My Sofia

Gypsy_MerMom
Gypsy_MerMom Posts: 88 Member
edited October 3 in Chit-Chat
(For my future not born yet daughter for those who don't get it) Everything I do is for my Sofia I'm 21 and I don't have my daughter yet nor do I even have a boyfriend/husband but I love my daughter so much already she's my world it might be awhile till I get to have her or even see her but I love her so much and everything I do I'm doing for her me getting healthy is for myself yes but mostly for her so I can have her soon I'm working hard on my education and trying to finish soon so I can start working and have her and be able to give her the world. I love you my Sofia. Nothing would make me happier then starting a family and having my Sofia but I also know I must wait for a guy that wants her just as much as I do and I will because she deserves a father that loves her and thinks the world of her and will be his princess. I have so much love her that it overwhelms and I can't help but cry a little because she makes me so happy and I can't wait till the day she's with me and I can watch her grow up. I love you mi corazon (sorry people I just listing to Michael Bublé - Daddy's Little Girl and this song always make me think of the love I have for her <3 ) thanks for letting me rant :)
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  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I don't get it.
  • I don't get it.
    ditto
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Future child, I gather?

    We named our little girl long before she showed up on the scene.
  • I don't get it.
    ditto


    Jeez. You two are so dense!! This is the sweest f*cking thing I've read all day! My heart is warmed. :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • Hmm, what if you end up having a boy?!
    I totally understand what you're saying thouhg, I was the same way. So much love for someone you havnt met yet
    <3
  • SimplyFreckled
    SimplyFreckled Posts: 444 Member
    What if you have a son?
  • I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
  • anewattitude
    anewattitude Posts: 483 Member
    Wait.. do you have a daughter and she doesn't live with you yet? Or is this about a daughter you hope to have one day? This is the most confusing post....

    Good luck then...:flowerforyou:
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    What if your future husband has a crazy ex named Sofia and isn't keen on you naming your child that?

    :flowerforyou:
  • SimplyFreckled
    SimplyFreckled Posts: 444 Member
    I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
    Jerks


    WOW..... ummmmm... That was positive.. wasn't it
  • TooFatToFit
    TooFatToFit Posts: 285 Member
    Hmm, what if you end up having a boy?!
    I totally understand what you're saying thouhg, I was the same way. So much love for someone you havnt met yet
    <3
    Or what if the father you pick doesn't like the name Sofia? (Though it is a pretty name.)

    I understand what you're saying as well, and I'm glad you're waiting for the right guy because I think sometimes people want it so badly they do it with the wrong people.

    It's okay to daydream, but it could end up a lot different and you don't want to set yourself up for big disappointment. My daydreamed little baby girl turned out to be my sweet and sensitive little boy. My perfect birth turned out to be less than perfect.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
    Jerks

    Maybe to find out what the OP was referring to. Why are you so angry?
  • anewattitude
    anewattitude Posts: 483 Member
    I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
    Jerks


    There was nothing negative about this comment. She just didn't get what the poster was trying to say. Neither did I actually.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
    Jerks
    But what if she truly didn't get it. What if she needed more information. I didn't get it either until I read some of the other comments.

    You do see the hypocrisy in your post, right?
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    What if you have a son?
    umm, yea, cuz technically you don't have a say in the gender. Nor does he, even though it's his little swimmers that determine gender.
  • Gypsy_MerMom
    Gypsy_MerMom Posts: 88 Member
    if I have a boy I will love him just the same I want 3 kids but 2 girls one boy and I love them all the same I just say Sofia because I have dreams that it's always a girl I actually wanted a boy at first but these dreams kept being of a girl no matter what though I love my kids so much and I can't wait to have them they are my life the reason I live and do everything
  • Aj1214
    Aj1214 Posts: 120
    Thinking positive does not include assuming "I don't get it" was negative. Way to be.
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Sofia is a very cool name, by the way.
  • anubis609
    anubis609 Posts: 3,966 Member
    I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
    Jerks

    Maybe to find out what the OP was referring to. Why are you so angry?

    Maybe she's Sofia.
  • SimplyFreckled
    SimplyFreckled Posts: 444 Member
    if I have a boy I will love him just the same I want 3 kids but 2 girls one boy and I love them all the same I just say Sofia because I have dreams that it's always a girl I actually wanted a boy at first but these dreams kept being of a girl no matter what though I love my kids so much and I can't wait to have them they are my life the reason I live and do everything


    when I was pregnant I had dreams that I was giving birth to cats.......
  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
    My perfect little dream smashed his head into my face today and busted my lip open. Ahh, but I do love him to bits.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    ...
    but I also know I must wait for a guy that wants her just as much as I do and I will because she deserves a father that loves her and thinks the world of her and will be his princess. I have so much love her that it overwhelms
    ...
    Sounds like you have a lot of love to give. I hope you find someone who loves children as much as you do and you can be happy together parenting. In the meantime, you don't have to keep all that love bottled up waiting. Do you volunteer? You could "practice" some of that nurturing by working at a children's shelter, for example.
  • Hirundo
    Hirundo Posts: 148 Member
    I don't get it.

    Realy? Why bother posting on post if you have nothing POSITIVE to say?!
    Jerks

    And that " jerks" is positive i suppose ?!?

    I don't see how " I don't get it " is negative....

    Took me a while to get it too .. but now i do i think its a very good way to see things and give a meaning to your life !
    Sophia is a very nice name ...
  • solpwr
    solpwr Posts: 1,039 Member
    I'm curious about Sofia's biological father...
  • bdurls
    bdurls Posts: 128 Member
    My perfect little dream smashed his head into my face today and busted my lip open. Ahh, but I do love him to bits.

    Haha sorry I had to laugh at this! I just see my perfect little dream doing it to me one day too! He's not the most graceful little boy!
  • red01angel
    red01angel Posts: 806 Member
    I understand what you're saying as well, and I'm glad you're waiting for the right guy because I think sometimes people want it so badly they do it with the wrong people.

    It's okay to daydream, but it could end up a lot different and you don't want to set yourself up for big disappointment. My daydreamed little baby girl turned out to be my sweet and sensitive little boy. My perfect birth turned out to be less than perfect.

    This.

    Having children and a marriage/long-term-relationship with a man are all too easy for young women to overly-romanticize. Not to say that your dreams aren't worth having or that they won't come true, just don't set yourself up for disappointment by over doing it. :smile:
  • engineman312
    engineman312 Posts: 3,450 Member
    i know what i'm going to name my son!!


    rage-comics-worth-it.jpg
  • Gypsy_MerMom
    Gypsy_MerMom Posts: 88 Member
    I'm curious about Sofia's biological father...

    I haven't had her yet nor a father for her it's just I wanted to write about the love I have for her
  • rocketpants
    rocketpants Posts: 419 Member
    Why all the fuss about a couch? (oh my bad I thought we were talking about my sofa)
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    Thinking positive does not include assuming "I don't get it" was negative. Way to be.
    I was wrongly accused today as well. *teardrop tattoos*
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