Hitting on women in the Gym

Avalonis
Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
edited October 3 in Chit-Chat
Assuming you do it in a non-creeper way (No following them home/to the parking lot, no waiting for them, no breathing heavily in their ear as they try to stretch, no leering, ect)

How do you ladies feel about being hit on in the gym? Is that a no-no, or would you be flattered? I know a lot of women feel "dirty" or "nasty" from being all sweaty and tired.

Many men find sweaty women attractive... something about heaving breasts and whatnot. ;)

So.... chime in! Creepy/no-no, or flattering? (Or neutral, I suppose)

I find that women that are consistent gym-goers have more in common with me, so I would want to hit on them since we have common ground to begin with.
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  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Some old Guys asked me if I ever have been mistaken for Ashley Judd sat at the gym. No clue who she is.
  • LoveleeB
    LoveleeB Posts: 560 Member
    I wouldn't mind. Sure, I feel gross looking but I know that working out makes me feel better about myself so it boosts confidence. I am usually a shy person at first but if someone decent hit on me in a decent, non-creepy way then I would be for it.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
    Being a trainer, I've been hit on many times by my female clients. And some gay men as well. I'm flattered, but taken.
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    Some old Guys asked me if I ever have been mistaken for Ashley Judd sat at the gym. No clue who she is.

    lol... you just told a story, you didn't answer the post! ;)
  • aflane
    aflane Posts: 625 Member
    I don't care for it. I'm at the gym to work out and sweat, not to be made uncomfortable by someone hitting on me. Now I have to go to efforts to avoid that person.
  • chicky89
    chicky89 Posts: 260 Member
    haha go for it!!!! I'd be flattered as hell!!!
  • goodwille
    goodwille Posts: 28
    Ashely Judd is afamous Country Singer who gained fame as part fo the family band The Judds
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    I don't get hit on at the gym. Apparently I am "intimidating".... so I've been told. :huh:
  • martymum
    martymum Posts: 413 Member
    wouldn't bother me...but you'd be chucked out...I go to a girls only gym lol

    martyxx
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    I'd be totally flattered if some guy somehow thought I was attractive while sweaty and gross.
  • juleseybaby
    juleseybaby Posts: 712 Member
    Hmmmm...

    Were I single, I think I would find it flattering as long as it was done in the non-creeper way you mentioned. Especially since I generally do not look all that great (in my opinion) while I am at the gym. I would think that would mean the guy would only be even more pleased once he saw me dressed up for a night out.
  • JodiS75
    JodiS75 Posts: 284
    Ashely Judd is afamous Country Singer who gained fame as part fo the family band The Judds

    Ashley is more famous for her acting than her singing. Her sister (Wynnona) and mom (Naomi) are better known for their singing ;-)
  • ♥_Ellybean_♥
    ♥_Ellybean_♥ Posts: 1,646 Member

    Many men find sweaty women attractive... something about heaving breasts and whatnot. ;)

    OMG this is hilarious!! heaving breasts! ha ha

    Sure why not, we can be all sweaty together! LMAO
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,648 Member
    I think I'd be flattered as long as it wasn't a gross, stalker-type creeper thing. It's nice that men can appreciate women who are healthy and work hard to get in shape, even if they don't look their best at the gym.
  • windyweather88
    windyweather88 Posts: 52
    Personally, I don't really want to talk to anyone when I'm at the gym. However, it is flattering at the same time if not over done. (Seeing someone check you out once - flattering. Seeing them eying you multiple times is super creepy). I recommend trying to talk to them when they aren't in the middle of something - like while running on a treadmill.
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    I don't get hit on at the gym. Apparently I am "intimidating".... so I've been told. :huh:
    (ElExGordo flinches)
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
    Some old Guys asked me if I ever have been mistaken for Ashley Judd sat at the gym. No clue who she is.

    lol... you just told a story, you didn't answer the post! ;)

    ashley-judd-58.jpg
  • Pancake86
    Pancake86 Posts: 94
    If he was yummy fit then wouldn't mind at ALL ;)
  • sjkcarter
    sjkcarter Posts: 417 Member
    Ashely Judd is afamous Country Singer who gained fame as part fo the family band The Judds

    Ashley Judd is a famous atress. Her sister Wynona and Naomi Judd are country singers.
  • juleseybaby
    juleseybaby Posts: 712 Member
    Ashely Judd is afamous Country Singer who gained fame as part fo the family band The Judds

    Ashley is the actress (Double Jeopardy, Kiss the Girls)... Wynona and their mom Naomi are the vocalists.

    Can we call the thread hijack over?

    Now back to Av's original question...

    eta: oops - someone types faster!
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    When I went to the gym I was all business. I put on my headphones and zoned out. I didn't hit on females at the gym. If I saw an attractive lady I'd think good for her keep it up. Maybe I'll see her out and about then hit on her but, not when I'm doing my thing. I did always get guys asking me about my routine,,,,,gawd I hated that. I'm there to train not have social hour
  • NiciS72
    NiciS72 Posts: 1,043 Member
    Even though I'm married I'd be flattered, means I'm getting my mojo back. My caveat would be that as long as it wasn't the sweaty old red dude who stalks the ladies outside the pool.
  • mermx
    mermx Posts: 976
    There was a survey that read most people met there other half at the supermarket...hmmm! I am sure you would rather meet your other half at the gym!

    If he/she is single and you are not doing it in a stakling way, then why not go and have a little chat.:-)
  • Adina81
    Adina81 Posts: 252 Member
    Its flattering.
    End Story. as long as they aren't doing any of the things you pointed out as straight up creeepppyyy.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Definitely dont be a creeper about it. But theres something to be said about someone seeing you sweaty and still finding that attractive thats super flattering.
  • Mallory0418
    Mallory0418 Posts: 723 Member
    It would be very flattering to be hit on at my gross-est! Just don't be a creeper.
  • sweetpunani
    sweetpunani Posts: 86
    It's flattering! Because I am not looking my hottest while at the gym (no makeup, messy hair, sweaty, gym clothes). So to get hit on while I am all natural is a compliment.
  • mandasimba
    mandasimba Posts: 782 Member
    It depends on the guy. If I thought he was attractive, it would be flattering, if I thought he was ugly, it would be creepy ;)

    Of course I'd take anybody... perhaps I'll be a creeper girl.
  • tlilly80
    tlilly80 Posts: 27
    It sort of makes me laugh....I have girlfriends who complain they don't know where to find good men and those same women complain when they get hit on. You can't have it both ways, girls! ;) Talking to people isn't all that hard. And usually if you are tactful enough to let someone who is hitting on you know that you're not interested/taken/ect....things are going to be okay. There are probably tons of great guys in gyms who have the same interests as you (like....getting into shape or staying in shape). Let's not turn this into a world where the only way we can find a date is through internet dating sites. Oh noes!
  • Behipped
    Behipped Posts: 46
    I really hate it. But I tend to be antisocial at the gym. It makes me feel uncomfortable and like I can't perform to my best ability if I feel like someone is staring at me.
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