RANTING- not for the easily offended

the nerve of some people, seriously

I cannot STAND it when people call thin/skinny people "anorexic"
Like when people ask me "why all my friends are anorexic"
YOU DONT KNOW THEM
you cannot assume a thin person is anorexic
and anorexic is certainly not a synonym for skinny

just because YOU'RE fat doesn't mean thin people are anorexic.
thank you.
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  • the nerve of some people, seriously

    I cannot STAND it when people call thin/skinny people "anorexic"
    Like when people ask me "why all my friends are anorexic"
    YOU DONT KNOW THEM
    you cannot assume a thin person is anorexic
    and anorexic is certainly not a synonym for skinny

    just because YOU'RE fat doesn't mean thin people are anorexic.
    thank you.
    So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?
  • SunshineKisses_2012
    SunshineKisses_2012 Posts: 471 Member
    I completely agree and you look fabulous in your before/after pics!! Great job! I know that took a lot of work and dedication!
  • maidentl
    maidentl Posts: 3,203 Member
    So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?

    Well played.
  • normusnonaliam
    normusnonaliam Posts: 128 Member
    AMEN. It's a very serious accusation to make. I also think it can be especially offensive to those who do struggle with eating disorders.

    Also- you look fabulous!
  • I completely agree and you look fabulous in your before/after pics!! Great job! I know that took a lot of work and dedication!
    thank you:D
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I'm glad you got that off your chest in a place where more people will see it than just the people posting in the Disney thread. :flowerforyou:

    It is rude to call people anorexic. It is also rude to call people fat. Two rudes don't make a polite.
  • normusnonaliam
    normusnonaliam Posts: 128 Member
    So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?

    Well played.

    I honestly don't think she meant to imply that.
  • lvnspoonful
    lvnspoonful Posts: 391 Member
    On a side note - you look great! What a transformation! CONGRATULATIONS!!!
  • [/quote]
    So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?
    [/quote]
    Did I say that?
    no.
    This was a recent personal experience. but thanks
    :bigsmile:
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    A. They were Disney characters not people.
    B. Their waists were the same size as their necks.
  • AZTrailRunner
    AZTrailRunner Posts: 1,199 Member


    just because YOU'RE fat doesn't mean thin people are anorexic.
    thank you.

    Stooping to their level I see. /Rant voided
  • hazelnutflav
    hazelnutflav Posts: 391 Member
    GREATJOB YOU LOOK AMAZING!!!


    and i would never call you anorexic.
  • So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?

    Well played.

    I honestly don't think she meant to imply that.
    thank you. i didn't
    A lot of people who have asked me why my friends were anorexic have been FIT IN SHAPE GUYS. or average weight girls

    i was not calling everyone fat.
    you're just easily taken aback
  • GREATJOB YOU LOOK AMAZING!!!


    and i would never call you anorexic.
    haha thank you! but it's not me that's been called anorexic:D
  • This is not even all about that post. As i said it;s about people calling MY FRIENDS anorexic
    so thanks:D
  • So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?
    [/quote]
    Did I say that?
    no.
    This was a recent personal experience. but thanks
    :bigsmile:
    [/quote]
    "just because YOU'RE fat doesn't mean thin people are anorexic. " Kind of sounds like you said that. But I could of just read it wrong.
  • TO GET SOMETHING STRAIGHT
    I am NOT calling ANYONE ON MFP "fat"
    THIS IS PERSONAL REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE READ THE FREAKING POST
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Two rudes don't make a polite.
    I don't think this is toppable. I certainly can't top it. It's tops.
  • adjones5
    adjones5 Posts: 938 Member
    A. They were Disney characters not people.
    B. Their waists were the same size as their necks.

    hahaha. yes. this is correct.
  • This is not even all about that post. As i said it;s about people calling MY FRIENDS anorexic
    so thanks:D

    That's just jealousy of the person who is calling them anorexic maybe
  • So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?
    Did I say that?
    no.
    This was a recent personal experience. but thanks
    :bigsmile:
    [/quote]
    "just because YOU'RE fat doesn't mean thin people are anorexic. " Kind of sounds like you said that. But I could of just read it wrong.
    [/quote]
    I did not say that "everyone who calls someone anorexic is fat"
    I was saying about one personal experience.
    It was a RANT about something that HAPPENED
    gtfo
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    OP, are you aware that in the disordered eating community UGW stands for Under Goal Weight?
  • leaving now because people are clearly getting touchy and I cannot stand babies
  • oneLessS
    oneLessS Posts: 44 Member
    I'm glad you got that off your chest in a place where more people will see it than just the people posting in the Disney thread. :flowerforyou:

    It is rude to call people anorexic. It is also rude to call people fat. Two rudes don't make a polite.

    Yep.
  • OMG you look amazing - that is all :D
  • Puffins1958
    Puffins1958 Posts: 614 Member
    So all people who call someone anorexic are fat now?

    Well played.
    What they said....DITTO!!!!!
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member
    leaving now because people are clearly getting touchy and I cannot stand babies

    :flowerforyou:
  • woo1324
    woo1324 Posts: 168 Member
    your talking about people using the word anorexic and hurtig your friends feelings how do you think it makes people on a weight loss site feel when you use the word FAT in the way you did it was clearly meant as a insult to those people calling your friends anorexic so you clearly think little of overweight people ,,,, i just dont understand how you can be soooo against name calling and then do it yourself within the same post
  • This is not even all about that post. As i said it;s about people calling MY FRIENDS anorexic
    so thanks:D

    That's just jealousy of the person who is calling them anorexic maybe
    exactly. it's offensive and could be very offensive to actual anorexic people
  • sharonnna
    sharonnna Posts: 21 Member
    You look gorgeous !!!!!! Congratulations. I lost a lot of weight one time and went from like 125 down to 100 pounds. Every body was
    calling me anorexic. OMG!!! How stupid. Sometimes people just want to pick on you like birds pecking. Ignore it, and go on looking
    fantastic.
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