Loose Skin: 50lbs loss at 60+, 4+ years maintenance

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  • BrightEyedAgain
    BrightEyedAgain Posts: 259 Member
    Thank you for that upper arm post! Lately I've been wondering whether to maintain at my current weight or try and drop a few more vanity pounds, and my upper arms were one of the spots that were bothering me. But when I flexed like you said, I realized it's pretty much all muscle there. So that alleviates that concern for me and helps me realize I'm probably fine at my current weight. Thank you!
  • chublet25
    chublet25 Posts: 833 Member
    Thank you so much for sharing these! I am 65 and have just lost 75 pounds and have 24 to go, and loose skin is starting to be a worry, especially as I have lost the weight in 6 months, which I guess is pretty fast, too fast some people would say if they can't help themselves. I was very interested in your results, and glad to realize that you look FINE! Absolutely fine! I will be happy if I end up looking like you! Thanks again!
  • sargemarcori
    sargemarcori Posts: 301 Member
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  • BartBVanBockstaele
    BartBVanBockstaele Posts: 623 Member
    edited November 2022
    AnnPT77 wrote: »
    On my MFP friend feed, someone asked about my experience with loose skin, as someone who lost weight at 60+. Not the first time the question has come up. I decided to post a thread, being as honest as I can manage. Photos will be in spoilers, even though not indecent in technical terms (I'm wearing a tank top & short shorts that I wouldn't usually wear in public, but wouldn't be arrested for) . . . but I don't want to hear from anyone who doesn't want to see a li'l ol' lady body. You were warned: It's on you. I'm sharing this for others' information, not because I think it's fabulous looking. Also, different people will have different results, better or worse. This is n=1 me.

    Background: I lost something over 50 pounds at age 59-60, 183lbs to 120s, in a bit less than a year. That was about 5 years ago. Over the intervening time, I drifted up 10-15 pounds, though still at a BMI in lower 20s, and have recently re-lost around 10 or so pounds, at 126.6 this morning, at 5'5", BMI 21.1, age 64. The photos below are from that weight, today.

    I felt like the loose skin I had immediately after loss wasn't mostly disastrous, and certainly way better in every way than staying obese. The loose skin I had shrunk quite a bit during the first two years of maintenance, and maybe beyond. Now, I have a small amount of new loose skin from the re-lost 10 or so pounds.

    On to photos. This one is what my midsection looks like, standing up straight, not sucking in, just standing relaxed.
    You can see that sort of downturn/squint at the sides of my navel that shows there's been weight loss. The finer wrinkles just above the navel are, I believe, from the recent re-loss, and I suspect they'll disappear after some time.
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    I can make the midsection look worse by slumping forward (leaning to bring ribcage closer to pelvis). That's the next photo.
    The finer wrinkles are what I'd consider to be true loose skin. They'll maybe disappear with time. The little roll above the waistband still has some subcutaneous fat in it, and won't leave unless I lose more fat.
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    Next up, legs. They're sturdy, not shapely, just how I'm built.
    You may note that one leg has more remaining inner thigh fat than the other, and is saggier. Weird, but true.
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    Next, let's look at an area that many women worry about, the upper arms. This will try for an illustration of that thing I rant on about, with respect to "bat wings" or whatever ugly thing women may call it.
    This is the first of two photos. My arm is relaxed and horizontal, and I'm pinching the area that most women would call "arm fat" "loose skin" "bat wings" or whatever, but I'm not pulling on it, just pinching. Big flap there. (Yes, my underarm looks weird. A surgeon took out some lymph nodes, so there's a divot.)
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    Next photo, I'm flexing that same arm, pinching what skin/fat I can, and *pulling down hard* to highlight as much loose tissue as possible.
    I hope you'll agree with me that there's much less flap here than in the previous photo even though I'm trying to maximize the flappy part in this one, i.e., a decent share of the flappy part above turned out to be relaxed tricep muscles, muscles that are now engaged/tight in this photo. (I wish I could do a video of myself, because the difference in actual floppiness is pretty major.)
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    From the weight loss, the thing that looks the most worst to me is my face. Now, I never was Cutie McCuterson, and never will be. I'd also say that my face looks better than it did right after weight loss, but there is still noticeable droop there, that wasn't there when I was obese. I look better if I smile, but I'm intentionally not smiling, so you can see the maximum droop.

