Wish MFP had a "single" status button like FB...

Jeneba
Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
edited October 6 in Chit-Chat
This is waaaaaayyyyy overdue! Time to move on!!! Please celebrate with me!!! :heart:
I am tired of all the subtle put-downs and the neglect and the "hoovering" behavior designed to scoop me back into the abuse because HE is upset that I am "gone..." Whew!!! Enough is Enough!!!
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  • blueandigo
    blueandigo Posts: 296
    Now I am gonna assume you did the leaving because if he did I know that America is really in its dying stage.
  • LuciaLongIsland
    LuciaLongIsland Posts: 815 Member
    Huh???:huh:
  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    It is in its dying stage.... The man has deep-seated issues and I finally figured out that there is more to life than someone who drags you down.... Thanks for reading!!!
  • voluptas63
    voluptas63 Posts: 602 Member
    Vague is never fun.
  • kimoRUN
    kimoRUN Posts: 325 Member
    "DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORDS THAT ARE COMING OUT OF MY MOUTH!!!!"
  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    No, I don't. Do you have anything supportive to say or would you prefer to make fun of someone... It is your choice.
  • TheAncientMariner
    TheAncientMariner Posts: 444 Member
    Congrats on the release of the extra baggage. Everyone has problems and sometimes you can just do bad by yourself. Good luck!
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
    Now I am gonna assume you did the leaving because if he did I know that America is really in its dying stage.

    yay Trent Reznor
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    This is waaaaaayyyyy overdue! Time to move on!!! Please celebrate with me!!! :heart:
    I am tired of all the subtle put-downs and the neglect and the "hoovering" behavior designed to scoop me back into the abuse because HE is upset that I am "gone..." Whew!!! Enough is Enough!!!
    Being fit opens doors; it makes us realize that we're not trapped in any domestic situation.

    Again, that applies to the fit - not obese.
    There are plenty of fish in the sea for those ready to be their best in terms of health and fitness. That's the first impression we make.

    Glad to hear you shrugged off the shackles of a toxic relationship.

    That stampeding you hear are all those guys who want to be his replacement.:flowerforyou:
  • Phoenix1401
    Phoenix1401 Posts: 711 Member
    I'm....confused...
  • Pollywog39
    Pollywog39 Posts: 1,730 Member
    AMEN, SISTA!

    Good for YOU for leaving a bad situation................

    I did the same - almost 11 years ago - and it saved my life, my sanity, my soul.

    Now - DON'T LOOK BACK!!! Life is good without dysfunction...........a New year, a New Life!!!

    Bless you :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    Thanks, Everyone! You are really helping me & bringing tears of gratitude to my eyes!!!
  • Jeff92se
    Jeff92se Posts: 3,369 Member
    I'd lift you up.
  • Redfieldr
    Redfieldr Posts: 37
    There really is something liberating about changing your status to single, isn't there? :)

    Honestly, when enough is enough and you are ready to walk quietly towards the microphone at the front of the stage, clear your throat deliberately, then toss a finger in the air and announce to the world "I'm done with the BS" it really does ground you firmly back in place and make you feel like you're taking back control.

    Good for you, darlin'.
  • kimoRUN
    kimoRUN Posts: 325 Member
    No, I don't. Do you have anything supportive to say or would you prefer to make fun of someone... It is your choice.

    Oops... My apologies. Was meant to the previous poster that didn't seem to know what you were talking about. But with that... Congrats on making thhe bold move to move on to greater things. :flowerforyou:
  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    No, I don't. Do you have anything supportive to say or would you prefer to make fun of someone... It is your choice.

    Oops... My apologies. Was meant to the previous poster that didn't seem to know what you were talking about. But with that... Congrats on making thhe bold move to move on to greater things. :flowerforyou:

    Thanks! I apologize.... Was in a pret-ty crabby mood....
  • hjohns65
    hjohns65 Posts: 66 Member
    Try reading "why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft, whether he was abusive or not, it still helps, and it can help you move on! good luck! you can add me if you'd like!
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I wish FB had a Food Diary Option.
  • laurastrait21
    laurastrait21 Posts: 307 Member
    single and FABULOUS, and you'll never have looked better. cheers (with a club soda) to the new you, babe!
  • CaptainGordo
    CaptainGordo Posts: 4,437 Member
    This is waaaaaayyyyy overdue! Time to move on!!! Please celebrate with me!!! :heart:
    I am tired of all the subtle put-downs and the neglect and the "hoovering" behavior designed to scoop me back into the abuse because HE is upset that I am "gone..." Whew!!! Enough is Enough!!!
    "Hoovering" -- like vacuuming? Sorry, I'm confused.
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    that'd be nice (although i seriously doubt it'll happen) however i WOULD like to see an option to add height.
  • Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused
    Sublimely_Self_Righteousreused Posts: 935 Member
    Well said. I don't know what the hell you're talking about, but you said it well!
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    "DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORDS THAT ARE COMING OUT OF MY MOUTH!!!!"

    lol that's what I was thinking. :laugh:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    Vague is never fun.

    I like your boobs.

    Clear?
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    OP...have fun are your new journey as a single lady! Great things await you! =)
  • ashleynicoleb
    ashleynicoleb Posts: 376 Member
    Well said. I don't know what the hell you're talking about, but you said it well!

    haha :tongue:
  • dapst3r
    dapst3r Posts: 20
    Good for you move forward, don't look back.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    This is waaaaaayyyyy overdue! Time to move on!!! Please celebrate with me!!! :heart:
    I am tired of all the subtle put-downs and the neglect and the "hoovering" behavior designed to scoop me back into the abuse because HE is upset that I am "gone..." Whew!!! Enough is Enough!!!
    "Hoovering" -- like vacuuming? Sorry, I'm confused.

    That's no reason to leave if it's hoovering.
  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    "Hoovering" is a term used to describe the behavior of people with Borderline Personality Disorder. When the BP thinks that he or she is about to lose a relationship, they suddenly begin to act passionate and loving and sweet... But it isn't because they FEEL loving and passionalte and sweet - it's because they are TERRIFIED of being abandonned and will do anything it takes to avoid it. This time I am not going to fall for it. Thanks for reading!
  • polarlove
    polarlove Posts: 72 Member
    i WOULD like to see an option to add height.

    yes! that would make a lot of sense
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