WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2025
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Hugs for everyone who is feeling stressed and under pressure. 💕
We had a lovely time walking home with Bea in the sunshine, with a long stop sitting on the bench while she played with her friends in the new playground. She had to wait a long time for a kind of swing/roundabout, and when she asked to have a go, a girl told her her mum was a boxer and would box her up! 🤣 Fortunately, she thought this was ridiculous!
My DDIL looked absolutely worn out when she came back with Edie. Her good friend/long-term patient died of cancer last week, and she's had another funeral, and my son's friend's memorial, all in the last fortnight. Plus my son was away last week in Finland on business, so she has had to cope alone with the three kids. She couldn't find her phone and had to take Bea swimming that evening to a new venue. The phone was down the side of the seat of the car. I have never seen her so exhausted.
My son showed us his amazing Lapland photos and videos. Sledging through the snow behind the dogs, hot tub, smoke sauna, open fires, and the most amazing huge lodge! He got back just in time for the memorial, which was in a big glass fronted restaurant on the seafront, in glorious sunshine. Hundreds of people came. He caught up with all his old university friends. So DDIL is taking the strain.
The kids seem fine and were looking forward to my son making them pancakes when he got back from taking us home. He was going to have to shop for gf flour.
I gave into temptation in the Waitrose café while I was waiting to walk down to the school. I decided on a coffee, but was waylaid by a cheese scone - one of my very favourite things. Fortunately, it was delicious. 😁 I had no carbs for dinner to compensate.
What a difference the weather makes to my mood. We have had fantastic weather for days now. Spring flowers abounding. In the park, there were big patches of crocuses , and daffodils springing up in the grass. I tried to take a photo, but it was too shady. I know it will all change, but it's been glorious.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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OMG - Alfie is ADORABLE!
Sorry, Ladies - The storm knocked out the power, so I woke up to flashing alarm clocks and no internet service. I didn't get to work until lunch time… ; / Now, because there was still 8+ hours of work to be done, I am running very late for bed.
AND, I am setting a back up alarm on my phone, from now on.
On my way home, I stopped at HEB and spent a fridiculous amount of money on protein, sugar free and other pantry essentials for the low carb life. HOPEFULLY the faux carb baked goods will be sufficient to stave off carb cravings.
Goodnight, All!
Re in TX
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Happy Birthday!!
You're the third one we've wished Happy Birthday to this month so far.
I know of 2 more coming up. 😁
Have you registered with temporary employment agencies? They were a great way for me to get jobs on a number of occasions. They aren't just for a few days in a typing pool anymore. One of the businesses I worked for did most of their hiring through an employment agency rather than having a big HR department. On 2 occasions I was hired to cover mat leave which gave me several months of work and some great new experience.
Machka in Oz
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March so far …
Today's walk …
Yesterday's walk …
Monday's walk …
Sunday's ride …
Saturday's walk …
Machka in Oz
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Rosemarie- My kids don't always respond to my texts-I think they read it as "mom just needs to tell us and doesn't need advice." I try to specify items to which I want/need response and that works well. Texting is a whole different communication style.
Rebecca-Tucker is a beauty!
Tina-husband's leg had me cringing-hope recovery improves and you stay healthy. I agree with you about toilet paper placement-and would add seats!
It looks like we may mainly get winds here today and some rain-depends on when you check the forecast. Taking brother and SIL of psych appointment for monthly med evaluation. SIL texted that his walking has deteriorated more this month. Going to discuss if she needs ramp into house. Not sure how a wheelchair would workin their trailer. Challenging times coming up for her. Will try to help her figure out medical transportation options. We are stopping at what bills itself as an English pub-the owners are from England and supposed to have authentic food. Surprised the menu has fish and chips but no peas with them. May try the shepherds pie.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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My birthday present from my husband … and my birthday isn't until the weekend.
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Confused....new layout need to play…walking at moment!
Hugs and good thoughts!
Kylia in Ohio
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They've been advertising it for a month or so now. It's just got Rich Text (again, I think).
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Kylia - yes, this new format is a challenge. I'm looking for the "preview" which seems to have disappeared. These tech kids can't leave well enough alone!
Ginny - sending (((HUGS))). I'm sure your presence in helping your SIL deal with your DB's failing memory and health is very, very much appreciated. The English pub sounds nice!
Tina - So sorry to hear about your DH's broken leg. Sending (((HUGS!)))
