Feeling SO stressed & upset right now!!

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  • corieueber
    corieueber Posts: 72 Member
    stop listening to everyone else, take some time out and listen to what you want and what's best for you and your daughter (work, family, school etc)

    delete the ex from your life completely
  • Metamorphasis555
    Metamorphasis555 Posts: 224
    Thank you very much for your input vinegar and corie.
  • Tangerine302
    Tangerine302 Posts: 1,509 Member
    Maybe it would help to put all of it on paper. The pros and cons of each situation. Sometimes it clears your head a little. :)
  • Metamorphasis555
    Metamorphasis555 Posts: 224
    Great idea. Thanks Tangerine. :)
  • jeffsgal105
    jeffsgal105 Posts: 195 Member
    I liked your book.

    *snort*
  • ahinescapron
    ahinescapron Posts: 351 Member
    Love yourself enough to not let this douche have any more of your energy. When making this decision, just pretend he does not exist. The fact is, if he loved you an hour away would be no big deal. I know it is stressful having to find a new place to live, but maybe this is just the new start you need to say goodbye to this guy for good and move on! You know (deep down) that this guy is just using you and jerking you around. What if your daughter were going through this? What would you tell her? Love yourself as much as you love her! You are worth it!
  • Metamorphasis555
    Metamorphasis555 Posts: 224
    Thanks again for your input, support and tough love everyone. As usual, you've all given me alot to think about. He called me earlier tonight & when I didn't pick up he left me this message (well shorter summary of his message since his message was fairly long but this was pretty much word for word exactly what he said). Notice that he's still not respecting that I clearly told him before do not contact me unless & until you're 100% single again & he obviously is NOT single or he would have of course told me that. PS) When I told him that, that was a few days before I sent him a text basically saying you had your chance with me & you blew it, you are & I are permanently done:

    "Hi. I wanted to have a conversation with you to see if you're really interested in going back out, if you want to move up here, want to tell you what my situation is & what's going on with me. So, I'd like to have this conversation with you as soon as possible since I know you do have to move & see what you're interested in. Hopefully you'll call me back & talk to me instead of getting all upset but it's a serious thing for me & I just want to see how you feel about things. Okay. Talk to you later. Hope everything is well. Miss you. Bye".
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