Anyone else struggling to stay under calorie goal?

fat2fab4life
fat2fab4life Posts: 253 Member
edited November 12 in Health and Weight Loss
I see so many posts on here about people who have a hard time reaching their calorie goal.. boy do I wish I had that issue!

I am having... and have always had... and issue staying under my calorie goal.

breakfast is good

lunch i usually eat a bit too much but I can control that if I tried

snack after lunch and the space from lunch to dinner is my biggest issue.. i tend to eat way too much during this time b/c i am home and just feel like eating

dinner is okay, although it's before bed that gets to me wanting to snack while watching tv .

i have not eaten my calorie goal or under my calorie goal since i have started this thing.

i started to exercise so i can eat more but all that does is leave me starving after (and the protein after does not work, i'm still hungry)

any help or suggestions? (i'm not opening my diary for i also use it as a diary so general advice or suggestions are appreciated)
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  • Fairysoul
    Fairysoul Posts: 1,361 Member
    When my calories start getting up there, I start eating more fruits and veggies, you can eat more feel more full without so many calories..
  • fat2fab4life
    fat2fab4life Posts: 253 Member
    When my calories start getting up there, I start eating more fruits and veggies, you can eat more feel more full without so many calories..

    thank u, that makes sense and is something i should try!
  • KeyMasterOfGozer
    KeyMasterOfGozer Posts: 229 Member
    If you make your food diary available to us we might be able to help more specifically.
  • Brannock8
    Brannock8 Posts: 170 Member
    I see so many posts on here about people who have a hard time reaching their calorie goal.. boy do I wish I had that issue!

    Haha yeah I am with you on this one. Lately I have been focusing on keeping breakfast and dinner healthy and well portioned. My lunch is usually my worst, at work there is not great options, and I rarely have time to make it before hand (and sure I'm a little lazy). What has been helping me is getting in a good run and a strength workout everyday, and eating back about half the calories.
  • korygilliam
    korygilliam Posts: 594 Member
    To me, the 'starving for snacks' is a mental thing. I remember when I started adding 8pm crackers to my daily routine (and at a different time, a 3pm granola bar) and after making those part of my routine, if I didn't eat them, my body was HUNGRY! But once I got out of making that my norm, then my body no longer craved food at that time.

    Change your snacks to make sure they are small/1 serving size and healthly...if small isn't working, then cut out 25% of fhe size for a week...then cut by 50%...then cut to make it 1 serving

    Also, in my experience...eating well may help you lose some weight, but for me it only allowed me to maintain my weight. To lose weight I had to exercise.
  • fat2fab4life
    fat2fab4life Posts: 253 Member
    To me, the 'starving for snacks' is a mental thing. I remember when I started adding 8pm crackers to my daily routine (and at a different time, a 3pm granola bar) and after making those part of my routine, if I didn't eat them, my body was HUNGRY! But once I got out of making that my norm, then my body no longer craved food at that time.

    Change your snacks to make sure they are small/1 serving size and healthly...if small isn't working, then cut out 25% of fhe size for a week...then cut by 50%...then cut to make it 1 serving

    Also, in my experience...eating well may help you lose some weight, but for me it only allowed me to maintain my weight. To lose weight I had to exercise.

    great advice, thank u!!!!
  • Goal4Good
    Goal4Good Posts: 115
    I have ALWAYS struggled with wanting to eat at night. (After dinner) I don't even have to be hungry! Its just something I've always done and its a deeply ingrained habit going all the way back to childhood. Because eating after dinner is a trigger for me to keep eating till I turn out the light for bed-- I had to go cold turkey on it!

    Now, as soon as dinner is over, I go to the bathroom and brush and floss my teeth. Getting the taste of food out of my mouth has been the best way to break this lifelong habit. I also took up crocheting so i had something to do with my hands while watching TV. I turn out all the lights in the kitchen and declare it "closed" and I dont' turn them on again for anything. It was hard cause old habits die hard but after a few weeks of this new routine, it became easier. I also allow myself water to drink but no flavored beverages after dinner cause they tend to cause me to crave some other kind of "flavor". Just gargle after dinner and refuse snacks. After a while, its really not that hard to continue. Its all a matter of changing a habit. Takes about 3 weeks.

