Boy Parts & Girl Parts

Iheartsushi
Iheartsushi Posts: 150 Member
edited October 4 in Chit-Chat
Okay this is super random!!

I have a three year old little boy. During potty training we used the terms "pee pee" and "poo poo". Now whenever he sees me after my workout heading to the shower he asks me if I'm going to wash my body and my "wee wee". We've always used the term "wee wee" for boy parts. I had to explain to him that mommies and girls do not have "wee wees" and he asks, "So what you got mommy?"

For the life of me I cannot figure out a term to use to describe girl parts that he would understand. I can't use "pee pee" because we used that for potty training. What do I tell him?! Lol!!!! :noway:
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  • ilovedeadlifts
    ilovedeadlifts Posts: 2,923 Member
    we call little girl parts "noo noo" (sounds like new new)
  • chubby_checkers
    chubby_checkers Posts: 2,352 Member
    my friend taught her daughter "whoo whoo"
  • momma3sweetgirls
    momma3sweetgirls Posts: 743 Member
    Call them what they are: Penis. Vagina.
  • darklord48
    darklord48 Posts: 114 Member
    A friend called it a who-ha
  • ladybug1620
    ladybug1620 Posts: 1,136 Member
    How about vagina? What's wrong with teaching the proper terms? My son hasn't asked about girl parts yet, but he knows his part is called a penis. Although he does prefer to call it a pee pee, which I am fine with.
  • fish119
    fish119 Posts: 67
    "Kitty", tho that may confuse him. I have heard "Bug" and 'who haw" also
  • IndigoVA
    IndigoVA Posts: 164 Member
    I've always used the actual names--penis and vagina--with my kids. I have a boy and a girl. But I do sometimes refer to the general area as "privates."
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    my 5 year old daughter calls her a venus. mostly because she knows that a boy has a penis. i've told her the correct name for hers, but she didn't remember it. and venus rhymes with what her brother has, so it works. plus, it's such a nice name for it! :smile:
  • LisaWeir74
    LisaWeir74 Posts: 88 Member
    We call girl parts "goodies" at our house. Not a good description but works for us.
  • LizC26
    LizC26 Posts: 319 Member
    We call all private parts pee-pee's at our house....LOL
  • Goldenwoof
    Goldenwoof Posts: 535 Member
    When I was a kid, my mother and sister used the term "coo-coo" for girl parts. I have a friend who has never used any playful nicknames for body parts...her daughter has called her vagina "her vagina" ever since she could talk.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I have boys who are 2 and 3, for the most part we just say privates. I have started to use the appropriate terms with the 3 year old because that's what they are.
  • dashnigma
    dashnigma Posts: 35 Member
    Apparently, my daughter refers to it as a "tootie" though I am all for telling kids the correct name, and letting them decide on what word they actually say.
  • Iheartsushi
    Iheartsushi Posts: 150 Member
    He does know the correct names penis and vagina but he uses wee wee more frequently. Also, he's three and "vagina" is a bit difficult for him to say.
  • Iceskatefanrn
    Iceskatefanrn Posts: 489 Member
    Reminds me of a cute story...

    I was sitting on the toilet when my little one walked in on me... he saw me sitting there and he looked right at me and said "Mommy, where is your penis?"

    Before I could reply he then said "OOOohhhh... wait a minute... STAND UP!"

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    we use the correct terms


    which I really honestly regret at this point.

    They are they're favorite words.
  • savethecat
    savethecat Posts: 290 Member
    I don't think there's any harm in teaching the proper terms. My parents taught my siblings and I the correct anatomical names and then referred to them as "privates" from then on. That seemed to work just fine.
  • icandothistrish85
    icandothistrish85 Posts: 116
    My 7, 4 & 1 year old know that they're called Vagina and Penis. It's not innappropriate to teach your children the proper terms. Giving nicknames to those parts can cause a complex for them later in life as adults. They won't feel comfortable calling them what they are, even to their doctors...
  • jonesz922
    jonesz922 Posts: 89 Member
    A friend called it a who-ha

    I hear this one alot, My kids know they have a penis & a vagina, my son calls it his peepee, my daughter calls it her p bum....
    What ever works for your family!
  • LaDiablesse
    LaDiablesse Posts: 862 Member
    We call them "girly bits".
  • Iheartsushi
    Iheartsushi Posts: 150 Member
    my 5 year old daughter calls her a venus. mostly because she knows that a boy has a penis. i've told her the correct name for hers, but she didn't remember it. and venus rhymes with what her brother has, so it works. plus, it's such a nice name for it! :smile:

    That's funny!
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    He does know the correct names penis and vagina but he uses wee wee more frequently. Also, he's three and "vagina" is a bit difficult for him to say.

    How often is he going to be saying vagina?
  • BamaGurl47
    BamaGurl47 Posts: 45
    If i had kids .. i think i would kind of feel weird if my kid said to me "Mommy are you going to go wash your vagina" I think i much rather hear something cute like " Who Ha" or "who who" hahaha .. i dont know.. I never liked the word Vagina .. sounds ugly.
  • ╰☆╮PilatesPOPster╰☆╮
    ╰☆╮PilatesPOPster╰☆╮ Posts: 198
    we've always used "penis" and "vagina" around here. we believe in teaching them proper wording/names for things from the start. but i guess a more "kiddie" term could be "private"
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    I just tell my boys that mommy's pee pee is inside and is different from theirs. They know that the technical term for their part is a penis, but I don' t know that they have asked enough yet to be told about the vag.
  • MassiveDelta
    MassiveDelta Posts: 3,271 Member
    junk
  • BLaurieJ
    BLaurieJ Posts: 7 Member
    I am all for proper names and my so has always called his penis a penis but when my daughter had trouble saying Vagina we started to calls it her Jay- Jay - she know it is short for Vagina.
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    With my kids, I have always been anatomical correct and not giving "pet" names or "child" names.
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I have always called it a cash register. Sorry if I went a little off topic.
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,024 Member
    Well we always went with the penis and vagina for my kids... but now they are a little bit older and refer to it as their junk.
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