Gym crush!
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »
Sure. That’s what I’m saying. 🙄3 -
BriansTrident wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »I don't see a problem with having a gym crush or an anything crush. It's good to admire downtown else and it's natural. Telling them would be weird and awkward and probably make the crush avoid you at all costs.
But heck if seeing your crush there makes you more enthusiastic to go to the gym then more power to you.
And quite honestly I don't understand this attitude of I go to the gym and don't see or associate with anyone else. Why can't you make friends at a place where you and others have common interests. So many people feel and are isolated these days due to attitudes like this. I could say that about going skating, many i see go and skate and don't talk to anyone. Well I call tell you the one lady who admitted to being depressed over the holidays said we brightened her day by talking and skating with her last week. If you're the type who wants to put your head down and make no personal connections you do you but don't make people feel the are somehow not as serious because they crave and want personal interaction with people with common interests.
Sorry diatribe but I just don't understand this
The crush part is weird to me. In my brain the gym is just one of those places that anything romantic, sexual, crush like should always be turned off.
No offense but to me that sounds like "denial." In the gym you have ppl who are sometimes half naked, doing all kinds of physical activities and many have very attractive bodies. But maybe this doesn't affect you. IDK. I work out at home. I see nobody.
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »
I only look if she’s wearing red 😍3 -
Alinouveau2 wrote: »
I only look if she’s wearing red 😍
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »I don't see a problem with having a gym crush or an anything crush. It's good to admire downtown else and it's natural. Telling them would be weird and awkward and probably make the crush avoid you at all costs.
But heck if seeing your crush there makes you more enthusiastic to go to the gym then more power to you.
And quite honestly I don't understand this attitude of I go to the gym and don't see or associate with anyone else. Why can't you make friends at a place where you and others have common interests. So many people feel and are isolated these days due to attitudes like this. I could say that about going skating, many i see go and skate and don't talk to anyone. Well I call tell you the one lady who admitted to being depressed over the holidays said we brightened her day by talking and skating with her last week. If you're the type who wants to put your head down and make no personal connections you do you but don't make people feel the are somehow not as serious because they crave and want personal interaction with people with common interests.
Sorry diatribe but I just don't understand this
Exactly! I think people under estimate personal connection. We are humans after all and sometimes we forget how to engage now a days. I get the putting your head down and train part but a nice hello or smile certainly goes a long way and you never know, it may cheer up someone having a really bad day. I'm with you on this one 😁BriansTrident wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »I don't see a problem with having a gym crush or an anything crush. It's good to admire downtown else and it's natural. Telling them would be weird and awkward and probably make the crush avoid you at all costs.
But heck if seeing your crush there makes you more enthusiastic to go to the gym then more power to you.
And quite honestly I don't understand this attitude of I go to the gym and don't see or associate with anyone else. Why can't you make friends at a place where you and others have common interests. So many people feel and are isolated these days due to attitudes like this. I could say that about going skating, many i see go and skate and don't talk to anyone. Well I call tell you the one lady who admitted to being depressed over the holidays said we brightened her day by talking and skating with her last week. If you're the type who wants to put your head down and make no personal connections you do you but don't make people feel the are somehow not as serious because they crave and want personal interaction with people with common interests.
Sorry diatribe but I just don't understand this
The crush part is weird to me. In my brain the gym is just one of those places that anything romantic, sexual, crush like should always be turned off.
No offense but to me that sounds like "denial." In the gym you have ppl who are sometimes half naked, doing all kinds of physical activities and many have very attractive bodies. But maybe this doesn't affect you. IDK. I work out at home. I see nobody.
I'm sure you would have plenty of people crushing on you if you were at a public gym. 😁2 -
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justplainshane wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »I don't see a problem with having a gym crush or an anything crush. It's good to admire downtown else and it's natural. Telling them would be weird and awkward and probably make the crush avoid you at all costs.
But heck if seeing your crush there makes you more enthusiastic to go to the gym then more power to you.
And quite honestly I don't understand this attitude of I go to the gym and don't see or associate with anyone else. Why can't you make friends at a place where you and others have common interests. So many people feel and are isolated these days due to attitudes like this. I could say that about going skating, many i see go and skate and don't talk to anyone. Well I call tell you the one lady who admitted to being depressed over the holidays said we brightened her day by talking and skating with her last week. If you're the type who wants to put your head down and make no personal connections you do you but don't make people feel the are somehow not as serious because they crave and want personal interaction with people with common interests.
Sorry diatribe but I just don't understand this
Exactly! I think people under estimate personal connection. We are humans after all and sometimes we forget how to engage now a days. I get the putting your head down and train part but a nice hello or smile certainly goes a long way and you never know, it may cheer up someone having a really bad day. I'm with you on this one 😁BriansTrident wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »I don't see a problem with having a gym crush or an anything crush. It's good to admire downtown else and it's natural. Telling them would be weird and awkward and probably make the crush avoid you at all costs.
But heck if seeing your crush there makes you more enthusiastic to go to the gym then more power to you.
And quite honestly I don't understand this attitude of I go to the gym and don't see or associate with anyone else. Why can't you make friends at a place where you and others have common interests. So many people feel and are isolated these days due to attitudes like this. I could say that about going skating, many i see go and skate and don't talk to anyone. Well I call tell you the one lady who admitted to being depressed over the holidays said we brightened her day by talking and skating with her last week. If you're the type who wants to put your head down and make no personal connections you do you but don't make people feel the are somehow not as serious because they crave and want personal interaction with people with common interests.
Sorry diatribe but I just don't understand this
The crush part is weird to me. In my brain the gym is just one of those places that anything romantic, sexual, crush like should always be turned off.
No offense but to me that sounds like "denial." In the gym you have ppl who are sometimes half naked, doing all kinds of physical activities and many have very attractive bodies. But maybe this doesn't affect you. IDK. I work out at home. I see nobody.
I'm sure you would have plenty of people crushing on you if you were at a public gym. 😁
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The only thing I’m crushing at the gym are my goals! 😂
All kidding aside I hit the gym at my office so it’s usually me in there just doing my thing with my music blasting lol.0 -
i either gym super early or super late, which means im always alone in the gym... no complaints there, but def also no crushes... guess MFP will do for that...
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I'm my own damn gym crush, I be infront of that mirror watching that form and looking for progress 🤣😘5
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I crush on the 2.5 pound plates. They will humble you, they will majestically improve your progressive overload, and they are barely even used. A mans true crush2
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I crush myself under all deez plates! Just kidding, I haven't done that in years. What is this thread about? ok, bye.3
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Only thing I’m crushing are these workouts! : )3
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