Deducting the Hair Extensions weight gain! 💇

Doh! Wow, how insane is this? I was so close to my weight loss goal. I ate a big meal the night before so I chose not to weigh in the next morning, Saturday. Well, I had an appointment to get 18-22 inches long extensions without thinking to weigh it or myself first. Immediately afterwards I thought, uh-oh!!!! So, I'm stuck trying to figure out how much I weigh vs the extra hair. 😂 I calculate maybe 1.5 or 2lbs???

I plan to work on ignoring the hair and just acting as though this is the actual weight and still aiming for my 150lbs or less. This way whenever I do lose the hair extensions, I'll still be well under my target goal.

I also hate weighing in the next morning after a swim, and my extensions still haven't fully dried, Ugh… I'm honestly trying to avoid every ounce y'all.

Have you guys run into this problem?

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  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,890 Member

    LOL, no, but I get it.

    You could always call the salon, I'm sure this has been an issue for a lot of people! They would know the weight.

  • Lietchi
    Lietchi Posts: 7,315 Member
    edited August 9

    Try putting it on some kitchen scales?

    1.5 to 2lbs sounds incredibly heavy though, I'm getting a sore neck just thinking about that kind of weight hanging from my head 🙂

    I once weighed myself with dry and then wet hair, it barely made a difference on the scale, surprisingly (I have long hair, but quite thin).

  • DiscusTank5
    DiscusTank5 Posts: 942 Member

    No idea, but I hope you'll report back and tell us. :)

  • sollyn23l2
    sollyn23l2 Posts: 2,136 Member

    I get the worry, but dry hair weighs next to nothing. Just weigh yourself as normal.

  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 37,969 Community Helper

    To be honest, when something like that happens, I just consider it sort of a "reset my head" moment. I haven't gotten hair extensions, but a similar thing happens when getting a new bodyweight scale: It will give a different reading.

    Mostly, I don't care about my weight as much as I care about my weight trend over a few weeks, i.e., whether my weight is heading up, down, or hovering around the same weight. In all cases, there will be day to day ups and downs, so I figure results in weight management are about how the multi-week averages look.

    So, in the new scale scenario, I weigh in on the new scale, assume it's going to be a little different, put it in my weight trending app in the usual way, and don't worry about it. Then I keep going from there. In a small number of weeks, I'll start seeing whether my weight is behaving as I'm intending.

    It's like there's a small time period where I kind of don't know, but if I'm mostly on-plan with eating and activity, I know there are no big surprises coming when it comes to gaining, losing, or holding steady with body fat levels.

    If I got heavy hair extensions, I'd look at it that same way: A short period of uncertainty in the data from the scale, reasonable expectations based on experience and how I've been eating and moving during that uncertain time period, then clearer answers from the scale trend after those few weeks.

    I understand that wouldn't work for everyone, though.

  • elisa123gal
    elisa123gal Posts: 4,436 Member

    you're obsessing over a small detail. You're losing weight and have your hair done. Be happy!

  • Merkavar
    Merkavar Posts: 3,111 Member

    I am not familiar with hair extensions but I very much doubt they are 2lb

    They would weight next to nothing, to the point you should 100% ignore them.

    Thats like worrying about cut or uncut nail weight or clean shave vs a big bushy beard. its a little odd

  • sollyn23l2
    sollyn23l2 Posts: 2,136 Member

    It seems like a lot, but when you factor in that the amount of water weight you hold can vary up to 5 pounds day to day, a .5 pound blip is nothing, as long as it doesn't keep going up (which, hair extensions won't continue to get heavier each day).

  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 19,262 Member

    Given the way that a body can vary over the course of the day, it really isn't significant at all. Your weight will fluctuate by multiple pounds depending on hormones, digestion, intake, sodium, weather, medication etc etc. I "lost" a lb (400g) going for a half hour walk this morning and using the bathroom.

    Stressing over less than a pound is stress no one needs to spend energy on.

