have anyone used the menstrual cup

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  • It sounds interesting however I am an extremely heavy bleeder on day 2 & 3. so much so that i will go thru 5 or 6 or more overnight pads in a day & still manage to leak :(
    Any heavy bleeders out there use them?

    I am a heavy bleeder and I used double protection (tampon and pad) just to get me through an hour before needing to change. The cup works better for me. It holds a lot more and I don't need to empty it until I get home from work. I do wear a slim pad just in case though.
  • hazedot
    hazedot Posts: 111 Member
    Since we're on the topic of menstration ladies... does anyone else have a contraceptive implant? I've had one for three years and there is no ease up on the bleeding. It's making me feel constantly self conscious and is sending my sex life with my boyfriend down the pan.

    I went to the doctor a couple of weeks ago to have mine removed and to discuss different options. I've discovered there pretty much isn't anything else I can have. I used to have migraines with aura... black spots infront of your eyes before the pain set in and the doctor told me that most of the other options could cause me to have a stroke.

    I've not had these kinds of headaches in 3 years but the doctor won't consider any of the other options for me. Anyone had any problems like this? Can anyone suggest anything I could try?
  • FifiLea
    FifiLea Posts: 80 Member
    I have such heavy periods and I swear by mine. I've been using it a year and I'll never go back!

    It's so much more reliable than tampons and it lasts longer. Plus, I never run out as it's always in my bag. No more getting caught unawares!

    I also worry about tampons and toxic shock etc, so I prefer this.
  • I've never heard of it before and just googled it and.. eeeewwwww lol, it's just too weird and gross for me
  • medoria
    medoria Posts: 673 Member
    Ive had mine for two years and I love it. It took me about two periods before I figured out how to work it. Its a bit tricky in the beginning but once you get a hang of it almost like you forget your even bleeding. A few times Ive forgot it at home and have had to rely on tampoons and pads instead and that has been an nightmare, soooo disgusting.

    The most noticeable thing about chaning to a cup is the smell. It still smells but not by far as bad as before. The smell from tampoons and pads is not the blood, its the mix from the blood and the chemicals used to bleach them. When using the cup its only the iron from the blood that actually smells, nothing else.
  • veganbaum
    veganbaum Posts: 1,865 Member
    I tried the Diva Cup and didn't ike it at all. I couldn't feel it, which was good. But, one night it leaked, ugh. And getting it out the first time I almost had a panic attack. It is WAY too hard to get out.

    There are others that are shaped differently that may work much better. The Diva Cup is shaped like a diaphragm. Others are more like a little cup with a stem for removal. I'd possibly try those, but never again on the other. Freaked me out!

    I love the Diva Cup, but it is a cup with a stem - I've never seen one shaped like a diaphragm. There are two different sizes, so anyone who's thinking about, make sure you get the right size. It can take a while to learn how to properly insert it so it doesn't leak, and to remove it. But, on another site I was on someone posted a link to a youtube video where a women uses a clear tube to show how to properly insert, make sure it's in correctly so it doesn't leak, and remove it. After watching that, I never had any more problems. For many women, the cup also helps relieve cramping. It's definitely worth looking into.
  • Otrepsi
    Otrepsi Posts: 24 Member
    I've used a Mooncup for about 6 years, and I will NEVER go back to tampons. The main reasons I starting using it was because I hated the waste and the idea of all that crap going to a landfill, and how tampons (no matter the brand) leave microscopic fibers up there that can potentially cause damage.

    My favourite things:

    No waste - I've had the same cup this whole time, and it's still perfect.

    No leakage - There IS a learning curve at first, but unlike with a tampon, I can sense when it's getting full. Even if it does leak, it's only a tiny amount, unlike with a tampon, which basically wicks it out of you! I never even have to wear a pad anymore "just in case".

    Can't feel it at all - Sometimes when I used tampons, I didn't put it in far enough, and you can't take it out immediately because it's all dry and nasty. It'd have to sit there for some time and be irritating until I could take it out. When the cup is placed properly, you'd never know it was there.

    Emptied less often - On my heavy days, I empty it about every 6 hours. With tampons, I'd have to change it every 2-3. It really sucked if I guessed wrong as to when I needed to change it, because then it would be dry and difficult to remove.