Rosemarie - the only thing that saves my bacon financially is having a pretty strict budget where I track everything on an excel spreadsheet. I'm lucky that I once worked for an accountant and also had a county job where I had to prepare a yearly budget and anticipate monthly expenses and revenue. I understand your frustration with your DS not wanting to spend time helping you plan. Finding a trusted friend or relative to give solid advice can be hard.
I include my friend T and her husband on all decisions I make here and ask their opinion because, as my executor, T will be the one left to clean things up. I had a pretty frank discussion about this with them last Sunday.
RE - Your low-carb shopping trip sounded super. Also, great job with the cleanouts. I have a friend near Austin who also experienced an extended power loss. His wife is now pushing him to get a Generac.
Barbie - your thriftiness and Jake's ideas about spending sounds like how it was at my house. My DH always made me nervous because he felt money was made to be spent. And I was the saver thanks to Depression era parents as well. The inside of this house needs a lot of upgrades and cosmetic repairs but I 1.) am hesitant to spend the money when I know the future buyer will probably rip out any new cupboards or flooring and install what THEY like and 2.) don't want to subject Rosie (and myself) to it.
However, the other day I did run into the contractor (another Roger) who did some work for me a couple years ago and have a few small tasks for him to do this year. I was wondering if he was still in business and was thrilled to pull in next to him in the Safeway parking lot. I've known his wife for years and it was fun to catch up on her too. She had to medically retire and has a lot of health problems now.
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I am meeting a friend for an early lunch but want to drop off some clothing, small appliances and pantry items at the little thrift store first. Once I got things that had accumulated on the guest room bed loaded in the car yesterday, I started looking around the house and garage and just kept grabbing, lol. I'm curious to get a feel for that little store and see what all they can use.
Better post this before it goes away. Blasted upgrades!
Lanette
SW WA State
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Tina, sending tight hugs. Take care of yourself as well. Do you have someone to help you with the care of DH? Who will be with your DH during your "Me time"? When I cared for my mom at home, respite was needed. So, during your "ME Time", get pampered with a massage or a mani-pedi, sleep in, soak in a tub, and do whatever you want to do. Thanks for checking in. I missed you and wondered if you were okay. Take care of yourself.
XO,
Mo in Mississippi
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I knew they were changing, missing my smiley faces. I don't understand "Rich text" with less features, but will figure out with the help of certain ladies, especially you!😉
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Morning ladies - here with Delia.. Kyle is on muscle relaxers so cant work.So he is home but up in bed..
Hopefully rain holds off until i get back.
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😍I've been posting on MFP since 2009 and there have been a lot of changes. As long as we can still post on this thread, I can adjust. I like the huge assortment of faces and stuff but I can't figure out what most of them are and I don't want to squander time looking for the best graphic and not have the time to say what I have to say.
🙃Tina, caring for an ailing spouse was one of the most challenging experiences of my life. Take it one day at a time. Know that we are all with you cheering you on.
😍Lanette, there is nothing in the house that really needs any fixing. New flooring would be nice but with the old carpeting, I'm never worried about what the dogs might do to it. When Jake was in the hospital in August, the chimney sweep came and I spent almost two hours sitting in the dining room with Annie on a leash. I can't imagine what it would be like to have any serious work done. Maybe in a few years when she is more mature LOL.
😍Rosemarie, this thread is a great sounding board if your son doesn't want to hear what you have to say. Somebody told me that the best person to talk to is someone who will understand but not be affected. Your son is affected by what you do and say and your friends on this thread aren't.
❣️Barbie in NW WA
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I wish it airomatically saved😒
Hugs!
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well, someone else uploaded their miles onto Strava so now I’m in second place again. Now I’m 114.60 miles behind this guy. It’s racing like crazy right now. We will probably take a shorter walk, then I’ll get on the bike. It never ends :0/
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Picture from Kitchen window…Yesterday no snow on the grounds to wake up to this..Knew it was coming so I bought myself some pink yesterday. I look at these on my kitchen table. I had nice dinner with DS last night. He wanted pork chops(I bought from local butcher, red potatoes, sweet potato, and green beans…desert was a fruit spread and excellent Gouda cheese. He helped me clean up my desk top too! A work in progress. Photos are bigger than I expected. I have gone back to posting right to Facebook and then sharing. I am trying not to download because takes up too much space on this laptop.
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So sorry Tina to hear about your husband's leg breaks. What terrible luck! It's amazing he managed to fly home! It certainly will test your patience as he recovers. ❣️ Life always has a curveball to throw at us.
