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ek724q
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my daughter is 9 years old and weighs 134 pounds, she is 4'9 and her waist is 37 1/2 in, I have done everything and have no clue what else to do to stop her weight gain. She has started the year out in Feb at 113, now she has gained over 20 pounds. What do I do?
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Take her to a doctor. Ask for a referral for a nutritionist.0
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Take her to a doctor! He would know better0
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food choices? what is she eating??0
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my suggestion would be to swap healthier food options for dinners/lunch/breakfast/snacks... join a gym or excercise with her... have her join a sport etc... good luck to you0
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I would think if you take her for a checkup to make sure she doesn't have a thyroid or any other problem, you can feed her healthy food and make sure she has plenty of activity in her life. Sign her up for soccer, dance, karate or something else where she gets lots of exercise. The lbs will start coming off. It seems like kids these days are so much less active than they used to be.
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LOL, She has been going to the nutritionist since Feb. Seems to just be getting worse. They just tell us that she needs to eat better. Well I would not take her over an hour and 1/2 away to the doctor if I thought they would not help. But she has gain this 20 pounds actually going to the doctor too. So that is what I mean. I have tried everything. Doctor and all0
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Does she exercise? Exercise together, or do something fun that will burn calories (walks, playing sports, etc) with her. Also, she's nine, so I assume she's not preparing her own meals. Cook smaller portions with lots of lean proteins and veggies, and restrict treats to special occasions. No more desserts, sugary snacks, etc.0
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Don't worry for a start. But remember, as her mother, you can really help her. My son started to gain weight. I have just been making sure he is not eating too much and that I put the right choices in front of him I limit chocolate/sweets to a once a week treat and dessert is usually fruit or a yoghurt, and occasionally something more naughty for a treat. He is looking really healthy now. And make sure she gets exercise of some sort. If she doesn't do anything active for fun, perhaps you could make going for a walk a regular thing, or get her to do exercise dvds ( simple ones) with you for fun? I'm no expert, but this would be my advice.0
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The others are right though. If you think there might be a problem, go to a doctor. It can't hurt.0
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She loves riding bikes and playing out side, She does as much activity as she can. I never have to tell her quit watching tv. She is in activities as long as I can afford them. I am just stuck. I try to make her eat healthy. But she always seems to get what she wants at my mom's house. I am working on it. Just hard when my mom does not help out with the healthy eatting.0
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Really her body is dealing with alot at that age. That is the same age I was when I started gaining weight. I would talk to her doctor and remember alot of it is hormonal but it is nice to see you are concerned about it now and not later. I wish my parents would of don't the same. I have a daughter and she is 11yrs, as soon as she is 12 she will be joining the rest of the family in the gym but otherwise I only keep healthy food in the house and we do things together. We do have to remember they are still kids and still need to treat them as kids while teaching healthy habits. Best of luck.0
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If it were my child, I'd probably her to another Dr. if that's all the first one has done for you. Not all Dr's are brilliant or even decent. Other than that, you have to control/restrict what she eats and what activity she has, even if it makes you seem like a bad mom to her.0
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Hi does she have a scooter ? My daughter is 9 and we try taking her scooter out everywhere. Our best investment was a big trampoline 4 the garden - they spend hours jumping about. Ok their diets could be better but i believe that kids should have the sweets snacks as well as healthy everyday - i was restricted and repelled and eat far too many - which i am still battling now. I think if they get alot of exercise it should keep the weight down, hope you get some good advice xx0
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If you are feeding her a healthy diet with correct size portions she must be getting food from somewhere else if she is putting weight. How about taking up some family activities such as cycling, swimming etc. She needs to join Mum in her weight loss plan. Maybe a weekly girlie weigh in together followed by a non food treat for hitting weight loss targets. You could cheer each other on.0
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My daughters are 10 and 12 and I have been struggling with this for several years as well. My 12 year old was just told by her doctor that she needed to lose 25 pounds. She is about 5 foot and weighs 130 punds. I do my best to encourage exercise every chance I get and offer healthy foods. I also made it a point to not let them eat at school anymore which has really helped. I let them pick out healthy choices at the store for the week and they take healthy lunches to school. I think over time, these choices will help. Good luck with your daughter!0
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She loves riding bikes and playing out side, She does as much activity as she can. I never have to tell her quit watching tv. She is in activities as long as I can afford them. I am just stuck. I try to make her eat healthy. But she always seems to get what she wants at my mom's house. I am working on it. Just hard when my mom does not help out with the healthy eatting.
Time to tell mom to either get with the program or she's going to have to only visit with her at your house. Tough love0 -
I agree with the tough love approach with your mom. Make sure she understands it's for your daughter's health and not just because you feel like making rules. If she isn't on board with getting your daughter healthy, her time with her should be limited. It's one thing to spoil a child, but quite another to endanger their health and wellbeing.
I would recommend not forbidding certain things in your house, but scaling back and work with her on healthy portion sizes and moderation. It may be that she's binging on things outside the house if she feels deprived. Hell, I eat chocolate every day, but in small amounts and I eat healthy otherwise (and exercise).
I also agree with getting a second opinion from a doctor, there may be an underlying medical issue. I'd hate to think he's neglecting to look into things further if he just thinks she's lazy and overeating.0 -
She loves riding bikes and playing out side, She does as much activity as she can. I never have to tell her quit watching tv. She is in activities as long as I can afford them. I am just stuck. I try to make her eat healthy. But she always seems to get what she wants at my mom's house. I am working on it. Just hard when my mom does not help out with the healthy eatting.
Time to tell mom to either get with the program or she's going to have to only visit with her at your house. Tough love
What she says! Tough love momma!!!0 -
She loves riding bikes and playing out side, She does as much activity as she can. I never have to tell her quit watching tv. She is in activities as long as I can afford them. I am just stuck. I try to make her eat healthy. But she always seems to get what she wants at my mom's house. I am working on it. Just hard when my mom does not help out with the healthy eatting.0
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The situation with your Mom sounds alot like what I have with my Mom... The only difference for me is that my daughter hates chocolate and sweets and would much prefer going for the apple. My Mom lets her do whatever she wants and when she gets back to my house she thinks she can run the boat. I sat down with my Mom and told her that I was raising my daughter the same way she raised us and if she can't respect what I do with my daughter, then she would not be able to she her again. It's hard, I know, cause my daughter loves my Mom...but priorities is your daughters health. also, she is only 9, she might grow out of it as she gets older. Offer her healthy snacks and a well balanced diet from the food guide. Make sure she is not exchanging any food with kids from school (my school does not tolerate and junk food and food exchange), go out for a 30 minutes walk every night with her. I got a pilates for dummies DVD (very basic exercise) and I do that with my daughter every second night...I too have not a bank attached to my hips to register her to every sports activities there are in my town...you just have to find simple free stuff to do and make it fun.
Good luck0
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