    That took care of my "going over" the calorie goal for the day immediately. Good Luck! I know its hard but you can do it!
  • fat2fab4life
    fat2fab4life Posts: 253 Member
    If you make your food diary available to us we might be able to help more specifically.

    I'd love to but as I mentioned above i use my food diary as a journal also in which i write personal things about my day inside and I do not wish to share. thank u though
  • nakabi
    nakabi Posts: 589 Member
    Before you reach for the snack, drink a glass of water. Then once you eat the snack, drink another glass. I find that if I know I have to drink a glass of water every time I reach for something to eat, I eat less (I can't stand the taste of water, but I still drink it haha). Also, make sure you are getting enough protein and carbs. Those are what will keep you full. When you do feel like you need to snack, reach for some trailmix, nuts, string cheese, yoghurt mixed with some low-fat granola and berries, a couple slices of deli ham/turkey, a slice of lowfat cheese/tomato/ rolled into some deli meat...the list is endless.....

    all the best!!!
  • KeyMasterOfGozer
    KeyMasterOfGozer Posts: 229 Member
    In general, though eating high fiber and high protein will help. Fats have 9 calories per gram, carbohydrates have 5 cal per gram and proteins have 4 cal per gram. So you can see that protein is much less calorie dense, so per volume you will get less calories. Also, you can eat things with lots of water in them.

    For instance, 8 cups of raw spinach leaves has only 40 calories. You will totally fill your stomach up before you get any significant calories.
  • KeyMasterOfGozer
    KeyMasterOfGozer Posts: 229 Member
    If you make your food diary available to us we might be able to help more specifically.

    I'd love to but as I mentioned above i use my food diary as a journal also in which i write personal things about my day inside and I do not wish to share. thank u though
    I don't think that you can put anything in you food diary except a list of food and exercise. Are you confusing that with your blog on the site?
  • Pristess
    Pristess Posts: 19 Member
    You need to find some foods that you can eat a large serving of, but they don't have a lot of calories. You can eat 2 cups of watermelon for under 100 calories, or you can eat a smoothie made from 1 cup Fit & Active Vanilla soy milk and 1 cup frozen fruit for under 200 calories. For lunch, eat large portions of veggies. An entire cup of green beans is only 40 calories. Also, Merita makes good reduced calorie breads. If you just need to put something in your mouth, you can make 0 calorie popsicles from lemon juice, water, and stevia.
  • Kalrez
    Kalrez Posts: 655 Member
    (i'm not opening my diary for i also use it as a diary so general advice or suggestions are appreciated)

    I generally believe that people are more than entitled to keep their logs private and that it's no one else's business what you eat. It irks me when people are like "ugh, your log is private!" like it's their right to see what you eat.

    That being said, it's very difficult to make suggestions on what you could change in order to stay under calories without seeing what you are already doing. You did describe your typical day, but that doesn't really help much. So from what you've given us to go on, here's some suggestions:

    - Actually TRY to stay good on lunch. You said you could if you tried, so try.

    - When you're home between lunch and dinner, be active. Do something other than munch. Go for a jog, do laundry, something. You said you eat because you're home and just feel like eating. Need to work on breaking that habit. In the meantime, maybe switch your snack. If you're eating calorie dense snacks, switch to raw veggies - baby carrots or celery are good choices. They are both very low calorie, but they can give you the satisfaction of chewing and eating.

    - Same thing for after dinner snacks. I actually have those little Babybel cheese rounds in my fridge for a snack and some colby-jack cubes. They're around 100ish calories, and I find cheese to be very satisfying.

