk to. . you are more than welcome to friend me, message me . .. regardless. . I wish you the best of luck in everything.:smile:
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    Hey, I think it's a good idea to try church if you're feeling like it would help you. You can also look into various groups in your area. I see in your profile that you have kids -- have you looked to see if there's a MOPS group in your area? Www.mops.org has a search to find local groups. It's a great organization for moms. There are other mom groups too, both national and local. Your local library might have info about groups.

    good luck to you!
  • sjtreely
    sjtreely Posts: 1,014 Member
    Honestly, I don't know how I would have made it through difficult phases in my life without my faith in which to lean upon. And, on the flip side, I don't know if the good times would be worth it if it wasn't for my faith in which to help me celebrate.
  • chrissym78
    chrissym78 Posts: 628 Member
    *raises hand* ME!! :)
  • Hey, I think it's a good idea to try church if you're feeling like it would help you. You can also look into various groups in your area. I see in your profile that you have kids -- have you looked to see if there's a MOPS group in your area? Www.mops.org has a search to find local groups. It's a great organization for moms. There are other mom groups too, both national and local. Your local library might have info about groups.

    good luck to you!

    Thanks for the site! I've been looking for groups to join :)
  • pnieuw
    pnieuw Posts: 473
    Been going every week all my life, and it has always been a great help for me. Find a local church that you feel comfortable in, and give it a bit of time. I hope it helps find what you are looking for.
  • MamaDee2
    MamaDee2 Posts: 843 Member
    I could not get through the week without it!
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    I do not, however one of these days I'll find one to take my kids..

    When they understand what it's about.
    RIght now they do not and I feel like a hypocrite taking them.


    I asked them why the go(their father takes them) and they said "to color" I do not believe in taking them if they do not know why they are there.
  • tjislovinglife
    tjislovinglife Posts: 101 Member
    I also go to church ,I would be lost without him
    Toni
  • ka_bateman
    ka_bateman Posts: 230 Member
    Every week! We've got an awesome smaller church of prob around 100...but I love the family closeness! My son is 18 months and is only in nursery, but he has a lot of fun and is being raised in church.
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    I stopped going for almost 20 years. About 4 years ago I started back and now play an active part in the church.

    Even though I stopped attending church, I had never stopped believing.
  • My kids are 18 mos and 3.5 yrs old. Trying to get them a little interaction too as they aren't in daycare I'm at home with them minus gym
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    My kids are 18 mos and 3.5 yrs old. Trying to get them a little interaction too as they aren't in daycare I'm at home with them minus gym

    I can understand that. That's about the age my kids started day care and they were ready and needed the interaction for sure.
    I hope you find a good one that you really like!
  • JEK717
    JEK717 Posts: 1,497
    I go to church when i can. Been going to church for the last 18 years(i am 18) of my life.
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    This will end up deleted but I do
  • My kids are 18 mos and 3.5 yrs old. Trying to get them a little interaction too as they aren't in daycare I'm at home with them minus gym

    I can understand that. That's about the age my kids started day care and they were ready and needed the interaction for sure.
    I hope you find a good one that you really like!

    Thanks! I just feel lost and don't kow what to do. Just moved here from another state in with my parents (husband and I are separated/getting divorced). I feel like I need something, I don't have any friends here I'm just going to school right now.
  • JEK717
    JEK717 Posts: 1,497
    This will end up deleted but I do

    YAY Mr. Awesome!!!! :D
  • I don't get why it wold be deleted? I'm not talking about god or anything really, just asking if anyone goes to church
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    I don't get why it wold be deleted? I'm not talking about god or anything really, just asking if anyone goes to church

    because there are rules against posting about religion and the rule gets painted with a broad stroke. Don't stress about it. If it gets deleted, it's not a big deal.
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I don't go to church much, but I like (non catholic/non evangelical) churches a lot!

    I used to work at one every sunday ^^ But I didn't choose to work there, long story...

    But I would like to start going to church once per week. I got into the idea when I was going through a very bad time in my life ^^

    I didn't grow up religious, and actually attended church maybe once per year and a buddhist temple twice per year.

