Question for the Men of MFP

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  • lilyinlove
    lilyinlove Posts: 441 Member
    Hey where did that nice butt pic go??
  • bluebird321
    bluebird321 Posts: 733 Member
    Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. My only preference is they be healthy and fit -- that doesn't necessarily mean thin.
  • mjsohm
    mjsohm Posts: 40
    I think it's curious that we attempt to shove people's looks into a single category. If asked to do so, I guess reasonably fit would be a good way to do it for me. I've always felt that the ideal weight that you get on the "what you should weigh for your age and height" chart was insurance premium driven to be able to charge a higher rate because the numbers were ridiculously low. Since people's body types are in a various range, then it stands to reason that "ideal" and "sexy" would also vary. My wife has changed a bit over 25 years, after 5 kids, but she is reasonably fit and as graceful and attractive as when we first met. When a lady feels healthy and energetic. When she feels good about herself and feels attractive...that actually radiates from the inside out. Oh, and real women are not airbrushed.....
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    I prefer them to be smiling, its an outward sign of perceived self-confidence and internal satisfaction.
  • Jonna13
    Jonna13 Posts: 288 Member
    When she feels good about herself and feels attractive...that actually radiates from the inside out. Oh, and real women are not airbrushed.....

    ^^^^This. And skinny is gross. I used to be 108lbs at 5'5 and my husband thought being able to feel my ribcage and see my spine was disgusting. After having our daughter and gaining weight, I'm shooting for a healthy more athletic 125-135.
  • Unwrapping_Candy
    Unwrapping_Candy Posts: 487 Member
    I was told by a friend of mine that when you can see a girl's spine or ribs when she stretches - that it's super sexy...

    Personally it's the exact opposite! I find it really nasty when i can see their ribs and spine...really puts me off my stroke, so to speak.

    Absolutely! I like curvy women, and yeah, it's totally possibly to be curvy without being fat. I just feel like women should be natural...scrawny isn't natural. We're not meant to completely lean with no body fat. And I happen to find the no fat look on a woman particularly disgusting. I want to feel like I am with a woman...not a man. If I wanted something lean I'd change my meat preference. ;) But I prefer the 85/15 for sure. :P There are some lesbians out there who go for lean and scrawny, but it's not a very large group. lol

    Cheers!
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    Yeah I'm sure this thread will be 50 pages long by the end of the day but you can't always help your ribs or your spine showing. You're built how you are built.
  • jooleeyah
    jooleeyah Posts: 70
    Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. My only preference is they be healthy and fit -- that doesn't necessarily mean thin.

    Bravo! Wish more men thought like you...
  • BeautyFromPain
    BeautyFromPain Posts: 4,952 Member
    Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. My only preference is they be healthy and fit -- that doesn't necessarily mean thin.

    Bravo! Wish more men thought like you...
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    I like my women with some meat on them, but not fat or obese, just curvy. Anorexic/skeletal, NOT attractive in the slightest.
  • Bakins929
    Bakins929 Posts: 895 Member
    Beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. My only preference is they be healthy and fit -- that doesn't necessarily mean thin.
    ^ What he said!
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    You guys are awesome! Just thought I pop in to say that. Ive been told skinny (bones and all showing) are what is attractive. It doesn't make a curvy girl like me feel any better when a guy tells you that. So you guys are great! :)
  • Espressocycle
    Espressocycle Posts: 2,245 Member
    I guess all guys are different, but I generally prefer some curves. My ideal woman probably is just over the line between normal and overweight. I heard about some study on NPR that suggested that men are sexually attracted to women of any size over super skinny.
  • Birder150
    Birder150 Posts: 677 Member
    You guys are awesome! Just thought I pop in to say that. Ive been told skinny (bones and all showing) are what is attractive. It doesn't make a curvy girl like me feel any better when a guy tells you that. So you guys are great! :)

    It breaks my heart when I see young, beautiful women like yourself doubt their beauty and worth because they aren't a particular size that a random bloke says he likes.
    Other people's standards of beauty should never diminish your own.

    Just think what all the "skinny" women feel when they read posts like this. THEIR beauty is also diminished if they allow some strangers' opinions to rule their self worth.

    With all due respect to the OP, I find these questions troublesome. Someone always comes out a loser.
  • eyoungone05
    eyoungone05 Posts: 119
    I love my girl with some meat on her but I do love girl skinny I need something to grab on ladie :) but they way u r I wudn't change one thing but only the nagging part hahaha
  • eyoungone05
    eyoungone05 Posts: 119
    I love my girl with some meat on her but I do love girl skinny I need something to grab on ladie :) but they way u r I wudn't change one thing but only the nagging part hahaha
  • StevLL
    StevLL Posts: 921 Member
    Gotta have curves and be healthy, no bones please. Spines and ribs showing is not sexy, that seems unhealthy. Sexy is nice eyes, a smile and a great sense of humor.
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    You guys are awesome! Just thought I pop in to say that. Ive been told skinny (bones and all showing) are what is attractive. It doesn't make a curvy girl like me feel any better when a guy tells you that. So you guys are great! :)

    It breaks my heart when I see young, beautiful women like yourself doubt their beauty and worth because they aren't a particular size that a random bloke says he likes.
    Other people's standards of beauty should never diminish your own.

    Just think what all the "skinny" women feel when they read posts like this. THEIR beauty is also diminished if they allow some strangers' opinions to rule their self worth.

    With all due respect to the OP, I find these questions troublesome. Someone always comes out a loser.

    I agree with this. People post this same question over and over again and its really not very nice to those of us who are petite, not because we don't eat but just because we are built like this.
  • KokomoJoe
    KokomoJoe Posts: 435
    As long as she has nice boobs who cares.

    Now back to a serious note, I like rather petite women even tho I am a big guy. 5 foot something, smaller frame is just right for me. And before we get too carried away, personally I most of the sexiness comes from inside, personality, what she likes to do etc and not just how she looks. I have gone out with some smoken hot women in my day and in the end it is all about them because they can make it like that.
  • xboomerx
    xboomerx Posts: 29 Member
    LOL your friend must have a "skeletor" fetish. I find women of all types attractive. I prefer curves personally but I've found athletic woman attractive but ribs and spine :P yuck.
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