    Other general suggestions:

    - When you feel bored and hungry, drink some water. Put the water in your tummy rather than snacks.

    - If you're already at your calorie for the day, but have the munchies before bed, just go to bed earlier. The extra rest isn't a bad thing.

    - Perhaps reduce the calorie size of your breakfast and lunch. You could spread the calories out a little more throughout the day. That would let you eat more frequently.

    And one more thing. You didn't mention how much over you're over on a regular basis. You may need to adjust your goal. When I started I was doing 2# per week at around 1500-1580 calories. After I lost some weight, that 2# per week had me down to like 1300 calories. I can't eat at 1300 calories and NOT feel absolutely famished. I tried it for a week or two, but was constantly over and constantly hungry. I sacrificed the speed of loss and manually upped my calories to 1500. That puts me at around 1.6# loss per week, which is fine for me. I don't think I could do a 1200 calorie goal right now. Maybe in a few months I will, but not right now. Maybe consider adjusting your loss/week goal to give you a few more calories. Also, double check your activity level settings. If you're mildly active on a daily basis due to work/school/whatever, make sure you're not set to sedentary. That'll give you a few more calories to play with.
  • natali_sh92
    natali_sh92 Posts: 37 Member
    i struggled with that too. but what i do it eat 2 small-ish meals and one big meal and then every time i want a snack i have like a 100 cal snack and this way i actually struggle to eat all my calories. And if im planning to do some exercise, then i can eat more =D
    Its deffinitely true what they say about eating lots of small meals, it really does work better!
  • Kalrez
    Kalrez Posts: 655 Member
    If you make your food diary available to us we might be able to help more specifically.

    I'd love to but as I mentioned above i use my food diary as a journal also in which i write personal things about my day inside and I do not wish to share. thank u though
    I don't think that you can put anything in you food diary except a list of food and exercise. Are you confusing that with your blog on the site?

    There's a box on the bottom right hand side of your log that lets you put in notes about the day. Next to the water log. I've used it to track some challenge goals before.
  • ZeroTX
    ZeroTX Posts: 179 Member
    There are a lot of great suggestions. I find it good to spread out what I have available to me to eat, especially for snacks. If I have it all in front of me, I'll just eat it right after lunch, but what I need to do is save it for later in the afternoon when I'll feel hungry again. Also, keep good snacks around.

    I'm not sure what kind of protein you're eating, but I would make sure it's solid. Liquid protein shakes and the like don't (for me) provide that "I'm full and not hungry" feeling like the protein bars do. I would avoid almost any food that's mostly carbohydrate, as eating carbs just makes you hungry for more carbs. How many times have I started on the box of "healthy" wheat thins, only to eat the whole stupid box!! I can do well if I count them out onto a napkin, put the box away, then eat the snack.
  • Rae6503
    Rae6503 Posts: 6,294 Member
    How many calories are you trying for? Are you sure it is enough? What is your weekly goal set to?

    **I'm one of those "Eat MORE!" people. We should start a club....
  • Ditto on the fruits & veg -- find fresh stuff that you like and snack on that.

    I feel like really going for quality food helps you feel more satisfied. In my book, that means more organics/farm fresh local foods and less processed/packaged foods.

    The hardest part for me is breaking the habitual eating -- like you mentioned -- snacking while watching tv, etc. Breaking habits like that takes me a ton of concentration and mindfulness, but I'm really trying this time to get to a place where I can let a bag of chips just sit in the pantry. Maybe if you try just one day to not snack at that usual time, you could begin to break the habit.

    Like for me at my desk all day at work, I decided every time I wanted to reach for a snack, I would instead stand up and stretch a little bit, maybe walk a lap around cubeville. Unless I'm DEFINITELY hungry, then I'll eat.