    I really like both buddhism and christianity ^^
  • vdegraff
    vdegraff Posts: 87 Member
    I do. But sometimes I skip because "I'm too busy." So sad. If you find the right church, it will help you with your faith and fellowshipping with great people can help you with life's struggles.
  • OnMyWay2STay
    OnMyWay2STay Posts: 144 Member
    I decided to find a church in 2001. I went to nearly ALL the Christian churches in my small town (16 in all) before choosing to join one. Fellowship and the doctrine taught are both important.

    Since then I've been to church every week. I have loved being able to visit a church in an unfamiliar place and have instant friends. My family has moved twice in the past 5 years, and it has been wonderful to have a church family wherever we go.

    Pray for guidance, and Heavenly Father will help you find the church you should attend.
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    I just wanted to add that churches, like any other group, are all different. If you don't feel welcomed or comfortable, try a different one. I've been to some churches of the same denomination that I'm a member of that didn't feel right at all. I felt like nobody wanted new people there. But the I've been in some, like the one I attend now, whee the people are warm and friendly and it feels like home. Shop around until you find the right fit. :-)
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    My kids are 18 mos and 3.5 yrs old. Trying to get them a little interaction too as they aren't in daycare I'm at home with them minus gym

    I can understand that. That's about the age my kids started day care and they were ready and needed the interaction for sure.
    I hope you find a good one that you really like!

    Thanks! I just feel lost and don't kow what to do. Just moved here from another state in with my parents (husband and I are separated/getting divorced). I feel like I need something, I don't have any friends here I'm just going to school right now.

    Then it might be just what you need! I know a lot of people make friends there. I wish you a lot of luck in all of this, but have the feeling you'll be ok.
    It's easier than you would think it would be, but harder at the same time(if that makes any sense)
  • Thanks everyone! I'm mapping some out this week :)
  • jonesz922
    jonesz922 Posts: 89 Member
    I go to Church AND love Violation Friday, so how about THOSE apples...

    Signed ~ Crazy Catholic School Girl from Boston
  • I go to Church AND love Violation Friday, so how about THOSE apples...

    Signed ~ Crazy Catholic School Girl from Boston

    Violation Friday?? Lol
  • pain_is_weakness
    pain_is_weakness Posts: 798 Member
    My husband, family, and I go to church every Sunday. I have gone to church here and there in my childhood but I decided to dedicate myself to serving God when i was in my teens, I started going dispite my families lack of encouragment sometimes, they were very wishy-washy with what they believe. I may be the only one in my imediate family who goes but my uncle who raised me in my teen years is a pastor and I go to him for advice all the time. It is nice ot have friends at church who encourage you no matter what and who know that you are not a bad person dispite your past, at least for me it is. I started seriously going when my husband was deployed, I was 18. That was hard for me but it kept me focused in life and it was one of the best decisions I have ever made. I will warn you, you may find church after church that you just don't like or don't feel right in, it has happened to me many times, finding a "home" chuch can really discourage you form even wanting to go. But, once you find that home, there is no place like it. I pray for you and your journey of finding that good church that your family can fit right in with!
  • MsFitnFabulous
    MsFitnFabulous Posts: 432 Member
    I've gone for the majority of my life. There were a few patches where I didn't and I can tell the difference.


    I would encourage you to visit and find a church that feels like home. That's where you will find comfort, joy, peace, love and growth. It's where I get my "food' for the week to keep pressing forward through good times and bad.
  • xsargex
    xsargex Posts: 768
    Oh man, I gotta post on this thread, cause I have a tendancy to always be in conversations that get locked out. So I better hurry up and type this out.

    I grew up in church most of my life. My parents came from pretty messed up families; alcoholism and abusive parenting. Me being the only child, they wanted to raise me right. So we always went to church every sunday, without question. I've never had any monumentous conversion nor do I have a crazy testimony to share; I've just always believed since my earliest childhood memory. I've had my questions along the way and maybe a few moments of confusion, but I've never doubted or faulted. In the end, if I'm wrong, what have I really lost. *rolling the dice*
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