What are the habits that helped you succeed?
amandaross887
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What are the habits that helped you succeed?
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I think realising that motivation will wane, so focusing on making changes a habit. I often see posts on here from people asking for motivation, or for friends to motivate or hold others accountable. But even those of us who have maintained for a longish time aren’t always motivated, and I still feel like I can’t be bothered to track. But I have made it a habit and I convince myself to do it. Motivation wanes - new habits take time to stick, but dedication will win out.10
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amandaross887 wrote: »What are the habits that helped you succeed?
This is a great question! I'm committed to a 16 week plan, and having discreet little things like this keeps me more focused.1 -
Go for small, attainable goals. Don’t go in thinking you need to lose it all in a short time. It takes time and most of all, dedication. You will slip up, and that’s fine. All is not lost if you go off the rails a bit. Just get back on track as soon as possible. Trust the process and log everything, including sauces and dressings. That helped me tremendously. Good luck on your journey8
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Your food is yours alone. The trap on our foot is optional. Our food choices are highly individual, and mostly forged in earlier life. A narrow way of eating can lead to a narrow aperture to see the world through. Too many perimeters constrain us, limit us and confine us to a self-induced food prison.
That which restrains us, is a snare. Old habits are tethers to our old selves. We lay these self-defeating traps, to keep us from wandering out of the familiar. Perfection is a pipe dream. Continuous daily improvement is better than delayed perfection.
Instead of all or nothing thinking of perfection, think of it as full engagement with your life. Failure is sitting in neutral, as your life passes you by. Put it in gear and go forward.2 -
Making everything into a routine4
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When I’m preparing my last meal of the day, I also prepare a snack plate and put out all the foods or snacks I’ve allowed myself within my calorie allowance for the day still to be eaten. I try to do this whether I’m hungry or not. I find that even though I may not be hungry laying out the food, later, if I’m tired and bored or want to snack I look at that plate and can eat it without having to think about it , or feel guilty about
it. Most of the time this works. When it doesn’t work it makes me reconsider the choices I make. I hope this makes sense.12 -
Making changes to my diet that I know I can stick to permanently. Also only eating out occasionally. Even when you think you made a healthy choice it ends up being loaded with extra calories. I would rather cook at home.2
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Track everything. If you're mindful about the calories something has and it is deducted from your daily balance, you'll know how much more you can eat to stay within your calorie range to maintain weight loss.2
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I only allow healthy food in the house. If I want a Twinkie..I’m going to have to make a special trip for it.0
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- Log food
- Step on the body weight scale and record it somewhere
- Take a walk or do some exercise daily
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Eating foods I enjoy and find filling that add up to a reasonable number of calories and adequate nutrition on average over a day or few.
Doing active things(official exercise or otherwise) that I personally find fun (or at least very tolerable/practical).
Thinking in terms of long-term sustainable overall patterns of typical eating and activity, rather "good" and "bad" individual foods or anything of that sort. Trying to find practices I could follow almost on autopilot, ideally forever, to stay at a healthy weight.
Being realistic about my personal, idiosyncratic preferences, strengths, limitations, etc.; and working within those, rather than trying to motivate myself to the point of attempting a personality transplant. Personality transplants don't work.
Not freaking out over the odd day or two here or there that differ from my healthy routine. (Guilt, shame, anxiety, etc., don't burn any extra calories, plus they feel icky. I try to avoid them.)
Own my decisions, i.e., those rare days where I overdo pizza or whatever were decisions on my part, one way or another. If the exception was worth it, fine. If it wasn't, I need to revise my plans. I'm not powerless when it comes to what I put in my mouth, chew, and swallow. (Doesn't mean personal psychology is always easy, though.) If I say I want something (like healthy weight or fitness), but I don't do the work I know is needful to achieve it, I didn't really mean it when I said I wanted it.2 -
…..Being realistic about my personal, idiosyncratic preferences, strengths, limitations, etc.; and working within those, rather than trying to motivate myself to the point of attempting a personality transplant. Personality transplants don't work.
….Guilt, shame, anxiety, etc., don't burn any extra calories, plus they feel icky. I try to avoid them….
….. If it wasn't, I need to revise my plans. I'm not powerless when it comes to what I put in my mouth, chew, and swallow….
… If I say I want something (like healthy weight or fitness), but I don't do the work I know is needful to achieve it, I didn't really mean it when I said I wanted it.
This is why @AnnPT77 is the Yoda of MFP. Well said, Ann! 😘
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Log food
Find an exercise you enjoy1 -
I made a commitment to log everything, even when it’s ugly. (151 days straight and counting!) The data I now have is very helpful. Logging each day of gluttony helps me put it to bed and move on without stewing in my guilt.3
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