Girls: dating tips. PLEASE.

Fun Date(Best First date): Honestly, the best frist date I have had is just walking down on the boardwalk. We didn't have to worry about how to split a bill or running out of things to say over dinner. We walked down along the water just enjoying each others company without anyone interupting us. It left the whole date open. If the walk went well we could have done dinner or any number of other things. Yet, we sat on a bench and talked for 6 hrs straight.

Romantic Date: I have to say the most romantic date I went on. Was a surpise date down to the waterfire. It may seem silly because there are like 100 people there. Yet, there are cute little gondla boats. Large pits of fire alit on the water. Yet, it was dark and with someone special all the other people just disappeared. There was cute little chandliers hung under the bridges.

Worst Date: I went to the movies with a group of people. It was a date with a friend of a friend. After we got out because they had bought my ticket and dinner they expected be to want to make out with them or more. >.> biggest turn off ever...

Ideal Date: It honestly would be a nice walk down by the water. I don't need food or movies to be impressed by a man. I look for someone who has a brain and is fun to hang out with, over someone that has money. ^.^

I found my most recent boyfriend on plentyoffish.com it is a free online dating website. It allows you email back and forth like match.com or chemistry.com to get to know people before meeting them.

Hehe, my boyfriends best friend found his soon to be wife on plentyoffish.com which is actucally the only reason he tried it =p So it works!

I've heard SO many people finding significant others there.

Maybe I should try it. [:

Maybe then I could find my hockey-loving, fitness-oriented, nutritious-eating, sexybot.

Yes, try it out. My boyfriend is like a 9 which great for me when I am only like a 6 =p

He is buff, works out, and smart >.> So to me he is a sexybot to me ^.^

Haha.

My only requirements are that they will go to the gym with me, respect my intermittent fasting, and love hockey.

And btw: this made me realize I have WAY too many first dates. ]:

Lol, I know right?

And btw: this made me realize I have WAY too many first dates. ]:

Lol, I know right?

And that we just totally took over this boy's thread.

On the plus side, it'll be on recent posts for a while.

Yes, poor boy.

I hope we have helped in some small way ^.^ and Good Luck Again!

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p.s. hush7hush u never told me your name....

and i played hockey for 10 years lol

hehe, sorry jp she lives in MI =p

Haha.

Stop trying to kill his game. ;P

Up here we call that a ****-block.

Oooh, and on half of the Red Wings.

Oooh, and on half of the Red Wings.

crush *kitten*!

Have you seen those boys?

Primarily Patrick Eaves and Darren Helm.

I study psychology at FSU and plan to go to law school. If you read my profile youll see i used to party hard but was recently forced to.... grow up a little. im now at a point in my life where id like to find one girl, not one girl and all her friends. I have been on countless first dates, most of which are dinner dates and i loose interest before dinner makes it to the table. granted, i cant exactly say i have girls chasing after me cause if i did i wouldnt be posting this. im not looking for marriage any time soon, but itd be nice to find love. im extremely outgoing, make friends every where i go, and im ALWAYS open to new things.

Girls, please describe...

your most fun date
your most romantic date
your worst date
most importantly, what is your ideal first date?

furthermore,

im only 5'6". i would like to find a girl whose 5'7" or shorter. most importantly tho, i want a girl who is NON-MATERIALISTIC, a girl who is ok with going on a run at the park or playing tennis on a first date and then seeing where that leads to. any advice on how to find... HER?

Most fun date: My ex took me to Six Flags Over Georgia for a first date. It was only 3 hours away from our hometown, and we had a blast. The drive down was really fun. We sang in the car most of the way there. He paid for the whole trip including separate hotel rooms for the night (we were way too tired to drive back that evening).

Most romanic date: My husband and I did our 1 year anniversary dinner at the same 5-star steakhouse he took me on our first date. It was wonderful to go back to the beginning and remember how far we have come together and how far we have to go together in life.

Worst date: I have two tied for worst. The first one was a date where the guy picked me up in his mom's 1970-something beetle. The floorboard of the car was rotted out. I could see the road passing under my feet. Then his car broke down in front of the homeless mission. The second was a first date with a guy I had met online. We had been talking for a while, and I was really excited to meet him. He seemed really great. I got there, and the guy looked NOTHING like his picture, but I tried to keep positive and see how things would go. He took me to a little coffeeshop where he proceeded to talk incessantly about himself, how great of a lover he was, and eventually went on to discuss his penis at length. At this point, I just got up an went home.

My ideal first date: I love to do something fun on a first date. It takes the romantic pressure off. You just have fun and enjoy spending time together. Dinner date can be good but can also be a lot of pressure to make small talk.

I highly recommend online dating. I met my husband online. It was so nice to be able to read about someone before showing up for a date. It takes a lot of the guesswork out of dating. You know what hobbies they like, what their religious beliefs are, an other general qualities (assuming they aren't lying). Just don't get sucked into the trap of talking too long. After a few weeks of chatting, if you're interested, ask her out and take it to the real world.