Please Pray for My Surgery!

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  • Drunkadelic
    Drunkadelic Posts: 948 Member
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    Really!? One year ago I underwent a double mastectomy with reconstructive surgery following a breast cancer diagnosis and chemo, etc. Surgery Is just not something that I would ever elect to have. It's potentially dangerous, and the recovery time sucks. As unhappy as I was with my small breasts, I wish I had them back healthy instead of these implants.

    My mom had the same thing done when she got breast cancer for the second time. It was super painful for her (mainly the stretching part) and she would say all the time: "I have no idea why anyone would do this just for bigger boobs."

    To the OP - If I was a prayer, I'd pray for you to learn how to be less shallow.
  • Just_Dot
    Just_Dot Posts: 2,289 Member
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    I don't pray.

    I *do*, however, think good thoughts for/about people undergoing trials.

    I will not be using any of my feel-good vibes for you and your boobies. While I understand that surgery does pose risks, these are risks that you are choosing to undertake so you can...b!tch about buying bigger shirts?

    My son's half-brother is undergoing heart surgery tomorrow...he's 20. I'll be sending out my positive thoughts out towards him.

    Sorry.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
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    your all just jealous of her abs:laugh:
  • calibri
    calibri Posts: 439 Member
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    "I want the prayers because my illness/procedure is more serious!" Please keep going. This is better than watching Maury.
    Your avatar is simultaneously hypnotic and creepy.
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,386 Member
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    your all just jealous of her abs:laugh:

    Lol! :wink:
  • akashastrega
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    I am a cancer survivor. I would hope that prayers would go to others like me, who are dealing with a serious and life threatening disease, not a boob job. I hope your surgery goes well for you and that you find the self-confidence to not ever feel the need to augment your looks again. I am sorry if this seems cruel, but you are not asking that your breast surgery to remove a life threatening tumor goes well, you are asking that the docs don't screw up on your medication or give you lopsided titties. If it is such a concern that you feel the need to ask for prayers, then perhaps you should cancel the procedure nand instead spend the funds on a therapist.

    I just read for profile info... I am happy you were able to beat it! I also wanted to wish you a Happy Early Birthday!! (I saw your b-day is tomorrow!) I hope you enjoy!!

    Thank you so much!! I celebrated my 5th cancer-free "birthday" in May. I had cervical cancer and was at risk of having everything removed. Luckily my doctors decided on a really aggressive chemo/radiation plan that worked. Thanks to them, I will be 41 tomorrow.

    To anyone undergoing breast surgery for health reasons, I say a prayer for you, your family, and your doctors.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
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    your all just jealous of her abs:laugh:

    :laugh: :love:
  • 3ur3ka
    3ur3ka Posts: 230
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    o_0



    I'm sad for you.
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
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    I'll pray for your husband, instead...

    This this this.
  • MIMITIME
    MIMITIME Posts: 405 Member
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    Wow - The comments sure got brutal. Military wives do get lonely and feel alone when their husband is deployed. Nothing wrong with asking someone to pray for you no matter the reason. They can either do it or not do it. As for me, I don't like to judge and I have lots of prayers to go around. Hope everything goes well and you have a quick recovery. Hope your husband makes it home soon.
  • Nikkiairforcewife
    Nikkiairforcewife Posts: 164 Member
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    Wow - The comments sure got brutal. Military wives do get lonely and feel alone when their husband is deployed. Nothing wrong with asking someone to pray for you no matter the reason. They can either do it or not do it. As for me, I don't like to judge and I have lots of prayers to go around. Hope everything goes well and you have a quick recovery. Hope your husband makes it home soon.

    Ditto.
  • vsetter
    vsetter Posts: 558 Member
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    Sorry folks -- having been diagnosed with breast cancer just one year ago, I can't quite stomach this request. Instead I will send my thoughts to the women that are having breast surgery so that they can stay alive (Breast cancer is the most common cause of death in women aged 35 to 54).
  • Johnnyswife
    Johnnyswife Posts: 1,447 Member
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    Sorry, lol, I do pray, but not for breast implants.:flowerforyou:

    btw..what is wrong with your actual boobs?? They don't look super small...
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
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    Sorry folks -- having been diagnosed with breast cancer just one year ago, I can't quite stomach this request. Instead I will send my thoughts to the women that are having breast surgery so that they can stay alive (Breast cancer is the most common cause of death in women aged 35 to 54).
    My aunt was just diagnosed with breast cancer last week. That's a big part of why this thread sickens me so. I'm glad you seem to have fought it and won!
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
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    I will pray for your boob job if you pray for my manicure. They always cut my cuticles and I worry about sepsis!
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
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    Several years ago I had a breast REDUCTION due to lower back issues. *sigh*
  • LewisFishman
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    Your motivations are your own. I cannot begin to know what they are, even if it were my business. Just remember how beautifully you are created, and that you are already "all that"! That said, and without judgment, I pray a speedy, and easy recovery for you, and that you move forward with your life in grace and wisdom. And I hope the result is everything you hope for, and more--for your health and also your self esteem. Blessings!--LEWIS
  • dlei456
    dlei456 Posts: 201 Member
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    I will pray for your boob job if you pray for my manicure. They always cut my cuticles and I worry about sepsis!

    ^^ This is hilarious. Maybe we could all pray for my next haircut also! :P

    BUT, it seems like you are pretty young, Have you had kids yet? You know you are probably giving up breastfeeding with this surgery. They will be unable to benefit from your immunities and all the other nutrients that are found nowhere else. Breastfed babies tend to be healthier, leaner, more alert, and possibly have a higher IQ later. Or if the surgeon does leave some ducts and nerves intact, you will most likely have probably extra problems breastfeeding, which is hard enough already. Does your husband know you are giving this up?

    Some mothers I know where devastated when they could not breastfeed. But oh well. Good luck with your surgery. It sounds super painful.
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
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    You are seriously asking people to pray for you while you have elective surgery to get your tits enlarged? I don't pray, but if I did, I would certainly save my prayers and good wishes for people who were having life-saving procedures done, or for people who had to have surgery because of circumstances beyond their control.

    I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but this is a choice you have made and this post reeks not only of self-absorption, but also of attention grabbing.

    Good luck with your breast enlargement.
    Seriously. As someone who has repeatedly had life threatening non-elective surgeries starting when I was 3 years old, I can't help but find this offensive.

    But yeah, good luck with that.
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    ladyhawk00 Posts: 2,457 Member
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