Zoom today with my schoolfriends. John has instructions to put the duck legs in the oven while I am otherwise engaged.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Morning, ladies…
Ha! Sorry, not yelling - just showing some of what the rich text format is capable of. If you think of it more like Word, it's a lot closer to that now than the old BB format. It also starts out with the double space between a paragraph now, which I really do appreciate.
Lanette - It doesn't have a preview button because the text you see in the box is now much closer to what the end result will be. Much more so than it was, anyway.
The only thing I asked for is an "Undo" button, 'cause I need one! So I went and asked them to add one. I doubt I'll be the only one asking.
Tina - So good to see you, and SO sorry about the mister's accident. Sounds like a long recovery time - glad he's getting himself the PT he needs. Trying to wade between health systems is hard enough, doing it between different countries sounds like a nightmare!
Heather - So much sympathy for your DDIL - It's been a long winter for both of them, no wonder they're tired! Even the good stresses, like traveling to these places, is still stress, and rough losses for both. I know they're so glad you moved closer and can assist. So pleased to see your progress on the book - making the cover art always made me feel like it was finally real. Which reminds me, I need to get it on my to-do list to reset my last book and put out a second edition. For some reason, I ended up putting it up for sale at a different size than the first two. Need to get that re-done and get a proof in my hands again. Saving all my scripts that I'm doing now for another collection down the road.
Margaret - Love your pinks!
We're not in snow - but it's 40 degrees out there (4C), and the wind cuts like a rusty saw blade…
Thought I'd traipse around outside to get y'all a couple of springtime pictures from the Arkansas River Valley… my hydrangeas and daffodils are up, which makes me happy…
Unfortunately, as cold as it is outside, my hands are still trying to thaw out from my little trip around the yard. Supposedly, it's going to be 80 degrees on Friday (27C). Talk about weather whiplash! Today, I will be staying inside where it's warm, along with Egg.
Luckily, not a lot going today - just need to get a thumbnail created for the video, and get a couple of short clips cut out of it to get posted separately. The short ones get 20 times more views than the ten-minute ones… Has something to do with how the YouTube algorithm puts them in front of people, I think.
Not sure how the format of this post is going to turn out - will have to go look at this post on my phone.
That's it from Arkansas, kidlins…
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
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Barbie -
I was going to post a reply and "quote" your post above, but looks like the ability to cut & paste & shorten it up is gone. I'll keep looking though. I thought spoiler was gone but found it in the "paragraph" symbol a couple layers in. I agree about too many faces and symbols to choose from, really miss the small selection. Decision fatigue!
I think I understand why the changes - they will probably make it easier for folks on certain phones and tablets. It's giving my brain an opportunity to learn and stretch, but I'm in the old "if it works, don't fix it" school, lol.
I could relate to you needing to keep Annie on a leash and sit with her when the chimney sweep was there. In the past, DH would hold Rosie when workers were in the house to keep her quiet and calm. Last summer when the HVAC serviceman came, I wasn't watching her and she decided the excitement was too much and decided to do her business in one of the bedrooms - I had forgotten to close the doors, sadly.
Grocery bills for a family…. I tried putting this whole section into a spoiler but it doesn't look like it's working. DRAT. It used to be so easy to highlight. Oh, well. Sorry!
I like to watch the cooking shows that come up on FB and YouTube. A gal popped in up my YT feed yesterday, she calls herself a lower middle income mom of 5 kids (family of 7). Her cooking style makes me laugh - she dumps and pours and her food looks pretty good. She fills cafeteria-style plates with the main dish, some fruit and usually a vegetable and then calls her gang to dinner. She makes cooking fun. Here's a sample put into a spoiler to save space. I see they call it "spoiler warning". Since there's no preview I don't know how this will look.
Spoiler Warning
But, what shocks me I guess was she has several videos of going grocery shopping. She spends a lot on good quality meats and I don't fault her for that, and normally picks up inexpensive toys and some treats for the kids. But her grocery bill usually runs from $400 to $500 per trip, and it appears she only gets enough food for a couple day's worth of dinners.
I'm not judging her - if she makes it work, that's fine and that's her business.
But it did make me take a hard look at my own grocery budget. I try to come in at under $500 per month and that includes a few meals out. I do load up on some meats and items on sale when I find them. I normally have a couple eggs and slice of toast for breakfast and some type of bean soup or bean salad for lunch. And nuts including almonds and walnuts, which are getting expensive. My big meal would be dinner.
During the pandemic, some of my favorites disappeared for months so now when I see them I get a bunch - canned red salmon, for example. And it's spendy.
Anyhow, just an observation. I guess food would be my extravagance and I don't think what I buy is all that extravagant! But I can see how some seniors and folks with families on a limited budget have a tough time even with doing more home cooking and making a pound of hamburger stretch if needed.
