Hitting on women in the Gym

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  • SmartFunGorgeous
    SmartFunGorgeous Posts: 699 Member
    Flirt away, Romeo! :wink:

    Except I am very shy, so I'd be oblivious that a guy was actually hitting on me, but hey, if at some point I ever figured it out, I'd be like, oh, so THAT's how it's done!
  • fitplease
    fitplease Posts: 647 Member
    I'd tune you out. It's better that you try to get to know me before you drool.
  • JStarnes
    JStarnes Posts: 5,576 Member
    I'd welcome flirting, though I'd be 100% SHOCKED if anybody saw anything more than sweaty, gross, mess of a fat girl @ the gym when they look at me. I'd probably think they were dared to do it. :indifferent:
  • 3ricaAnn
    3ricaAnn Posts: 288
    Ashely Judd is afamous Country Singer who gained fame as part fo the family band The Judds

    Umm actually wynonna was the singer, Ashley is an actress. She played lexi in Where the Heart Is ( I love that movie :)).
  • catrojas
    catrojas Posts: 53 Member
    I'm married, but I always feel super flattered if a guy hits on me, it means I'm sexy:bigsmile: .. the only bad thing is I'm usually really rude to guys that hit on me.. Most of the men here just walk up to you and say some cheesy line and ask for you phone number in a parking lot... So I usually just tell them they have no chance....
  • garlic7girl
    garlic7girl Posts: 2,236 Member
    I am SHOCKED!!!!! I guess I really didn't expect the responses from all the women. Well, I can't stand it. The gym is my sanctuary and I don't need a failed romance or a scorned person ruining my place of refuge! I need peace.
    I have goals and when I workout I need to concentrate to keep the momentum and correct form. Plus, as you can see I need to pretend I am fighting the heinous crimes in the world and kicking butt (my workout) so I need all focus.
    I would be firmly polite but after I have to pull my ear-plug out a second time....you get what you get! Ha!!!!!!!!
  • Crowhorse
    Crowhorse Posts: 394 Member
    I'd be flattered, as long as it wasn't creepy.
  • horseryder77
    horseryder77 Posts: 224 Member
    I'd probably be flattered. To be honest, if he came up to me while I was running on the treadmill (like someone else pointed out) then I might be a bit startled because I do try to get into the zone.. and if it was casual and not creepy, I'd probably give him a shot. Because honestly, about 80% of my life is spent looking pretty.. well, crappy haha. I'm a college student who rides horses 4-7 times a week along with working at a barn and in a lab.. so I'm pretty much always wearing scrubs, riding pants, or work out clothes.
    if a guy hits on me when I'm not looking my best, I'm flattered.

    And if he's charming enough, I'd probably continue talking to him..:flowerforyou:
  • souki19
    souki19 Posts: 58
    i don't mind being hit on, as long as the guy approch me in a good manner !!! and for some reason i find guys that go to the gym and take care of themselves more attractive :P
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I never been hitted on.. Only stared at... But I go when I know hardly anyone is there..
  • laylina
    laylina Posts: 50
    yes, shows all my hard work is paying off!! lol
  • Estela565
    Estela565 Posts: 81
    None of the guys at my gym hit on me :D I do see them looking sometimes but no small talk or watever... Whoever some girls have hit on me in the locker room... That felt really weird ...
  • katherines2230
    katherines2230 Posts: 276 Member
    I have been hit on/flirted with many times at my gym and I find it very flattering. 20 pounds ago I was hardly getting hit on at all!
  • ONE03
    ONE03 Posts: 125 Member
    If someone comes up to me while I'm really focused like at school or at the gym, I usually get pissed off. :explode: I don't show it though, since I know the person didn't mean to interrupt me and is just trying to be friendly.

    I guess wait till I'm done studying or working out is best. :tongue:
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    What am I doing wrong?

    I usually breathe hard, stare, roll my hands together and then laugh in an evil manner.

    It's not working?
  • ABetterBalance
    ABetterBalance Posts: 298
    What am I doing wrong?

    I usually breathe hard, stare, roll my hands together and then laugh in an evil manner.

    It's not working?

    That doesn't work for you? :huh: I find that shocking. Maybe add an eyebrow wiggle and a few grunts. That'll do it! :bigsmile:
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    What am I doing wrong?

    I usually breathe hard, stare, roll my hands together and then laugh in an evil manner.

    It's not working?

    That doesn't work for you? :huh: I find that shocking. Maybe add an eyebrow wiggle and a few grunts. That'll do it! :bigsmile:

    Tonight, I will add that into my technique. It's hard to get just one eyebrow raised though.
  • mandasimba
    mandasimba Posts: 782 Member
    I think you should also flex in the mirror while giving the wiggly eyebrows and grunting to give her a sneak preview of the goods you are offering.
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    I think you should also flex in the mirror while giving the wiggly eyebrows and grunting to give her a sneak preview of the goods you are offering.

    I'm thinking of adding biker shorts to the arsonal of goodness
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