What kind of MFP friend are YOU looking for?

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  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    I welcome anyone with a sense of humour who isn't evangelical about anything (no atkins, shakeology etc), who isn't going to be critical of whatever choices I make. I am not here for food advice, I am happy with my diet, my weight and my size. The only thing I am not happy with is my lack of any time to exercise!
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    Appreciation for poop and/or fart humor is always good.
  • Strobins05
    Strobins05 Posts: 716
    I like using the message boards to connect with people, but at this point in my weight loss journey, I have only added people as friends who I know in real life. Maybe I'll feel more comfortable later, but right now, I like being left alone. :smile:

    <soapbox> One thing that bothers me is when some MFP users criticize other MFP users who have their food diaries private. To me, keeping track of what I eat and how often I exercise is something I need to do anyway - whether I track it privately on pen and paper or electronically. I joined my MFP for the tracking aspect first, and the social aspect is an added bonus. I don't think I necessarily need to share my food diary to be successful; being accountable to myself is most important. However, I can definitely understand why that works for others. </soapbox>
    Well I've only been using MFP for 38 days and just never opend my food diary. I do not read or commet on other Pals diaries unless I'm looking for more ideas with my daily intake. My goal is to get the push and ideas for new and creative workouts. I have a great group of Pals who do everything from hiking mountains everyday to weight training. And boy have I loved hearing their ideas! So new and refreshing!
  • Bunnyfufu87
    Bunnyfufu87 Posts: 39
    Some one who has been in my shoes
  • shanolap
    shanolap Posts: 1,204 Member
    Appreciation for poop and/or fart humor is always good.

    Stanky Whoopers!!!!

    I look for humor, snarkiness and intelligence. I've got the motivation part down, but really appreciate the support my friends give.
  • Melis25Fit
    Melis25Fit Posts: 811 Member
    I like humor, a little sass, a little something nice to look at never hurts.... someone that is active on the MFP site and isn't just going to sit in the sidelines. Gotta keep up w/ me, ya know?

    Also, someone who has been through what I have, and has similar goals is always nice.
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    I have the perfect collection so I'm not looking -
    but my FL is a culmination of hilarity, motivation, perversion, BM-appreciating, intelligent, mind-gutter residing, hard-working, and overall excellent people who keep me glued to this site.
  • CMmrsfloyd
    CMmrsfloyd Posts: 2,380 Member
    Some one who has been in my shoes

    You mean like a stalker?
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    Some one who has been in my shoes

    You mean like a stalker?

    Or a thief
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    I like inspiration and encouragement from my friends, and I already have a lot of that! My fitness pals are great! :happy: (I love how cheesy that sounds):laugh:
  • _JamieB_
    _JamieB_ Posts: 417 Member
    I don't ask for much...mostly that they like me...I will have to say all my friends are the best :)
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    People who say things like this "if not then that was yesterday, today is the day you run after (the wagon), take a tire tool and beat the *kitten* out of the driver for not watching out for you :) Come on you are my strength, you inspire me to run like hell, your my friend... this to shall pass is what i have to say... love ya"...I need someone to give me straight up encouragement when I need it. I don't want someone that constantly spouts cliches, or unbelievable motivational quotes. I want someone that knows where I'm coming from and is real enough to relate.
  • howajett
    howajett Posts: 15
    I'm looking for information (already have learned so much), affirmation because I don't share my weight loss concerns with anyone other than on here or my husband, to lend an encouraging word or idea to someone else who might need it, and as icing on the cake I like to have a group who's Weightloss goals are at least in the same ballpark as my own so we can celebrate our accomplishments together.
  • BobbyClerici
    BobbyClerici Posts: 813 Member
    I am looking for knowledgeable, goal oriented folks who will hold me accountable - a back pat for success and boot to the butt when I am bad.
    And I also like those who open their diaries, keep them up and log in some good exercises.

    Losers, nut jobs and crybabies need not apply...
  • austepants
    austepants Posts: 356 Member
    I am looking for encouragment, motivation and support. Someone who views my activities and diary and gives me motivating comments and advice. And lets me know if they feel I should or could be doing something different. Any suggestions are usually welcome.
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    Hott ones!!

    hahaha, I'm kidding...sort of. :tongue:
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    Some one who has been in my shoes

    You mean like a stalker?

