Fat girl and skinny guy

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  • ltnangel_92
    ltnangel_92 Posts: 19
    I'd rather be the fat girl with a skinny guy where there may be motivation, than the fat girl with the fat guy whom both have no motivation and cares. :) Don't worry about it!

    love this post. :smile:

    but yea! just try it out, mayb that is your perfect love connection. just see how it goes, and enjoy it! Who doesnt want a guy who cares about them, and wants to be with them. :flowerforyou: He sees you as a beautiful lady! and i bet he will cheer you on the whole way on your weight loss goals.

    you know how people say "age is just a number"
    well "weight is just a number" too

    Go for it!
  • ltnangel_92
    ltnangel_92 Posts: 19
    You're big but also cute. I would hate it if a cute girl I liked wouldn't date me because I wasn't fat enough.


    hahaha. i love it post too
  • JizWiz
    JizWiz Posts: 57
    Are you CRAZY! I just saw your profile pic and you are a cutie! Lose the weight for you and not the gauckers!!!
  • juleseybaby
    juleseybaby Posts: 712 Member
    Ah. Very familiar tale.

    I was about 220, 5'4" when I met (or, re-met) my 6'0" hubby. He was 145 soakin' wet.

    I often referred to us as 'toothpick man and marshmallow woman'.

    We have been married for 15 years. Currently both working on getting HAWT for our 40's! :wink:

    The age thing - I once was with a man 15 years older. I say don't let it bug you.
  • ron2282
    ron2282 Posts: 2,760 Member
    I always said that I could never date a guy with a smaller waist than mine….until I met my husband. He and I are the same height and he is technically UNDERweight for his height. I was very close to my heaviest when we met and got married and he never once complained about my weight. He supports me losing weight because he doesn’t want me to have health issues but he’s never had a problem with my body or way I look. Even now, having gained way more than I wanted to during this pregnancy, he still looks at me like I’m the most beautiful woman in the world. If you’ve found a man who is interested and respects you then go for it.
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
    If he is fine with it, more power to you. If you want to lose weight, this is certainly the site to be at, and we are more than happy to support you!
  • mandemonious
    mandemonious Posts: 217 Member
    Me: short curvy swervy
    Him: tall, thin

    I'm also 7 yrs older than him. We've been together 5 yrs and still dig the hell outta each other. Do what feels right, til it doesn't feel right any more. Who cares about appearances really..? Okay, so we all do. But we shouldn't. So don't. :wink:
  • mugofire
    mugofire Posts: 110 Member
    Exactly....opposites attract... feelings don't go away!
  • serenelake
    serenelake Posts: 13
    umm, I weigh about 195 and my husband weighs about 140 at 6'1", and I think he is hotttt! Skinny guys are great, I don't care what size you are, so you should go for it!!!!!
  • shpaige
    shpaige Posts: 3
    I am over 250 pounds and my husband is a lil under 200 pounds.I thought the same thing but the more and more I got to know him I saw that he was'nt worried about my weight.He always tell me he loves me for me and whats inside my heart.If he likes or loves u then what other people think should'nt matter. Besides some skinny men like big girls. :~)
  • wannabesexymama
    wannabesexymama Posts: 367 Member
    Ok so i have this problem, i have a guy who would be great to me, he likes me and respects me but hes skinny and im chunky. Does anyone else have this problem? I look at myself and him and tell myself i dont wanna be the fat girl in a relationship walking down the street with the skinny guy...any advice??

    I was in your position 6 years ago! I am now married to that sexy skinny guy and we have 3 children together! Its not always about weight hun! My husband thinks I am Perfect but I don't so I work on me and he respects me either way. He does't really understand the fuss I make about myself since he has been skinny all his life! That is why I come here for weight related people! I get the support here that he cant really give me because when he tries I tell him to be quiet since he has never been in my shoe's!
  • Mlehew
    Mlehew Posts: 17 Member
    I agree with most of the posters in that if he is a great guy, don't let yourself sabotage what might be something great. Besides, you're working hard and won't be chunky for too much longer anyway. Gofor it!!!
  • mommiekiya
    mommiekiya Posts: 5
    If he likes you for you why does it matter. He is with you cause he likes you. He can see past ur weight. Plus your working out now. Dont give up. :smile:
  • cabaray
    cabaray Posts: 971 Member
    In your post, you said "i have a guy who would be great to me, he likes me and respects me but hes skinny and im chunky", but you never said if you were really into the guy. The age and the size don't matter, but don't settle with someone just because they will treat you well. There has to be more. If you really like the guy, go for it, otherwise, keep looking.
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