  • DiscusTank5
    DiscusTank5 Posts: 942 Member
    edited August 11

    I'm smiling as I write this: yes, .5 of a lb isn't significant given a person's weight fluctuations in any given day or the state of the nation we live in or anything else under the sun.

    BUT . . . if I've lost 50 lbs and I'm now two lbs away from my goal I darn well want to know if 1/4 of the weight comes from the extensions I just got, or if I still have two lbs of fat to work off.

  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 19,262 Member

    I get that, but I still think it's a spend of energy that's totally unneeded. You might be 2lbs from 'goal' right this minute, but in an hour you might be 1.5lbs from goal, or 2.5lbs from goal, or 1lb closer, or 1 lb further away.

    It might be hair extensions, or water retention, or 50g more carbs consumed today compared to yesterday, or the weather being a few degrees warmer or more humid… I just think that if you're going to start stressing about half a lb being added to your hair, you're going to stress yourself about a whole lot of other unnecessary things. Are you going to drop your goal by half a lb if you have a big haircut because the goal you set included the hair you no longer have?

  • DiscusTank5
    DiscusTank5 Posts: 942 Member

    I just might stress about all those things. LOL.

    I lost 70 pounds, 50 of them in the last year, by weighing my food in grams and logging every BLT and minute of exercise. If that isn't obsessive I don't know what is.

    I have gained weight in the past by having a laissez faire attitude about what I ate. But that's me. Maybe other people have found relaxed ways to "do" weight loss. That's great if so.

  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 15,426 Member

    When my daughter enlisted in the Navy, she lopped her hair off to prepare for basic training, going from hair past her waist to a pixie cut. She said it felt almost like she was walking on her toes, as high and light as her head felt in comparison.

  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 37,969 Community Helper

    I think there's a line - whose exact location almost certainly varies from one person to the next - between letting reasonably controllable things go (like how much we eat or how active we are) and spending energy stressing about things that are pretty much uncontrollable (which "weight gain" from hair extensions is an example of, IMO).

    "Too relaxed to achieve health goals" is an extreme; "too stressed about factors we can't control" is a different extreme. Both physical and mental health are important. I'd say either of those extremes isn't ideal for best mental health . . . and maybe even physical health, since chronic stress has physical consequences, as does chronic obesity.

    Just my opinion, as always.

  • ddsb1111
    ddsb1111 Posts: 1,084 Member
    edited August 11

    Yes, that’s correct. I’ve had extensions many times. They’re shockingly heavy (and expensive). I accounted for it and moved on, you’re totally fine! People are blowing your question out of proportion. And it’s a perfectly fair question.

    I see you. I get it.

  • ddsb1111
    ddsb1111 Posts: 1,084 Member

    For someone with zero knowledge or experience, why comment? Now, that’s odd.


    It’s nothing like nails or a beard. They’re very heavy, enough to be painful. There’s nothing wrong with adjusting for the weight.

  • springlering62
    springlering62 Posts: 10,232 Member

    gosh, I’m just sad at the lack of curiosity.

    Don’t you just ever wonder about random stuff?

    I’d be bored out of my mind without side trips like that.

    OP gets brownie points for imagination, and creative thinking in my book

  • ddsb1111
    ddsb1111 Posts: 1,084 Member
    edited August 11

    Haha! Yes! She can’t help it that she’s clever and has style!

  • yakkystuff
    yakkystuff Posts: 1,881 Member
    edited August 11

    Strikes me as similar in nature to emptying pockets, removing shoes, even earrings before stepping on the scale at docs... except extensions are afixed :D

    Generally not a fret, except... if # is close to goal, suppose would prefer to understand the added weight.

    Imho thinking, is maintenance/goal weight a hard target # or a range between lbs? Given natural variations.... at some point, one would want to catch too low or too high so weight could be managed back to target/range... (i have not personnally had the issue, yet ;)

  • SafariGalNYC
    SafariGalNYC Posts: 2,383 Member

    Use measuring tape instead of a scale .