    Anyway, I may be projecting the "habit" angle here...hope you find success!!

    best,
    Sara
    "eat less, taste more"
  • Kate6868
    Kate6868 Posts: 159 Member
    As others have noted, I also like to reach for veggies to munch on. You can eat an awful lot of cucumbers before they start to really affect your calorie count. I also like red bell peppers and carrots for snacking. When I eat calorie-dense meals, I will often mix it 50-50 with veggies (peas, cauliflower, etc.), which adds more flavor and makes the meal twice as big without doubling the calorie count.
  • It's somewhat hard to comment without seeing you diary. However, my first thought we be to start eating foods that are lower in calories and fill you up longer. Try egg whites, tune, chicken, etc... Eat more vegetables to help fill yourself up (veggies & fat free dip in the afternoon coule be good!)

    Look at your own diary, and see where most of the calories are coming from, then try to reduce/exchange those items.

    The best thing you can do it learn what works for your body. For example - I could eat 10 bowls of cereal and not be full, but a small bowl of oatmeal seems to hold me over for hours! ;)

    Best of Luck...
  • glenbabe
    glenbabe Posts: 303 Member
    As we dont know what you like to eat my best advice I can think of is to clue yourself up on what is lower in calories in general.This does tend to be fibrous stuff like fruits and veggies so I agree with what was said by one of the posts,but generally the more knowledge you have about the foods you like the easier it is to make low calorie wise choices that are filling.Some days I feel hungrier than others so I think its also important to listen to your body and it is not an exact science and being slightly over shouldnt really effect your weight loss.
  • fat2fab4life
    fat2fab4life Posts: 253 Member
    If you make your food diary available to us we might be able to help more specifically.

    I'd love to but as I mentioned above i use my food diary as a journal also in which i write personal things about my day inside and I do not wish to share. thank u though
    I don't think that you can put anything in you food diary except a list of food and exercise. Are you confusing that with your blog on the site?

    great advice, thanks! no the "notes section or food notes" at the bottom of my food diary is what i use to write in. it's directly under the area where you enter your food
  • Fochizzy
    Fochizzy Posts: 505 Member
    Fab, I only can eat the right amount after I changed my goals. 2lbs a week was not actually possible for me I would get too hungry and binge. I had to change to 1lb a week. Just a thought. Better slow progress then no progress
  • floshideaway
    floshideaway Posts: 101 Member
    Hello there,
    it sounds like you must be making wrong choices for your food or you are still in the habit of oversized portions. It takes discipline and commitment but it is well worth it. This is a lifetime change you are making not just a temporary fix. I work from home and I know how hard it is not to snack. I have ridden my house of the sugary stuff at least for now and I only buy healthier snacks like pretzels, rice crakers, fiber bars, carrots, celery etc....My downfall was wine everyday, I have not had a glass since June 4th. I quit smoking a year ago and never looked back because my health is so much better, well it is the same with food, you gotta give some up in order to improve. As long as you are not mentally ready for the change it will be hard to succeed. Nothing happens overnight. Stick with it and it will become second nature. Exercise everyday and most important do not lie to yourself. When you feel the urge to eat, move around, go outside, do something, usuallly the urge goes away. Do not live to eat, eat to live. There is a lot of moral support on MFP, do not be discourage YOU CAN DO IT. Eat 6 smaller meals, it will fell like you are eating more. Plan your food for the day it helps.
  • AlyRoseNYC
    AlyRoseNYC Posts: 1,075 Member
    Nope. I don't even count calories at all =)
  • fat2fab4life
    fat2fab4life Posts: 253 Member
    wow all of you have given me some really helpful info and i really appreciate it!
  • dls06
    dls06 Posts: 6,774 Member
    Low carb, low cal breads are good. Protein like egg white omelets with lots of veggies or salsa with a slice of light bread and some grapes I eat it for a late night snack too. Berries, grapes, plums and peaches are low in cal and carbs. Low fat yogurt or cottage cheese with fruit. Tuna or chicken salad on a low carb tortilla but always add veggies to it to make it more filling. Hot peppers too, they help speed up the metabolism. Low fat popcorn is a must for me. When I make a sandwich I only add a little meat 1 or 2 thin slices and 1/2 slice of cheese with lots of lettuce and tomato. You just have to find ways to eat a lot without a lot of calories and carbs.

