Doing it differently this time

Hi there!

In the past I have:
-Had disordered thoughts about body image and food
-Had extreme all or nothing thinking
-Strived to be the smallest I could be while being healthy
-Overexercised
-Started hundreds if not thousands of diets
-Skipped meals (would have been considered fasting if I had been older, but I was in highschool, and not getting enough food for a growing girl. Not sure how long this lasted, may have been a week, may have been several months)
-Struggled with neurodiversity, but didn't realise until I was diagnosed with a few things
-Prioritised weightloss above everything else, didn't do things for years because I wanted to focus on losing weight, but didn't have enough discipline to stick with anything long term
-Avoided being photographed
-Didn't wear clothes I liked and was photographed in unflattering photos, making me look much bigger than I was (mostly a problem as a kid/teenager, before I got my own money)
-Was bullied for half my life
-Avoided doing things until I was thin
-Never really wore a bikini
-Overeating and oversnacking (didn't technically binge, but I ate a LOT)
-Snacking a lot at night time. Probably eating 5000+ calories in one sitting. 2-3 times a week.
-Didn't play sports after getting harrassed by other females
-Never had a boyfriend

Now I'm doing things differently:
-I've found snacks that are similar to what I was eating before, but are lower calorie and are healthier
-Have cut toxic people out of my life
-Realised I don't have to be thin to enjoy myself. If something is worth doing, I can do it at a higher weight and again when I've reached my goal. Life is now!
-Am on the path to quitting soda and energy drinks for health reasons
-Trying to make more food at home and buy less processed ingrediants
-Trying not to buy fast food unless it's an emergency/very special occassion
-Seeing junk foods as birthday foods or things I only have 2-3 times a year
-Have gone to the movies a few times without purchasing food
-Remember that doing something small is better than doing nothing
-Setting two or three small goals a day to focus on, and building on them if I am motivated to
-Have people I check in with every week
-Been on this lifestyle consistently for two or three months now, instead of stopping and starting ten times
-Set a deadline for my weightloss, after that I will add other things in my life to focus on
-Started doing things I want to do
-Gotten support for my mental health
-Stopped snacking all the time
-Made friends with similar backgrounds to me
-Picked a goal weight that is towards the higher side of the bmi range, because once I've lost the weight, I can build muscle and smoke some of the fat away, and I can always reevaluate
-Am trying to take more photos, even if they are just progress pictures
-Only wear clothes I love, that are flattering
-Joined the gym and pools

Feel free to send a message if you relate to me, have any advice for me (may or may not be taken) or would like to be a friend or mentor. Apologies in advance for all the stupid/obvious questions I will ask in the forums. I still have a lot to learn. I have lost 16kg from my highest weight and still have about 32kg to get to my goal weight.