Yours? Or Mine? What's the proper *etiquette*?
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OK- I seriously want some feedback. Here's the scenario:
We go out to dinner and you're paying- your treat, you say.
I order an entree, and right at the beginning- when they deliver the meal- I ask for a take home box- and put 1/2 of it in the box.
Are you perplexed? Do I *appear* rude?
I mention this because this is what I generally now do- if it's more than I feel I want to eat right then- but I do it @ the start so I don't OVEReat.
I'm just wondering if the scenario changed because I didn't *pay* for the meal, it was someone else's treat- so, technically it wasn't "my" food to take home?
We go out to dinner and you're paying- your treat, you say.
I order an entree, and right at the beginning- when they deliver the meal- I ask for a take home box- and put 1/2 of it in the box.
Are you perplexed? Do I *appear* rude?
I mention this because this is what I generally now do- if it's more than I feel I want to eat right then- but I do it @ the start so I don't OVEReat.
I'm just wondering if the scenario changed because I didn't *pay* for the meal, it was someone else's treat- so, technically it wasn't "my" food to take home?
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In my opinion, it would only be rude if you ordered extra to take home. But you order a regular entree, I mean what else are your options? You can't order half an entree. And you don't want to waste the food.0
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Personally, if you told me up front what you were doing and why, I'd be fine with it. Heck, I'd be fine with it even if you didn't tell me...but I would sure be curious
I mean, what am I going to do, take it home myself? lol0 -
the other option would have been to have offered it to the person who paid for it. If I didn't offer, I suppose I could have come across rude.0
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if you had ate the entire meal in one sitting or asked for a take out box after wouldnt both of them be the same as asking for a take out box in the beginning???0
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In my opinion, it would only be rude if you ordered extra to take home. But you order a regular entree, I mean what else are your options? You can't order half an entree. And you don't want to waste the food.
this. but i'd wait until the end to pack it up. it kinda seems that you're already preparing for the end of the date. can't you mentally just split it on the plate?0 -
I do not believe it is rude. What would they do, take your leftovers home??? Would you expect to take home someone else's leftovers home?? Now, if you order another dish to take home, then you should pay for it, but definitely not for something off your own plate.0
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I do the same thing. I don't think it's rude but I guess if it's perceived as rude you could mentally divide up your plate before you start eating then ask for the box. Portions at restaurants are huge these days.0
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First if you were with me, I would have a box right next to yours so there would be no issue.
Second, if you ate 1/2 your meal THEN asked for a to go box, would this person want your leftovers?:huh:
If it was a business dinner, I would not ask for a box at the beginning of the meal. If you are out with a friend, they should understand already where you are at. :flowerforyou:
If it is a first date, they BETTER be from MFP!!:laugh:0 -
Wait until the end. Then, I would assume that you were full, and wanted to take the leftovers home. No need to explain why you're doing it.
Offering half of the leftovers to the other person, though, would be weird to me -- and unhygienic.0 -
I would give you this face ----> -.-.... and then give you this face =.-..... and as you put the food in the homebox this face >.>............. bahahah then I would tell the waiter to take my food back and would take the home box and eat that half..
that's only cause I try to save money.... and im cheap : /... hard times lol
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In all srs tho.. I said I would pay soooo that's what im going to do.. what you do with the food, is up to you....0 -
I agree with above... if you are being treated, and only ordered an entree (and not go over board with appetizer AND entree AND dessert that you can't all eat) and you let them know "Hey, I can't eat all this so I'm gonna pack some of it up to take home" then I don't see how that is rude. It's no different than they buy you a dinner and "OOoooo I'm stuffed, I'll have to take the rest of this home"...0
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I know lots of people who do this; it wouldn't bother me. But, I would would be put out if you ordered a bunch of extra food; say ordered two apps and and entree and then packed up most or all of the entree; I'd feel a bit taken advantage of0
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i think it would be pretty strange if you offered me the other half.
i suppose there are people who would see themselves being taken advantage of in this situation. but in my opinion those people are probably morons.
since this person would be buying me lunch i'm assuming we're friends. and i try not to keep company with morons (unless they're buying me lunch...) so i would like to think this wouldn't be a problem.0 -
If it is a first date, they BETTER be from MFP!!:laugh:
haha love this0 -
I would explain before I even ordered...regardless of whether I was paying or someone else was...A simple.."Hey don't think me weird but I have to pack half my food up before I go over board as I am seriously trying to lose weight" would save any confusion ...You could always order from the appetizer menu instead of the entree menu to save this from happening too...0
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Ok, first off, I didn't think this thread was going to be about splitting up a dinnerbut i'd wait until the end to pack it up. it kinda seems that you're already preparing for the end of the date.
Secondly, I don't think it's rude to take half home or anything (it's one entree, it's yours how & when you want to eat it) BUT I also agree with what's above ^0 -
It's a lot less rude than people that destroy half their food so they won't eat it. There are people that will actually eat half and then pour candle wax or whatever is available on the other half so they don't eat it. -_-
If they bought it for you it is your food. Boxing up half is pretty normal when you're dieting or if you have a small appetite.0 -
I would never expect to take home your extra half of food.
However, unless you were my good friend and I knew you were working on losing weight, I might look at you a little askance as you asked for the box BEFORE you started eating.
If it was a date or a business lunch/dinner, I would wait until the end to ask for a box. Unless you really feel you couldn't control yourself and don't care what the person you are with thinks.
But never would I expect to take home the leftovers from someone elses dinner that I bought them.0 -
In my opinion, it would only be rude if you ordered extra to take home. But you order a regular entree, I mean what else are your options? You can't order half an entree. And you don't want to waste the food.
this. but i'd wait until the end to pack it up. it kinda seems that you're already preparing for the end of the date. can't you mentally just split it on the plate?
Yeah, this is what I do, mainly because it's never physically possible for me to eat more than half.0 -
It's a lot less rude than people that destroy half their food so they won't eat it. There are people that will actually eat half and then pour candle wax or whatever is available on the other half so they don't eat it. -_-
if i was on a date and the person did that, i would seriously get up, settle the bill up front, and walk the FUDGE OUT!!0
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