How to get his attention

Flash him?

well if you see him send him a message stating how he looks, that should get his attention

So I need a bit of insight......

How to gain the guys attention, via facebook/blackberry messenger, when seen out in public to get him thinking about me.

I don't want to be anything but myself but I need an idea/feedback on how to initiate conversation to get us talking.... We have been friends a long time and we talk about random stuff now and then but I need something that stands out...

HELP!

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Send him a message "oh my word there is a hot guy in a black shirt (*describe his clothing*) standing a few meters away from me, what should I do???"....he will likely text back to go say "hi" so then you walk over to him and say "hi" *wink*

Life's too short to obsess. Ask him out for coffee. Basically "I really enjoy your company and I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to go for coffee sometime?"

if you see he out and about smile, say hello and suggest meeting up for coffee or a drink some time :flowerforyou:

P.s you are a beautiful yonng lady if he can't see that he is blind

Good luck and be happy

Showing interest in anything he is interested in always works as an ice breaker. Then he will invite you to share in that interest together. We men are simple and clueless sometimes...reading women is not our strong suit (although some guys talk a good game they still have no idea). It is just a matter of giving them a reason to think about you when u are not around! Good luck!

If he's going to notice you he already has.
If he's already noticed you but doesn't show it, all he needs is a small window of opportunity...a green light from you.
Something simple is usually easiest, and if it turns out he doesn't want to go further its also easy for you to save face.
Perhaps a mild compliment such as " I like the how the color of your tie compliments your eyes". Shows him you noticed him and has a personal touch he can use as an opening to strike up a conversation if he is so inclined.

all great ideas! Be confident, sometimes the girl just has to make the first move. good luck and let us know

Who doesn't like to get attention? Just flat out tell him how you feel. or text him a pic or flirty message any guy I know will respond in kind even if its just fun hit will get his mind going.

Don't be too subtle, men don't do subtle. You may think you're giving him all the signals and he'll think you're just being friendly.

As others have said ask him out for a coffee or go to the Cinema (you don't have to talk too much)

Men don't like mixed signals or interpreting code. I suggest: "Hi. Let's date."

aw man, he's your friend already? this can end bad

Life's too short to obsess. Ask him out for coffee. Basically "I really enjoy your company and I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to go for coffee sometime?"

This. It's 2011, not 1911. Go for what you want.

Sooo moving on from that.....

Any stories of what guys and girls have done in the past to get a love interest attention???Xx

I went with my friend to his girlfriends house to crash a Julia Roberts movie marathon to speak to a girl that was going to me there. We dated and it was the worst relationship i ever had..I now despise Julia Roberts!

Why are you trying to get his attention via Facebook or Blackberry? Maybe I misunderstood your post, but I think a direct approach will get you a lot farther with this guy (or any guy). Personally, I hate when guys try to flirt with me online or via text message. It says to me "I don't like you enough to actually call you or come over and talk to you."

If you've been friends for a while, I don't think it would be weird at all for you to initiate an actual conversation. Ask him to hang out with you. If he says no or comes up with what sounds like a bogus excuse, then you know he's not interested, and you can move on. If he says yes, the door is open.

As for asking him out on a date, I personally wouldn't go that far. Things differ from place to place, but where I'm from, the only guys who like being asked out on dates are the wimps and the *kitten* who don't want to do any of the work. All men like to know ahead of time that there is some interest on your part and that they aren't leaping blindly into the Land of Rejection and Ego Destruction, so it's okay to let a guy know you like him. I'm usually pretty direct about this. Not in a creepy, fatal attraction sort of way, just something simple and honest. But once I've done that, if he still hasn't asked me out, I assume he either isn't interested or that he's so clueless I would end up strangling him inside a month if we ever started dating.