    I will agree that a cup is NOT for everyone! If you are squeamish about putting your fingers up in there, or having to deal with bodily fluids, you're going to have a more difficult time. Even if you don't have a problem, it does take a little bit to get used to. But I think the benefits far outweigh any "eww" factor.
  • veganbaum
    veganbaum Posts: 1,865 Member
    I found the link, this seriously helped me with the issues I was first having when using my Divacup:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLPBZz3uJEg
  • jan_andrea
    jan_andrea Posts: 44 Member
    I've used mine for 12 years, on and off (I'd go at least 2 years after giving birth to each of my three kids w/no periods, so I've had a good run of no menstruation). Mine was kind of uncomfortable with the stem on (I have a Diva cup), but once I cut that off, it was much better. If you have trouble taking it out, either squat or put one leg up on the sink or toilet, and bear down a little; that usually lowers it enough for me to reach without the stem even if I put it in on the higher side. I have no complaints and can't imagine using a tampon again -- those seem really gross to me :)
  • Try for a couple of cycles to see how they work for you. I just recently began using the Instead softcup (from Walmart), and I find it works perfectly for me on light days (no leakage :-), but on heavy days it I need some backup (i.e., thin pads). Once you get the hang of inserting, removing and emptying, it's not that different than using tampons. You can wear them longer, you're not exposing your body to potentially harmful chemicals used in treated tampon fibers, and it's less waste! Plus, you can wear them during sex (added bonus!).
  • shydaisi
    shydaisi Posts: 788 Member
    I do and absolutely love it! I have used one for about 4 years now and will NEVER go back!

    There is a learning curve on getting it put in properly. There are different ways to fold it - some work better than others for different people. Once you have it in place, you should be able to twist it easily. If you can't twist it or you can feel it, you don't have it in properly. I have only ever leaked once using the cup and it was my first cycle and was only because I didn't get it put in properly (it didn't open).

    I use the Diva Cup and it is cup shaped and it does have a stem for removal. Yes, you can use it if you have an IUD.

    You can where the cup 24 hours per day and can do any activity. I find myself doing more because I am more confident that I am protected - I can't imagine going hiking if I needed to change a pad or tampon in the middle of the woods...

    I never feel the cup unless it is time to change it or if I have a full bladder. As far as using them for heavier flow - the cup holds about 1/2 an ounce of liquid - a typical cycle will produce between 10 to 80 mL (1/3 ounce to 2-3/4 ounces). (One website noted if your cycle is heavier than 80 mL, you should be concerned about becoming anemic). I am lucky and only have a 3 day cycle. I empty the cup approximately 6 times (once every 12ish hours - once in the morning and once in the evening) each month, which is soooo much better than that having to change a tampon every 1 to 3 hours.

    One note of caution - do NOT wash the cup in antibacterial soap. That is just asking for a yeast infection because it kills all of the bacteria inside of you - the good and the bad.
  • idiocracy
    idiocracy Posts: 275 Member
    I bought some and threw them away. I just couldn't put it in!!! It didn't fit! It seemed soooo huge!!! I wish I could use it, though, the concept is great!
  • shydaisi
    shydaisi Posts: 788 Member
    Try for a couple of cycles to see how they work for you. I just recently began using the Instead softcup (from Walmart), and I find it works perfectly for me on light days (no leakage :-), but on heavy days it I need some backup (i.e., thin pads). Once you get the hang of inserting, removing and emptying, it's not that different than using tampons. You can wear them longer, you're not exposing your body to potentially harmful chemicals used in treated tampon fibers, and it's less waste! Plus, you can wear them during sex (added bonus!).

    You can wear Instead softcup during sex, but not a reusable menstrual cup (at least not the Diva, but I think this goes for others as well).
  • shydaisi
    shydaisi Posts: 788 Member
    Also, if you are squeamish about the blood, try emptying the cup while you are in the shower.
  • veganbaum
    veganbaum Posts: 1,865 Member
    Try for a couple of cycles to see how they work for you. I just recently began using the Instead softcup (from Walmart), and I find it works perfectly for me on light days (no leakage :-), but on heavy days it I need some backup (i.e., thin pads). Once you get the hang of inserting, removing and emptying, it's not that different than using tampons. You can wear them longer, you're not exposing your body to potentially harmful chemicals used in treated tampon fibers, and it's less waste! Plus, you can wear them during sex (added bonus!).