    This would be the front view.
    Besides the droop/wrinkly bit below my mouth on either side, my neck looks stringier than when I was fat. I suspect this has something to do with my own weird muscle/tendon structure that was underneath the fat the whole time, just covered up. I don't think it came from weight loss, but weight loss revealed it more.
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    Now, the side view.
    You can see the droop/wrinkles below my lips quite clearly. There's mostly the stringy zone under my chin, but not IMO a lot of just hanging skin. I did have a good bit of fat there previously, when I was obese.
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    There ya go: Honest pics of loose skin, one woman's experience, after a few years of mostly maintenance, following 50+ pounds loss at about age 60.
    Great pictures. Since I lost about 60 kg myself, with a few more to go and am 61 yo, it'll not be a surprise that things look similar for me, only more pronounced. It doesn't bother me. I see it as simply the way I look after living the life that I have had so far.
  • greedyg
    greedyg Posts: 2 Member
    edited November 2022
    Wow, I think you look great!! I understand where you’re coming from but from an outsider perspective, I am impressed. I’m 50 and when I first lost roughly 35# a few years ago (I gained a bit, back on my weight loss journey) and my stomach never looked that nice, even when I was 115 and actually needed to gain a few pounds.
    Btw, your lips are so pretty! And edited to add, your arms look fabulous. You see batwings but I see some serious guns, lady!
  • eyesee7
    eyesee7 Posts: 1 Member
    You look great Cutie. You are such a positive encouragement.
  • A long time ago there was a game/thread about "what is your favorite part of the body" I was probably 265 at the time, and I put: skeleton! Because seriously, if you can't appreciate your skeleton you would be a skin bag of goo. Might still be my fav part of the body.. It is a tough call btw brain, heart, and skeleton though hmmm...
  • nanannow
    nanannow Posts: 1 Member
    Thank you so much for your honesty. You look wonderful. I worry about this loose skin on my belly. Thank you!
  • robmcc1479
    robmcc1479 Posts: 1 Member
    Thanks so much for this detailed report. I'm 82 and have lost 37 pounds in the last year and have some noticeable changes especially in my waist area but I'm not done losing yet and it hasn't been that long so I hope I will see some improvement as I go on.
  • JacquiScarff993
    JacquiScarff993 Posts: 1 Member
    Thank you for this post, it's really reassuring that the loose skin diminishes somewhat over time. I've been stressing about that.
  • JaysFan82
    JaysFan82 Posts: 853 Member
    I REALLY hate this loose skin around my stomach that's developed. I'm hoping it'll get better with time.
  • annliz23
    annliz23 Posts: 3,741 Member
    Thanks for posting it's been very inspiring, I am working on my arms I really hate them at least I know now I can change them with constant work.
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,175 Member
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    annliz23 wrote: »
    Thanks for posting it's been very inspiring, I am working on my arms I really hate them at least I know now I can change them with constant work.

    @annliz23, please just don't hate the relaxed muscle part! Try that thing I describe in detail above, with holding onto the area then flexing. Even some very fit, slim male folks have some wobble there when arms are relaxed and held out straight.
  • spottedpony62
    spottedpony62 Posts: 6 Member
    edited August 9
    Thank you so much for sharing this information. I'm 62 and on a journey to lose 60 - 100 pounds. I was worried about this issue though whatever it is I would rather be thinner and healthier with loose skin than obese like I am now. My neck already looks worse than yours! LOL.. But Honestly, I'll get a face lift if necessary! I will have earned it :) You look great!! So happy for you.
  • pashin8nz2000
    pashin8nz2000 Posts: 23 Member
    I'm losing 2lbs a week I hope losing it slowly will help. I have batwings already.
  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,175 Member
    I'm losing 2lbs a week I hope losing it slowly will help. I have batwings already.

    Unless you're way over 200 pounds, 2 pounds a week isn't slow.

    And if you're not at goal weight yet, or better yet months down the road of maintaining a healthy goal weight, whatever has happened "already" isn't really a great indication of where you'll end up. In terms of loose skin, it's common to look worse part way to goal weight than at goal weight, and worse at goal weight than after quite a few months of maintaining that weight.

    And, as previously mentioned (with photo examples), probably part of the "batwings" are relaxed muscle, along with some partially-depleted fat stores (that will reduce with continued loss) and loose skin (that has a chance of shrinking over a longer span of time than the fat loss takes.

    This can improve. Really! Until you've lost all the weight and been in maintenance for some time, there's hope of improvement . . . and probably some hope even after that.
  • mkksemail
    mkksemail Posts: 1,726 Member
    AnnPT77 wrote: »
    I'm losing 2lbs a week I hope losing it slowly will help. I have batwings already.

    Unless you're way over 200 pounds, 2 pounds a week isn't slow.

    And if you're not at goal weight yet, or better yet months down the road of maintaining a healthy goal weight, whatever has happened "already" isn't really a great indication of where you'll end up. In terms of loose skin, it's common to look worse part way to goal weight than at goal weight, and worse at goal weight than after quite a few months of maintaining that weight.

    And, as previously mentioned (with photo examples), probably part of the "batwings" are relaxed muscle, along with some partially-depleted fat stores (that will reduce with continued loss) and loose skin (that has a chance of shrinking over a longer span of time than the fat loss takes.

    This can improve. Really! Until you've lost all the weight and been in maintenance for some time, there's hope of improvement . . . and probably some hope even after that.

    I love your plain speaking, and your inspirational words. I've sent you a friend request, and attempted to honor your request for a note, but, as we are not yet friends, I don't know if the message will reach you, @AnnPT77 :). Here's the message I sent, tho:
    Hello !

    I saw the note on your profile, so I'm sending you a note. Although, I guess I'm not sure adding friends is meaningful in any way now, now that MFP has trashed the Newsfeed :-(. But, anyway! :)

    I'm inspired by your comments, and story, and photos, as told in your thread titled, "Loose Skin: 50lbs loss at 60+, 4+ years maintenance".

    Cheers,
    ~ mk :)
  • Schwellness
    Schwellness Posts: 2 Member
    Isn't the body wonderful! Great work & maintenance. Very inspiring.
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