    Or a thief

    This made me LOL
  • solpwr
    solpwr Posts: 1,039 Member
    I'm not looking for friends. I am happy with the group I have. They are smart, supportive and funny. They are at various levels of fitness, but they all do their best and don't make excuses. They have chosen to learn about nutrition and exercise, and so we all learn from each other.

    My friends are absolutely wonderful.
    What makes you so special that you get all the good friends?
  • KatiD83
    KatiD83 Posts: 152 Member
    i am looking for friends who have been where I am now. Someone who was over 300 lbs, and has lost, or is losing the weight. The ones I've come across only use the site for a week or two then disappear. I can motivate myself, but it's nice to have a few friends who know what it feels like when you can't fit into a chair. I've motivated myself to lose 31 lbs. since 9/1/11, and I've gained alot from MFP!
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    Some one who has been in my shoes

    You mean like a stalker?

    Or a thief

    This made me LOL

    me too!!!


    I just want funny friends. This crap is hard enough.. the whole weight loss/ getting healthier. Yes, WTGs are awesome and I love when I'm congragulated on NSVs, weight loss, etc but make me laugh and you can be my friend forever. I hope to provide the same.
  • Secret_Agent_007
    Secret_Agent_007 Posts: 1,082
    I have the perfect collection so I'm not looking -
    but my FL is a culmination of hilarity, motivation, perversion, BM-appreciating, intelligent, mind-gutter residing, hard-working, and overall excellent people who keep me glued to this site.



    ^^^^ This.
  • Fit4Kateri
    Fit4Kateri Posts: 81 Member
    I am looking for knowledgeable, goal oriented folks who will hold me accountable - a back pat for success and boot to the butt when I am bad.
    And I also like those who open their diaries, keep them up and log in some good exercises.

    Losers, nut jobs and crybabies need not apply...

    This... along with a sense of humor and are not easily offended. I'm pretty close to my goal weight so those that can help me on my path to become one of those "bulky" (ha!) women are much appreciated.
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    someone that is in better shape than me to motivate me more...or someone who uses me as their motivation :)
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    I like friends that are active and encouraging on the site. People that work hard and/or have had success inspire me and keep me going on here.

    P.S. I tend to gravitate towards blondes though I love brunettes and redheads too. I love all my friends – true story! :wink:
  • InfamousMsH
    InfamousMsH Posts: 13 Member
    Agreed! I have enough time motivating myself without being emotionally pummeled by someone's overly rude comment! :flowerforyou:
  • Justjoshin
    Justjoshin Posts: 999 Member
    Seriously, I have an amazing group of friends as is. They each bring something different to the table.
    My friends list growing any larger just makes it harder for me to be the kind of friend they need.

    Attributes of my friends..
    Honesty, Sarcasm, Upbeat, Motivated, Hot (yep i said it), Dedicated, Funny, Outgoing... the list goes on.
    I wouldn't trade any of them.. well ok maybe a few.
  • iamMaLisa
    iamMaLisa Posts: 278 Member
    One that make me laugh....
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    I'm not looking for friends. I am happy with the group I have. They are smart, supportive and funny. They are at various levels of fitness, but they all do their best and don't make excuses. They have chosen to learn about nutrition and exercise, and so we all learn from each other.

    My friends are absolutely wonderful.
    What makes you so special that you get all the good friends?

    I'm a hoarder.
  • directorj
    directorj Posts: 537 Member
    I'm looking for friends who are motivational and inspiring. If I see that you're working towards your goal then I'm going to add you. But if I see that you log on and log back on like a month later I'm taking you off.

    Add me if you're always logging on and posting :laugh:
  • solpwr
    solpwr Posts: 1,039 Member
    I'm not looking for friends. I am happy with the group I have. They are smart, supportive and funny. They are at various levels of fitness, but they all do their best and don't make excuses. They have chosen to learn about nutrition and exercise, and so we all learn from each other.

    My friends are absolutely wonderful.
    What makes you so special that you get all the good friends?

    I'm a hoarder.

    And everyone knows hoarders ARE special.
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