    I think the Instead is different from the cups - same basic concept, but still different. For instance, the cups definitely cannot be worn during sex, simply because of where they sit. Instead is kind of like a diaphragm, right? I'm not sure, have only seen it once. I don't want to get too graphic here, so I'll just say the cup is not inserted that high up.
  • tawnabunnygirl
    tawnabunnygirl Posts: 6 Member
    I have to agree with Glorbaby. It thought it was pretty gross and uncofortable both to wear and change. I went back to tampons. Maybe, I was doing something wrong. I followed the instructions on the packageing, but i found it a bit to complicated.
  • Just responding to prev posters, the Instead softcup is designed more like a diaphragm and does sit higher inside, so the removal process can be a bit more " involved."

    I've not tried a Diva or Mooncup, but I'm wanting to try one to see the diff. I'm now 3 cycles into this "cup", so still learning :-)
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    I use a little of everything, including one of these. I thought it was Diva Cup, but it has the stem and different shape. I bought it quite a while ago though so it might be another brand.

    It IS gross and icky...but I find periods gross and icky in general. I do as much of the cleaning/reinsertion in the shower as well. Unlike pads or tampons, this has never leaked.
  • jppizana
    jppizana Posts: 59 Member
    This sounds extremely interesting yet I can't help but say . ."EWWW!" I will have to talk to my doctor next time I see her about this. It sounds like a good replacement especially for those who are constantly scared of leaking through at work (me!) but after being scared to death about TSS as a tween, I can't imaging leaving something up there for 12 HOURS!!
  • cklbrown
    cklbrown Posts: 4,696 Member
    Try it. You will love it. The protection is amazing. It is so comfortable. You can sleep in it. Just be careful removing it. It can be messy.
  • crzyone
    crzyone Posts: 872 Member
    I just heard of it a bit ago and looked into it...but there were no stores around here that sold them....I am a heavy bleeder too so had my doubts that it could control it....I may have to look into it again..
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    I ordered mine online.
  • bsolada
    bsolada Posts: 23 Member
    My question is concerning if you have to remove the cup in a public restroom. Would I have to rinse it out in the sink? That's the only option I can think of which would be very embarrassing to do in front of other people in a bathroom. And it would definitely gross out others to see someone else's menstrual blood. What do others do if they can't empty it at home and are out and about?
  • I have used one for several years. Yes at first I was like "gross - yuck" and now it isn't a big deal. I am a heavy bleeder and I like that I can put this in and not worry about it. It does have a learning curve, so use a pad at first as back up. I find it impossible to empty it in a public restroom since I wash it before re-inserting but some people carry wet wipes to do that with. I love that on lighter days I can stick it in when I get ready in the morning and not worry until night. I also am not buying tampons or pads every month so I have saved tons of money using it, plus not filling a landfill or sewer with tampons and pads! :happy:
  • Frankenbarbie01
    Frankenbarbie01 Posts: 432 Member
    Love my Diva!!! NEVER go back!!
    Trying to convert the younger women in my life to menst. cups.
    They are not as difficult to use once you learn how.
    Mooncup has a facebook page with lots of links and support

    I initially bought one to communicate to my doctor the volume of my unusual periods (which turned out to be abnormal) was truly a blessing! =)
  • veganbaum
    veganbaum Posts: 1,865 Member
    My question is concerning if you have to remove the cup in a public restroom. Would I have to rinse it out in the sink? That's the only option I can think of which would be very embarrassing to do in front of other people in a bathroom. And it would definitely gross out others to see someone else's menstrual blood. What do others do if they can't empty it at home and are out and about?

    Visit a place like Divacup's website or Lunapads. There are FAQ pages that address questions like this.
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    My question is concerning if you have to remove the cup in a public restroom. Would I have to rinse it out in the sink? That's the only option I can think of which would be very embarrassing to do in front of other people in a bathroom. And it would definitely gross out others to see someone else's menstrual blood. What do others do if they can't empty it at home and are out and about?

    Because of the length of time you can go between 'changes', I've never had this be an issue. It's never been difficult to time it so that I'm in a private bathroom to do that. I would NOT like it if someone did that in a public restroom I was in.
  • IMYarnCraz33
    IMYarnCraz33 Posts: 1,016 Member
    Never heard of it :noway:
  • ok thank you ladies im going to try to try the moon cup
  • stephyy4632
    stephyy4632 Posts: 947 Member
    yep I`ve used the diva cup size 2 since 2005 after I had my first child and I will NEVER go back to pads again the cup is so easy and has saved tons of money over the years now. It has alittle learning curve the first two or three cycles but after that its easier to use than even a tampon :) best female product ever in my book