  • DiscusTank5
    DiscusTank5 Posts: 942 Member

    Thanks Ann! Always the voice of reason on MFP.

    So this isn't about hair extensions and maybe it's hijacking the OP's post, but I have realized that my obsessiveness in weight loss (laser focus would be the positive spin) is something I need to watch. Does it make me more anxious? Sometimes, and that's not good (multiple weigh-ins in one day, for example). Has it helped me lose a lot of weight, though? Yes. (I have a 206 day streak on MFP and admire the people with 1000+ streaks. THAT'S dedication.)

    Will the maintenance phase go better if I can find a balance? Definitely. How to go about prying my (white knuckled) fingers off the steering wheel of the "weight loss" car so that instead of barreling down a mountainside at top speed I can enjoy a leisurely outing? I'm not sure how to make the transition.

    Time to haunt the Maintenance boards for inspiration and insight.

    One final word on hair extensions: I've never had them, probably never will, but tonight at the high school open house, my daughter's friend was showing us hers and they were heavy. And they took 10 hours to put in. Impressive!

  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 19,262 Member
    edited August 12

    A lot of what you have said has really resonated with me, because I have been (and sometimes still am) that obsessive, but I recognise now that it's causing me issues, which I'm exploring in therapy. I used to not drink water from 7pm the night before a WW weigh in, no matter what, because what that scale said was SO important to me, and that was only one of my little rituals.

    These days it's not that I lack curiosity about different effects on my weight - hell, I frequently weigh myself before and after my morning walk to see what difference there is - but I don't let it affect me or dictate my goals, and that's where I was concerned about OP because of her comments about trying to avoid every extra ounce and seeing this extra weight as a problem, not a curiosity - the takeaway is worrying about ounces and half pounds in the grand scheme isn't healthy and does your mental health zero good. It's the same with people who post on here in distress that they "gained" 2lbs over the course of a day and who don't understand that 440ml of water is a pound whether it's in your water bottle (which you put down to weigh) or your gut.

    I 1000% encourage curiosity and educating yourself about how various external factors affect your weight on a day to day basis. The emphasis on the fact that in the grand scheme it doesn't matter comes from concern, and my own journey of trying to detangle the effects of many, many years of 'dieting' and majoring in the minors, which have led to unhealthy and unhelpful thoughts.

    I guess I just want to emphasise - is it interesting? Yes! Is it important - No.

  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 37,969 Community Helper
    edited August 12

    Curiosity about something is distinct from stressing about something.

    I'm unnaturally curious, including about things that affect my scale weight. I weigh myself daily and record my weight, and did so for literal years before really trying for weight loss. I learned a lot from doing that, and the things I learned then helped me later, once I did commit to weight loss.

    I still weigh myself sometimes after workouts to evaluate my hydration strategies, have weighed myself at various points within one day occasionally to better understand my typical daily weight cycles, and things like that - just curiosity, sometimes with a point, sometimes not.

    That's different from being stressed or distressed about some factor that makes my short-term weight trend less obvious, or a weight shift of a few pounds overnight that has no obvious cause. What's on the scale is just one snapshot at a point in time of my body's relationship with gravity. It's not in any way a measure of my self-worth.

    Health-wise, it's the general nature of body weight that's important (i.e., is my weight at healthier or less healthy general status recently). Health improvement wise, it's the multi-week trend of my weight that's important: Am I gaining when I should maintain, losing when I plan to lose, and that sort of thing.

    Curiosity is healthy, or at least neutral. Avoidable stress or anxiety isn't healthy.

    As always, just my opinions.

  • Merkavar
    Merkavar Posts: 3,111 Member

    my comment was more about not stressing over small things like 500g hair extensions when there are many other things that cause weight fluctuations.

  • csplatt
    csplatt Posts: 1,420 Member

    I’d just change my new weight to my new weight and move on. Don’t let it mess with you.