Can good looks guarantee fidelity?

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  • mamijujuphat
    mamijujuphat Posts: 407 Member
    Well let's just say if he likes it & he puts a ring on it... sometimes.. the ring doesn't guarantee fidelity... or the fact that the person is good looking ... if they want to cheat they're gonna cheat sometimes the attraction is more than looks... it's just a way to boost ego... that a person can have whoever they want... & some people play along because they want what they can't have...& see a person that is taken as that.....
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    Honestly, I dont think it can guarantee fidelity, however, I do believe it can have a large impact.

    I was not very attracted to my ex boyfriend...If he were more physically attractive to me (which is really sad since other girls loved the features I didn't like ex. buff, big eyes for an asian, hairy (aftershave)) I probably would have seen past his flaws...

    But I feel I focused on his personality flaws more due to this.

    I believe it is important to only date people you are physically attracted to lol
  • ladylu11
    ladylu11 Posts: 631 Member
    no! Have you seen Jennifer Aniston?
    and IMO Brad Pitt downgraded. Just sayin'
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
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    I think everyone at some point in their life should go out with someone who is extremely good looking but also as mad as a box of frogs (they usually go hand and hand with each other.) That way they can truly realise just how over rated looks are over the long term...
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Strength of Character, Resolve and shared commitment keep a person faithful.

    Money, Looks and desire mean jack *kitten*.
  • rosebarnalice
    rosebarnalice Posts: 3,488 Member
    The two most beautiful women I know both ended up leaving their husbands for infidelity (his not hers).

    The two homeliest women I know are also the two most happily married, and knowing both of their husbands, I know how much their spouses truly love, like, adore, respect, and admire them.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    The two most beautiful women I know both ended up leaving their husbands for infidelity (his not hers).

    The two homeliest women I know are also the two most happily married, and knowing both of their husbands, I know how much their spouses truly love, like, adore, respect, and admire them.

    My point exactly, except in my case, my wife is the looker.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    I was told by a guy friend once:

    No p*ussy is better than new p*ussy.

    Enough said...
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    If looks are the only reason you're with someone, I'd say your odds of cheating are much, much higher than they would be otherwise. So anyone who says he'd remain faithful to a woman because she's hot is an idiot and a liar.
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    "No matter how hot she is, someone, somewhere, is tired of her s***"
    ~On a demotivational poster on the internet somewhere


    Looks don't guarantee happiness or even contentment, particularly when it comes to relationships.
  • Secret_Agent_007
    Secret_Agent_007 Posts: 1,082
    The best looking women do not translate into the best lovers between the sheets. Often quite the opposite is true. That's a common misconception among younger men. Don't get me wrong, if you fail to take care of yourself and chop your hair off your man probably won't find you attractive any more meaning your sex life is headed for the toilet. No / poor sex can lead to infidelity.

    Sex isn't the most important part of marriage but it sure is (or better be) a big part. For both your sakes.
  • MîîśÊmÿłõü
    MîîśÊmÿłõü Posts: 285 Member
    definately not, looks dont gaurantee happiness, love fortune or anything of that matter
    if a mans will is to seek "lust" somewhere else, he will
  • Secret_Agent_007
    Secret_Agent_007 Posts: 1,082


    I believe it is important to only date people you are physically attracted to lol



    Agreed!
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    Liz Hurley, Hugh Grant and Divine Brown. :noway:
  • Grimmerick
    Grimmerick Posts: 3,342 Member
    the answer is easy........that guys an idiot.
  • PBJunky
    PBJunky Posts: 737 Member
    No
    No matter how "good looking" a person is, someone can become sick of their personality, attitude, etc. I learned the hard way.

    This^...
  • umachanxo
    umachanxo Posts: 926 Member
    I don't think so.. but I can't speak for the entirety of the worlds population.
    Personally, though, for me - not just on looks.
  • Shanna_Inc86
    Shanna_Inc86 Posts: 781 Member
    I've had one ex admit to my face that he cheated and showed me a picture of the girl....

    I smacked him upside the head and yelled, "could you have at least cheated on me with someone HOT?! Geezus, she looks like a frickin MAN!!" :laugh:

    Looks have nothing to do with it.
  • Liluth
    Liluth Posts: 84 Member
    No, afraid not. You could be (quantifiably anyway) the hottest man or woman in the world, that doesn't guarantee anything, let alone fidelity.

    There are a lot of factors that go into cheating. If you look online you can find confessions from anonymous men explaining why they cheat (once, twice, the entire relationship) and I can't recall seeing a simple "Because she was hotter". Sometimes it's boredom, sometimes they have different ideas of what a relationship entails, sometimes they don't think at all.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    hell to the no!
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    hahahahahahaha



    no.
  • legmotor
    legmotor Posts: 197 Member
    Cheating is all about the insecurities and shortcomings of the cheater.
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    absolutely not. Looks may have drawn them to said person, but its not a gaurantee to keep them from straying.
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