Lanette
SW WA State
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👾I want to see what I can do with this new format.
I like the paragraph thing.
I have too many life things happening now. I’d rather play to lighten up my day. I know it won’t go away, but at least I will feel a little better.
Need to work with this some more. I will suggest a search area for the icons/smileys. Too many to search through and I can’t find my 👽!!
[b] Thought for today[/b]
What was said about the messy, angry man who was eating a can of Pringles?
‘He’s got a chip on his shoulder!’
RVRita in Roswell. Must figure out the picture sizing next!
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Hello Ladies!
Yay! I found the bold button. Took me a while.
Mo … I'm doing fine. Thank you for asking. Tired of the dreary days and looking forward to more Spring-like weather.
The bathroom renovation continues. The demolition is mostly done and now we're waiting on things we've ordered. Still looking for a vanity cabinet that has a toe kick. I don't want to clean underneath the vanity. Disappointed with the quality of so many things we've looked at …😕
Migraines … I really don't get severe migraines anymore (thank goodness), but I've been having headaches and joint pain the last few days. My son, on the other hand, has been suffering with this latest storm front. Unable to see with severe ocular and head pain and had to take off work 2 days. He's back at it today though.
The snow is finally starting to melt which means that major yard cleanup due to the dog doing his business is needed. Yuck. Just yuck.
Beth near Buffalo where it's raining and windy.
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Just trying to figure out the picture sizing:
YAY! Figured out picture sizing. When you copy in a picture, the icons at the top let you pick the size you want. See the screen shots below:
Hope this helps!
RVRita in Roswell
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Heading under paragraph symbol is new bold. I tried the photo size. If I do nothing it comes out large like my first post. Always something new to keep the mind humming! The icons look like what you find on Facebook.
When typing you can highlight and bold feature comes on along with you can add an delete word by crossing it
outother featureisnospacebetweenwords
.Not sure when I would use that! I am just playing around to learn some of the new features.The paragraph icon is where spoiler is I haven't tried that one yet. The code block might be a way to quote someone. Put what you want to quote in code block. Then copy control C then past control V. I will try it now to see if it works.
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Vicki ~ Happiest of Birthdays!
Carol in GA
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Happy belated birthday, Vicki! Hope it was wonderful, sorry I missed it… 😍
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YAY! Figured out picture sizing. When you copy in a picture, the icons at the top let you pick the size you want.
I first had to highlight and make a copy of Rita's post. Then I pasted into my comment. Then I went to paragraph icon and found code block under " . I did have trouble copying her comment I am going to try again.That is also where you find spoiler. I will figure that out another day!
YAY! Figured out picture sizing. When you copy in a picture, the icons at the top let you pick the size you want. See the screen shots below: here I hit quote.
YAY! Figured out picture sizing. When you copy in a picture, the icons at the top let you pick the size you want. See the screen shots below:
Here I hit code block after highlighting it. To read entire quote I clicked on gray box and moved a black bar underneath it to read the whole quote.
So conclusion for me this new system will take some trial and error. So I think I know what to do if someone tries to quote someones post.
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Happy birthday to all the March birthdays, and an early one to you, Machka!
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I don't like the double space for a paragraph. I prefer to choose the emphasis.
P's husband is asking to invite himself on the next group jaunt to Madeira because B's husband said he might go. Glad I am out of it. I detest and despise that man.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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Did the Extreme Strength DVD then a pilates DVD. The plan fortomorrow is to do Tracy Long’s Back Up DVD
Went to Lady’sLunch. We’d gone to this place 2 years ago. Not bad. It’s just nice to be out with the people here.
Barbie – I really feel I was raised by my grandmother who raised her family during the depression. To this day I can still hear her saying “we paid for that” when I put a bit of water in a jar to get every last bit out.
Tina – I’m so sorry to hear about your hubby, but glad he’s getting help from others. Insurance sure can be a PITA….especially when it involves a foreign country. BTDT. Vince had to go to the hosp when we were in Switzerland. Regarding the TP issue: we compromised. I got what I wanted (it’s NOT going across the bathroom) and Vince is getting it recessed. But that was one thing I was absolutely not going to give up….no way. I hate it too much
Now doing two loads of laundry. I could have waited until tomorrow but the weather looks nice for tomorrow (meaning going out by the pool) and it’s raining out now so I’ll do it now.
Pip – Zach better watch out!
M – happy birthday
Now to post this to see how it comes out
Michele
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