    Breakfast Calories Carbs Fat Protein Sodium Chol
    Sugars - Granulated (sucrose), 1 tsp 16 4 0 0 0 0
    Milk - Reduced fat, 2% milkfat, 1 fl oz 15 1 1 1 13 2
    Coffee - Black, 10 fl oz 0 0 0 0 0 0

    Lunch
    Golden's - Spicy Mustard, 1 tsp 5 0 0 0 50 0
    Empire Kosher - Fat Free Turkey Breast Slice, 2 slices 33 1 0 7 200 20
    Alpine Lace - 2% Low Fat Swiss Cheese, 0.5 slice 25 1 2 4 48 8
    Generic - Pepperidge Farms, Light Style, 7 Grain Bread, 2 slice 90 18 0 4 150 0
    Tomato - Raw, Red, 0.25 tomato 3 1 0 0 2 0
    Allens - Mixed Greens, 1/8 cup 11 1 0 1 0 0
    Jolly Time Healthy Pop - Crispy White Naturally Flavored, 0.5 container (12.5 cups poppeds ea.) 125 29 3 5 325 0

    Snack
    Fresh Fruit (Generic) - Cantalope, 0.5 cup cubed (160g/ 6oz) 27 6 0 1 13 0
    Baked Red Potato - by oz., 2 ounce 50 10 0 2 6 0
    Chicken Grilled - Thigh, 1 Thigh 129 1 13 17 0 0

    Dinner
    Argo - 100% Pure Corn Starch, 0.5 tbsp 15 4 0 0 0 0
    Aloha Shoyu - Lower Salt Soy Sauce, 1 tbsp 0 1 0 0 620 0
    Chicken - Boneless/Skinless Chicken Breast, Raw-Correct, 2 oz 72 0 0 14 28 30
    Fresh & Easy - Stir-Fry Vegetable Blend, 1 cup 35 6 0 1 25 0
    Brown Rice - Uncle Ben's - Natural Whole Grain Brown Rice, 0.5 cup cooked 85 18 1 2 0 0

    Snack
    Bell Pepper - Red - Large - Raw, 0.5 pepper 25 5 0 1 3 0
    Albertsons - Zesty Italian Dressing, 1 tbsp 40 2 4 0 245 0
    Tomato - Raw, Red, 1 tomato 10 5 0 1 6 0
    Kellogg's Fun Pack Cereal - Honey Smacks, 1 Box (32g) 120 28 1 2 60 0

    Snack
    Snyder's - Mini Pretzels - 100 Calorie Pack , 1 Bag 100 22 0 2 220 0
    Sabra - Hummus - Supremely Spicy, 1 Tbsp (28g) 35 2 3 1 65 0
    Blue Diamond - Almonds - Whole Natural (Raw), 1 oz 160 6 14 6 0 0

    Totals 1,226 172 42 72 2,079 60
    Your Daily Goal 1,410 194 47 53 2,500 300
    Remaining 184 22 5 -19 421 240
    Calories Carbs Fat Protein Sodium Chol
  • I am on the same page as you are and have been there pretty much most of my life. I think it has to do with my childhood because I would binge after schoo lunches and relieve my stress when getting home
  • hatravers
    hatravers Posts: 159 Member
    chop up fruit in the morning, mix all together and put in the fridge. count the calories and use it for breakfast with a low cal yogurt and any time during the day u feal hungary
  • potluck965
    potluck965 Posts: 529 Member


    **I'm one of those "Eat MORE!" people. We should start a club....

    Yeah!!! Whenever I see the threads posted by people that are complaining that they can't eat enough, I think "gee, that's tough" (dripping with sarcasm) :laugh:

    I've been hungry since I started this. I lost weight, but I am almost always hungry. :ohwell:
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